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i don't know much about your faith...i.e. what you believe,but seeing as how you say you need God more than ever, then i suggest that you pray and ask God for his help and guidance. while you are praying though, seek out family or friends who would be willing to help you...you didn't mention the father..is he around? i am sure that your boys are wonderful, and as a mom you need a break. sometimes the best children can wear on your last nerve. if friends and family aren't available, then i would suggest you ask your pediatrician for names of support groups where you can take your 9 year old, and groups where you can talk to other parents of children with severe asthma. although it might not seem like it now, things WILL work out for you and your family. i will keep you in my prayers.

That sounds rough, K.! I have one child. she is 15 years old with Asperger's Syndrome (a form of autism), ADHD, OCD, and ODD. It is tough! She just went to a new psychiatrist today and we are now tweaking her meds. She also is going to group therapy once a week. It is very stressful with all the running around. Not to mention my own health concerns.

You can e-mail me any time!

Deb

K.,
My heart goes out to you. Stay strong yor children need their Mommy!!!!
I have had asthma since childhhos, I have been on every medication known to man. I have suffered all the side effects it is horrible. I finally found the answer....I went for accupuncture and am now on NO MEDICATIONS at all!! I had decided to try it just to see and am amazed to be able to breathe properly for the first time since I can remember. Accupuncture has also been know to help with both ADHD and Touretts. It's non invasive, almost completely painless and certainly worth a try!!!
Make sure you research the person. I use someone who is a chiropractor/ accupuncture/ RN. She has a wealth of knowledge. If you are in western Suffolk County in NY I am happy to get her info to you!
Good luck!
S.

I will keep you in my prayers. I will be your silent prayer warrior.

Dear K.,
I'll pray that God gives you strength to handle the challenges in your life.

K. - Hang in there. I know easy for someone else to say but know that here is where you can vent and lean and we'll be here for you.

I have a quote that I refer to in hard times I hope it helps a little (if nothing more than to put a smile on your face) "I know God won't give me anything I can't handle...I just wish he didn't trust me so much" ~ Mother Theresa.

(((HUG)))
K.

I have asthma. What has miraculously helped me is EMERGEN-C. It is a vitamin packet with 1000 mg of vit c. Vitamin C is a natural antihistamine. I hardly take medicine anymore. But asthma is deadly so you must keep your meds on hand at all times. I am going to try alternative medicine as well as I hear really good things about it.

Good luck,
A.

You're absolutely right you need GOD more than ever; but also He's there and not giving you more than He knows you can handle... even though sometimes you think it is. I've been through both- not exactly the same way. My son was a terrible asthmatic. We lived in the hospital every other weekend since he was 9mos. (Turned blue 2x). Prayer WORKS! He is 20yrs. old (6ft 8 & approx 350lbs. solid) and breathing well. Take each day 1 at a time- and be your child's advocate. What I mean is learn what medicines do and you make the choices. P.S.- Jello, Black coffee, a lil' Coca-Cola help. As for Tourettes, a young lady worked for me that had a severe case. I don't know the extent of your child's condition, but she verbalized with cursing and racial slurs, and physical twitches. It was difficult but you have to trust it'll be ok. It takes extra energy but I would take a moment to educate those around me that seem taken back. I think it may give you some strength to feel that empowerment. Be strong & grateful... and always Be blessed!
C. B.

Hi Cathy,
You know life is very complicated and it throws us more and more complications. I am personally also going through many difficulties but I have no choice but have faith. We cannot give up no matter how hard life beats us up. There is a reason why we are putting up with everything life throws at us. We might think it is absolutelly unfair but cannot change the situation.
Please don't give up and thank God everyday for all the Good things you have. Many people around the world are asking the same question you do , you are not alone.
Try to stay positive and always smile as though nothing is wrong and eventually this situation wil resolve.
Thats a promise.

Take care.
Best Regards,

A.

Hi K. T.
I'm a Mother with 3 children with food allergies and environmental allergies as well. I know first hand how frustrating and aggravating it is to have children with health issues. If my older two boys, ages 11 and 8, were not on the gluten-free, casein-free diet, they would have ADD/ADHD. My daughter (age 6) would have severe asthma if not for the medical treatments that she receives. Have you ever considered looking at possible food issues to relieve behaviors? Also, have you removed all scented products from your house (perfume, scented shampoos, scented cleaning products and laundry products)to help with the asthma? If there is any way I can empower you, I would be so honored.
Love,
L. L.

K.,

I am sorry. Lifes stresses are enough without compacting that with children, then adding extra specialties to them.

My brother was diagnosed ADHD and we started an all natural no artificial dye diet with him and after awhile, it worked. Of course, it took some time as his system needed to be cleared out of these stores of artificial junk. It was pretty simple, all fresh fruits and veggies, pastas made of protein (like beans) not flour, nothing at all with artificial dyes/sweeteners/emulsifiers etc., and nothing processed. His hyperactivity slowly disappeared to 'normal' boy behavior and with this his attention span grew.

I have read but have no experience with tourettes, that it can be treated with diet in a similar way, perhaps lessening the bouts and severity. Talk to a homeopath or nutritionist in your area.

Lastly, asthma... my husband has asthma, very serious and bad. He was treated with steroids and inhalers and other mainstream meds. He still suffers to this day. My stepson had asthma as a young child but my husband refused steroids and mainstream meds and his lungs became stronger and he no longer suffers from asthma as an 8 year old.

I hope this was helpful.

P.