K.S. asks from Kansas City, MO on October 09, 2009
Teachers Birthday
Hello wonderful moms, I just love everyone thoughts & opinions on here, so I have another one for you all. This is the first year my dauther is in preschool. Before we always did at home daycare. So here's the questions. The teacher just sent out the classrooms October Calender and she had on there her birthday & the assitants birthday. So do i need to get them a present? Is is expected or not? and if so, what kind of present. I'm not good at buying presents so I don't even know where to begen or a price range? Anything thought would be great!
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L.B. answers from St. Joseph on October 14, 2009
Hmmm, I think it was a little crass to put that on the calendar...it's one thing to tell the kids in class because they've asked..it's another to volunteer the information. It's almost like she expects to get something. If you feel obliged to do something I would keep it under $10...remember, they'll still get you for X-mas, teacher appreciation day, and end of school year. Frankly, I'd send a plate of cookies/cupcakes so the whole class can celebrate just like they do for everyone else's birthday...no one else get's presents...don't see why the teacher should either.
If you do feel like you need to...here are things that I have given my kids teachers: Bath & Body (lotion, shower gel, body spray, hand sanitizer), cute teacher stationery (thank you cards, post-it notes), teaching supplies (pencils, awards, name cards, bingo games, stickers, stamps, flash cards, etc. to use with the students), a tote bag with their name embroidered on it (great for field trips), a coffee/tea mug with their favorite stuffed in it (coffee, hot chocolate, tea, etc.), jar of candy for their desk for when they need a pick me up & gift certificates to Scholastic to buy books for their classroom.
L.B. answers from St. Louis on October 13, 2009
I never bought the teachers gifts for that. Sometimes at the end of the year I would get them something if they had made a positive impact on my children.
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K.B. answers from Kansas City on October 09, 2009
I have never taken it to be expected but I just usually get a little something for them. I sell Pampered Chef and purchase a couple of the great but smaller pieces for about $15 total. If you like the idea here is my website... www.pamperedchef.biz/B.
If you are local- Near Olathe KS call me and I can add the order to a party to save you on shipping.
Here is what I usually get for them- Two $4 rubs, $1 Seasons Best Cookbook, $1 Citrus Peeler (they are so popular!)
Good luck!
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B.B. answers from St. Louis on October 09, 2009
At least a card (maybe made by your child) would be nice, but remember, you may want to get the teachers a present at Christmas and I've also given gifts at the end of the year as a thank you. So, keep in mind that you have two teachers - two Christmas presents, two end of the year presents (if you do that) and two b-day presents. It adds up, but you do appreciate their job!
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K.B. answers from Kansas City on October 09, 2009
Have your child make a card or draw her a picture
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M.M. answers from Kansas City on October 10, 2009
I agree that it is unnecessary to buy anything. Have your daughter draw her a picture or make a card. Here's a link for some cute printable cards she can color: http://www.fisher-price.com/fp.aspx?st=30&e=printcard....
I would guess the birthday is probably on there because all birthdays are on the monthly calendar, including the children, but maybe just the staff. It also might serve as a reminder to others (staff) as to days they may want to take off. HTH!
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J.P. answers from St. Louis on October 10, 2009
As a former teacher, now stay at home mom, I can tell you that gifts were never expected, but always truly appreciated. It was so nice to feel appreciated for the work I was doing - just a card was nice. Gift cards are by far the BEST gift for a teacher any time of the year. Teachers spend so much of their own money in the classroom, so it is a perfect gift. Even $5 is helpful it's the gesture and thought that counts. Ideas for giftcards - Borders bookstore, Bradburns teacher store, Starbucks, QT, Subway, Bread Co., Walmart or Target are all great ideas. Good luck.
N.F. answers from St. Louis on October 10, 2009
Hi K.,
I would have your daughter make her a Birthday card, and for Christmas let your daughter make her something like a bead necklace, bracelet or a maccoroni necklace.
All of us grownups love those types of things - my granddaughter is 5 and every time she sees me wearing the little bead bracelet she made me she just glows!
It's great that you are so thoughtfull!
N.
T.R. answers from St. Louis on October 10, 2009
I am currently an elementary teacher. I would guess that the teacher included her birthdate in the calendar for grins, not for gifts.
If you want to give her a little something a card, balloons, or a small gift card would be greatly appreciated. I would hold off until Christmas, then get her a gift card. Remember that teachers do NOT need candles, or mugs, or Christmas ornaments. Those tend to be in abundance on shelves at teachers' homes.
K.H. answers from St. Louis on October 12, 2009
I never bought birthday gifts for my daughter's daycare teachers, but for Christmas I have always baked cookies and put them in a pretty box or tin to give to them. I usually go to home goods and buy one of the smaller decorative boxes (like hat boxes). I put the cookies in a large ziploc baggie to keep them fresh and then put the bag of cookies in the box.
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