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SUV Vs. Minivan

Okay...my husband and I are in the process of looking for a larger vehicle (anyone know anyone who wants to buy a 2004 Toyota Camry?lol) our Camry is great for our one child, but we are thinking about baby #2 and want to get either a Minivan (Odyssey or Sienna?) or an SUV of some sort.

So, my question(s) would be...If we go the minivan route...I need "real life/real mom" comparisons on the two we are considering, the Honda Odyssey or the Toyota Sienna...pros? cons? What do you think?

OR if we go with the SUV...which has more room? Better gas mileage? What is the safety records vs a minivan? Any ideas? Pros? Cons?

Just needing a bit of help and if anyone has any comparison websites to recommend, I would appreciate it! :)

What can I do next?

So What Happened?™

Well...first, thanks to everyone for their input. We went with the Honda Odyssey minivan. And so far...we LOVE it. :) so much more room than our Camry. However, now the pressure is on for us to have baby number 2! :)

Thanks to everyone for their input.

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You didn't say where you live, so this may not even be a concern for you. I'm in Reno. I have a Yukon. I absolutely will not have a minivan because my Yukon has real 4 wheel drive, the kind that you can switch from rear-wheel to all 4 (4 hi, 4 lo) and a full-time AWD option. I've found AWD isn't the same as true 4-WD. In snow, in ice, I get around great! I see people in minivans spinning on icy spots and fishtailing. I don't have that problem. The gas mileage in a Yukon sucks, but I'll trade it for the ability to get where I need to go anytime in any weather. We drive everywhere in it, including over Donner Pass down to the Bay area and it's comfortable, plenty of room for kids, stroller, toys, bags, and the dog (German Shepherd).

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first let me tell you my opinion is biased my husband works for Toyotas national headquartes. as for suvs mine is the Toyota 4 runner it seats 7 people same as the sienna minivan the seats in the back fold up to the sides when you dont need them and lock down when you do, the highlander (which is smaller) can seat 7 its seats fold down into the bottom of the car when you dont need it. My 4 runner gets 20 miles per gallon. the sienna and highlander gets 26. and the 2 larger suvs seqouia and landcruiser seat 8 people and get about 18mpg.

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Hi!
I actually just made the transition from my husbands SUV (he was driving the car) =) and bought a mini-van. I did the research mostly because I didn't really want a mini van in the first place. I found the Odessey and Sienna are very similiar and nice. Then I looked at a Nissan Qwest. It wasn't even on my radar, but then I drove it! I love it! The only thing I can say is to buy newer (after 2005), they made some major changes. We found that we could buy brand new for a similar price to a used Odessey or Sienna. Especially if you go through Costco.

Regardless, and I can't believe I'm saying this, I would go the mini-van route. There isn't any lifting into car seats, the sliding doors are great, and the bucket seats in the back are great for multiple car seats. getting the kids in and out is easy and on the same "standing" level so there isn't any hoisting to get into a seat.

Good Luck!

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S.,
I think we can all relate. :) We had a Subaru Outback with just our two kids. It was a perfect vehicle for us. It had room to haul around all the gear we needed while still allowing us to have a car with good gas mileage and it was still AWD. However, we had to give that up with three kids - we went with the Toyota Sienna. For minivans, it's awesome. Great car, good price, decent gas mileage. The bonus to a minivan versus an SUV is it's so much easier to load the kids. You open ONE door versus runnning between two sides of the car. Also, you have room to change a diaper in the car versus the tighter squeeze in a car or SUV. Plus the vans are shorter to the ground making it easier for the kids to get in themselves when you have your hands full (and less chance for accidents).

Many people have a hard time getting past the stereo type of the "minivan mom", but there are millions on the road for a reason. :) I wish you the best of luck!

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Hi!
I actually just made the transition from my husbands SUV (he was driving the car) =) and bought a mini-van. I did the research mostly because I didn't really want a mini van in the first place. I found the Odessey and Sienna are very similiar and nice. Then I looked at a Nissan Qwest. It wasn't even on my radar, but then I drove it! I love it! The only thing I can say is to buy newer (after 2005), they made some major changes. We found that we could buy brand new for a similar price to a used Odessey or Sienna. Especially if you go through Costco.

Regardless, and I can't believe I'm saying this, I would go the mini-van route. There isn't any lifting into car seats, the sliding doors are great, and the bucket seats in the back are great for multiple car seats. getting the kids in and out is easy and on the same "standing" level so there isn't any hoisting to get into a seat.

Good Luck!

