J.L. asks from Cleveland, OH on January 25, 2010
Swaddle - Cleveland,OH
I have a 10 week old baby who loves to be swaddled. My older son hated it, so it took us a few weeks until we tried it with the second one. He sleeps so much better with it. My question is: how long can he be swaddled? Is it that the longer we wait, the harder it will be to break him of the dependence? We value sleep in our house and I am a firm believer in a good sleep and good naps are the cornerstone to a happy child.
Also does anyone have any suggestions on how to wean him from the swaddle? How did you do it?
I am not ready to do it now, but wondering for the future.
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J.P. answers from Dallas on January 25, 2010
I swaddled my daughter till she was between 9-10 months old when she weaned herself from it. We used the Miracle Blanket.
R.R. answers from Los Angeles on January 25, 2010
My son loved being swaddled very tightly. Everyone thought we were such strange parents and some people would say things like "when is he going to learn to sleep without the swaddle?" well we didn't worry, we knew he liked sleeping that way and it calmed him immediately. When he was about 7 months old, he started getting out and resisting the swaddle. We kind of just quit doing it one day and he has slept fine without it ever since. Like the other moms, I think he'll let you know! :) good luck and don't worry if he keeps up with it for several months, he'll be just fine!
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E.C. answers from Salt Lake City on January 25, 2010
We swaddled my older daughter for 10 months using the Miracle Blanket. At 10 months, she was too big for the blanket, so we knew we had to "wean" her off it. I wish they came in larger sizes! That was THE best blanket. I just started to gradually swaddle her looser. And eventually I left an arm out, then both arms out, etc. It took a while, but she adjusted smoothly. My younger daughter hated to be swaddled. It was so sad to get rid of my Mircacle Blanket.
A.V. answers from Indianapolis on January 26, 2010
J., honestly, I would swaddle as long as your baby likes to be swaddled. Just pay attention to his sleeping habbits. Has he started to roll over? If so, it might be time to transition. You can do that my getting a swaddle blanket (such as the Halo blanket or kiddopadomus) and just swaddling him, all except his arms. But swaddling is such a soothing thing for most babies, its ok to do it!
Good luck!
A. V.
A.C. answers from Cincinnati on January 25, 2010
My son loved to be swaddled, too. We swaddled him until he was old enough to roll over, because he would roll onto his tummy and not be able to use his arms to roll back over, which scared me! It took us about a week to wean him off swaddling, and there were a couple of sleepless nights in there, but it was okay.
I think he was about 5-months old when we weaned him. We pulled one arm out of the swaddle and kept the other in for a couple of nights. By the end, he was freeing his second army himself. I still use baby-in-a-bags for him to sleep in even now (I like them a lot better than blankets). Good luck.
S.M. answers from Indianapolis on January 26, 2010
Neither of my girls were ever "dependent" on being swaddled. THey start to be able to move more and got themselves out on their own. It didn't seem to bother them, they just could move more. My girls loved being swaddled too, but didn't seem to mind not being swaddled when they were old enough to break free of it. Then I would find them in the morning with their arms free, still asleep. Then when they started to turn over it was just something that they didn't need anymore. THere wasn't weaning. I don't imagine that is something you will have to deal with. If you value sleep (as we REALLY do) I suggest the book, "12 hours sleep by 12 weeks old". I loved it and as promised both of my girls sleep 12 hours a night with a 2 hour nap during the day.
R.S. answers from Portland on January 25, 2010
My boy loved to be swaddled. After a few months (around 16 weeks) he started moving so much that he was getting his arms out and got frustrated if he couldn't. I tried letting his arms out one at a time... didn't take long until I moved him over to the sleepbag. I feel there is no need to push him out of it though... he'll just outgrow it and will ask you to stop swaddling him.
I say when something works, just stick to it. Once it stops working, look then at how you can change the situation to make things go back to normal... sleeping!
E.H. answers from Madison on January 25, 2010
I don't see anything wrong with swaddling a baby as long as they want... Doesn't everyone enjoy being wrapped up in blankets? I don't care if it's 100 degrees outside, I have to sleep with a blanket... the sheets are just to light and I don't feel comfortable.
S.M. answers from Cleveland on January 26, 2010
I swaddled my daughter until she was four months. By that point she was wiggling her arms out of the swaddle so I decided to try laying her down without swaddling and she slept through the night. She basically weened herself out of it when she was ready.
PS. I was worried about the same thing but like I said she weened herself out of it. All of my friends that swaddled seem to have had the same experience. Their baby's just outgrew the need for it at some point and they stopped.
C.N. answers from Cleveland on January 26, 2010
I swaddled my older son until he was 11 months old and he broke himself of the habit. He slept great and we too believe that sleep is what makes a happy child and parents too! My younger son only would let us swaddle him until about 6 months but then did transistion to the Halo Sleep Sacks until about 11 months or so. And as for how long, I have a friend whose daughter liked to be swaddled until she was about 19 months. So do what makes your baby happy :)
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