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Tanning - Pocatello, ID

Hi moms, I just had some questions about tanning. I am very fair skinned and have never really tanned before, but I'm going to be in a wedding at the end of June and I don't want to be "glowing" in all the pictures like the last wedding I was in. Every one else had tanned before the wedding so I felt a little silly. Anyway, I don't want to be really dark, I just want a bit of color. Should a tan a little in tanning beds or should I get a spray tan? Would a spray tan look natural? Thanks!

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The gradual tanning lotions have always worked really well for me and have never left me looking orange or anything weird like some spray tans do. I've heard good things about mystic tan also, but never tried it. Good luck!

Definitely do the spray tan if you must look tan. My sister-in-law just had a mole that was diagnosed as melanoma removed and luckily they caught it in time and it hadn't spread. However she did have a pretty good chunk of her thigh removed. She use to frequent tanning beds. When the doctor was giving her instructions, one thing he said was, "Do everything you can to shut down every tanning salon you see." As for the spray tan - they are great! I did it just before a vacation and looked great and was easy. After about a week it started to wear off and looked a little splotchy, but it wasn't a big deal.

lotion tans work great, I use Banana Boat and it looks very even and real. Try it out now, then you will know how much to use before the wedding.

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Either a spray on tan or a self tanning lotion (I know a really good tanning lotion that will look natural, contact me for deatils).

DO NOT go to a tanning salon. It is no safter than the sun. Sun exposure is the #1 way to prematurely age your skin. It's the same thing that makes it dark, so don't think that tanning in a bed is any safer. It's not. Plus, you're putting yourself at risk for skin cancer, the most preventable cancer out there. It's not worth it for a couple of pictures.

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Please don't do this. I am 39 now and so wish I had stayed out of the sun more! The sun is soooo bad for your skin, especially in Colorado. And I think the tanning beds are even worse! I go to the Dermatoligist every year and she always talks about how bad the sun is for your skin. Get some of the lotions that give you the color! And just get it at the drug store, Consumer Reports I'm sure has a review of this stuff! Good luck!

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Hi K.,
I would definitely go the spray tan route. Please don't even consider a tanning bed or laying out in the sun. That lovely tan color we all love so much is damage to you skin, and those of us with fair skin are more likely to develop to skin cancers. I work for a plastic surgeon and we have many patient who come to our office for removal of suspicious lesions which turn out to be cancerous. Some of these people are in their 20s and 30s. It just isn't worth it.
Try a spray tan or at home product now to get comfortable with it and make sure you look the way you want.

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I would test different sunless options out before hand so you don't look orange for the wedding. I like the foam that Neutragena makes. It has a bronzer as well so you can see where you got it. First use a body scrub to remove dead skin, then put on regular lotion making sure to put a lot around knees, ankles and elbows. Don't rub the lotion in. Then put on the foam. Rub it in really well trying to keep it even and only barely going over knees, ankles and elbows once. Let it all dry and then use a dry towel to kind of "buff" off a little of the bronzer because it will get on your clothing. I hope that helps.

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Hi K.,
I know it stinks being the "white one", but the risks are even worse. Tanning beds are definitely a NO! Some lotions are safe, but research them first. If you have fair skin, you are at a higher risk of melanoma. I was diagnosed with melanoma at 25, I had 3 little girls and was 10 weeks pregnant. Luckily after lots of tests and a pretty major surgery, the doctors were able to remove everything. It's not worth it, the best thing is just to love the skin you're in and PROTECT it!

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As a 30-year-old "artic princess" myself, my best advice is to be your brilliant self. If you want to avoid reflecting too much flash in photos, just bruch your skin with a body powder. They even sometimes come with perfume scents. And some of them have a tiny bit of bronzing powder that can also cut down your reflectivity. Overall however, I advise you to love your skin, no matter what. Isn't that what we tell everyone else? And I bet everyone who knows and loves you would rather see the "real" you in the photos than a tanned substitute. Have fun at the wedding!

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Speaking from a former tanning bed person, DO NOT GO TO A TANNING bed, that is worse then sun exposure for melanoma risk. Go get a spray tan. You can look up online on cosmeticdatabase.com on the chemicals involved in ones you get at home. I don't know the risk factors on those. But I would say a spray tan is SO much better for your skin and health than a tanning bed by far. The last time I was in a tanning bed they had switched to high bulbs without letting me know and I stayed in for the amount of time I did with the medium beds, I got 2nd degree burns all over my body, had to go to the ER and it was horrible! I am more now at risk of skin cancer by this bad burn then ever! I am not even fair skinned but I will NEVER go to another tanning bed again. Since you sign a waiver when you go to these places I couldn't even sue them. Look online too for the ratings and what tanning beds can do to your skin.
I realize it is a one time thing so you have some color, but go for the spray tan, they last a few weeks and I think are much better way to go!

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Hey, K., I feel your pain. I like to joke that you can call my skin color "pastey shark bait" or "porcelain, like Nicole Kidman," depending how you feel about it.
I barely tan naturally, but I have had good luck taking the "glow" off with moisturizers with a bit of self-tanner in them, such as Jergen's. It is just a little bit, though. But, I have also had great luck with spray tans at salons. Just surrender your modesty and dignity for a few minutes and go for it. I kind of get a kick out of having a white bum and tan lines there, since I am usually white all over. ;) Some people go naked; I keep my undies on. I do recommend you have a human being apply the spray, NOT a machine or a booth--the results will be more even. Also, do it a couple days beforehand because you're not supposed to shower for 12 to 24 hours after to let it all dry. If you tell the person who's applying the mist that you just want *some* color but don't need to look "dark," you'll get it just right. My "tans" have lasted a full week and as they start to fade you can exfoliate in the shower and avoid any blotchiness. It's totally worth the $30 or so to avoid feeling self-conscious and have fun for a special occasion. The only thing that looks fake about a spray tan is that you're not usually tan, so people who know you well will be onto you. But I've never looked orange or streaky with a spray tan.
Skip the tanning beds. My mother-in-law died of melanoma at age 50. Avoiding self-consciousness is worth about $30, but definitely not such a dramtically increased risk of cancer.
Have a great time!

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