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My best friend has a suzuki XL7 it is a 7 passenger small suv and she loves it. the gas mileage is comparable to the minivan my mom has. We are looking at a Dodge Durango. It is a bigger suv but not as big as the epidition or the suburban so it rides and parks easier. they have a 3rd row seat option to seat 8. It takes a bit more gas than a minivan but has more power. My friends mom had a sienna and when they got rearended the floor buckled and all of the seat broke free if the children had been in the car they would have been seriously injured possibly worse. That is all I know about any of these vehicle.s

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Hi S., I have had both I first had a toyota sienna and I loved that van.it was great on gas milage I felt safe in it.so you might want to consider that especially with gas prices so high.what i did was i went to the dealerships that i was interested in and i got brochures on those auto's and read them over and compared. then I sold my van when I moved up to Alaska and now i own a ford expedition its a heavier suv but the gas milage is terriable right now with the gas prices.it sits 8 people just like the van does some vanes I guess can hold a liitle more but you just have to check around.we only have 2 children so my suv is fine for us.I other thing I did was check with our insurance company about the vehicles we were looking at. that helps alot for premiums. I think it all boils down to your preference and what all you want to use the vehicle for. my suv we use for hauling a trailer.ect so maybe take all of that into consideration as well.I am sure you might be able to haul trailers and other things but it might depend on the lbs you are hauling. and the other is price of vehicle what do you want to spend? well I hope I helped you a little with some ideas. good luck on your request.~L.~

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hi S.

while the minivan image wasn't quite as cool, i am a practical person so we went for the sienna. i'd heard vans were much easier to load strollers and get carseats into. also it seemed like every SUV i got into had that rollover warning on the sun visor and that freaked me out.

it's a close call between the odyssey and the sienna. i think they're running neck and neck with the options these days. (we bought a 2004.) here were a few options that were available on our sienna but not on our friends' odyssey at the time:
-the windows in the odyssey's doors didn't go down and i really like that feature.
-the 3rd row seat (odyssey) did not have a split so either you had to put down the whole thing or leave it up.
-the door tracks on the sienna aren't as obvious
-the rear door on the sienna is automatic. this is a lifesaver when you've got a baby on one arm. just give a little tug on the handle and down it goes. or you can push the button on your keychain.

if you're an audiophile, you should know that the sound system is not great in the 2nd and 3rd rows in either but seemed slightly better in the sienna.

our friends got the factory DVD option which comes in the ceiling. it has a crummy screen and is another visual obstacle (in addition to the headrests) when you're trying to look out the rear view mirror.

in either van, if you're looking for a DVD player, i'd suggest getting it put in after-the-fact. they charge too much for this option and don't give you the best stuff. plus you can have it put in the back of your headrests.

our friends did get the navigation package on theirs. it is very nice and sometimes i do wish we had one as we recently moved and i'm getting lost a lot in our new town. (on the plus side, i'm getting to know where all the streets are.) we looked at this package on the sienna (XLE i think?) but it was $8000 more. it included a sun/moon roof and a rear camera for backing up plus the factory DVD. too much for those options in our opinion.

one thing i do find annoying in ours is that when you lay down the seats, the armrests don't go any lower so if you wanted to put your arms on the armrest, you'd have them pointing at the ceiling. probably the same in the odyssey.

another thing i wish mine did was to have the 2nd row seats go into the floor. there is a minivan out there that does this and it would be really handy when we want to move big things. you can take out the seats but they are really have and you have to plan ahead. no good for big impulse purchases.

oh and the sienna drives just like a camry because it's built on the same frame. we had a camry before too.

bottom line is that you can't go wrong with either minivan so it will come down to options & $. i think they both retain their value fairly well so are good for resale when you're ready to get a 'cool' car.

as to safety, again i think they're pretty close but the odyssey had slightly higher ratings a few years go.

here are your links:

http://www.toyota.com/sienna/models.html

http://automobiles.honda.com/images/banners/2007/odyssey/...

happy shopping :)

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You didn't say where you live, so this may not even be a concern for you. I'm in Reno. I have a Yukon. I absolutely will not have a minivan because my Yukon has real 4 wheel drive, the kind that you can switch from rear-wheel to all 4 (4 hi, 4 lo) and a full-time AWD option. I've found AWD isn't the same as true 4-WD. In snow, in ice, I get around great! I see people in minivans spinning on icy spots and fishtailing. I don't have that problem. The gas mileage in a Yukon sucks, but I'll trade it for the ability to get where I need to go anytime in any weather. We drive everywhere in it, including over Donner Pass down to the Bay area and it's comfortable, plenty of room for kids, stroller, toys, bags, and the dog (German Shepherd).

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first let me tell you my opinion is biased my husband works for Toyotas national headquartes. as for suvs mine is the Toyota 4 runner it seats 7 people same as the sienna minivan the seats in the back fold up to the sides when you dont need them and lock down when you do, the highlander (which is smaller) can seat 7 its seats fold down into the bottom of the car when you dont need it. My 4 runner gets 20 miles per gallon. the sienna and highlander gets 26. and the 2 larger suvs seqouia and landcruiser seat 8 people and get about 18mpg.

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My suggestion would be to get a Honda CRV, which is very cute and can have lots of add-ons, or another small or hybrid SUV or Minivan. In the days of global warming, it's just plain irresponsible to go any other way.

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