S.D. asks from Springfield, MO on February 05, 2007
Stuttering Is Normal Part of Development, but I Need Reassurance.....
My daughter is not quite 26 months old, but she has a huge vocabulary and speaks in long sentences. She is always carrying on a conversation or "reading" books outloud, singing, or playing pretend. Recently, she has started to 'stutter', meaning before she says some things, she will add 'uh,uh,uh,uh,uh' to the front of the sentence. She isn't stuttering on the words themselves. An example might be: "uh,uh,uh,uh,uh I want the yellow one!" She typically does this when she's excited or seems to be trying to say something that she has to think about. She doesn't stutter at all just to say "Hi Mommy" or "I'm awake now"--just easy things that don't require much planning. I'd especialy like to hear from other mothers who have children who went through a stuttering phase when they were young, and then outgrew it. I'd like some examples of things they said or situations it occurred. How old were they, how long did the dysfluent period last, etc....
So What Happened?™
It was just a stage!!!!!! She speaks so fluently now it seems like that never happened!! It did take a little while to get through it, but she has been speaking without stuttering for a long time now!!! Thanks for your advice-- it really made me feel better when I was so stressed about this!
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L.O. answers from Tulsa on February 06, 2007
My oldest daughter was a stutterer. When she was in kindergarten we talked to her teacher about it. She said we shouldn't worry about it unless she hadn't grown out of it by the time she was around seven, then she should see a speech therapist.
She did eventually grow out of doing it and to hear her talk now you would never know that she ever stuttered. What we did to help her was when she started "I,I,I,I" we would have her stop and speak slowly. This seemed to help her brain catch up with her mouth.
Good Luck!
A.D. answers from Springfield on February 06, 2007
My daughter is 28 months and she is in that phase now. She stutters on the letter M. when she says mommy or mine. It was really bad when it started but I just tell her to slow down. I dont emphasize the stuttering I just let her know I cant understand when she talks fast and I need her to slow down. Now its not very often that she stutters. It has really helped. Just be patient and it will get better.
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K.B. answers from Kansas City on February 05, 2007
Very common as kids become more aware of word placement as they start to form more complex sentences. And even more common when they get excited or thinking. My son had the same problem around 2.5 years of age I was referred to a speech therapist and it was discovered that he was thinking faster than his mouth could talk. =). She recommended if the problem occurred past the age of 3 then she would work with him more in detail. She also recommend not try not to help them say the word or bring attention to the suttering. I just let him work it out on his own and a few times I just got on my knees and looked him in eyes, something about them knowing they have your full attention helps calm them down.
Best of Luck!
A.D. answers from Springfield on February 06, 2007
My daughter is 28 months and she is in that phase now. She stutters on the letter M. when she says mommy or mine. It was really bad when it started but I just tell her to slow down. I dont emphasize the stuttering I just let her know I cant understand when she talks fast and I need her to slow down. Now its not very often that she stutters. It has really helped. Just be patient and it will get better.
M.S. answers from Joplin on February 06, 2007
I am a speech therapist and I have heard this from every parent and family member with children that I have ever known. Almost all children go through this phase. My son does it off and on still, and he is almost 4. My advice is to keep an eye on it but don't draw attention to it. If it continues consistently and/or worsens, contact either a speech therapist at Cox or one of the rehab centers there and have an eval. You will need a script from your doctor. However, as for now, I would not worry and I can assure you that dysfluent episodes appear, at least in my experience and the experience of the other SLP's I work with, to be a typical part of child speech-language development. Best of luck and please contact me if I can be of any further help.
C.B. answers from Kansas City on February 05, 2007
I worked as a preschool teacher for years and worked with a speach teacher daily for some of my kids in my class. Definately don't bring attention to it. If she does it past age four, I would recommend getting her evaluated. I don't know about your school district, but in mine, you can get the evaluation for free. We had a 5 year old that stuttered a lot and the speach therapist said normally, they don't find it a real problem until they go to grade school.
M.P. answers from St. Louis on February 06, 2007
my son is 7 and still stutters from time to time. my doctor basically said their brains are working faster then their mouths. it's also hereditary. my ex stutters to this day...especuially when he is lying (lol) or gets excited or upset. i just tell my son to "slow down" when he gets going and if he stops and takes a breath it helps. i would say by kindergarten if it's still a huge problem then i would involve a speech specialist...
J.L. answers from Tulsa on February 06, 2007
My daughter had a very larger vocabulary at a young age as well. This is perfectly normal. My daughter just turned 3 this past November and she's been doing it since she was 2. It has gotten better as she has gotten older. She says stuff like, "hey, hey, hey, hey, mom..I want a drink" or "how bout, how bout, how bout, we go eat at chick-fil-a." Mostly it's the word "hey" that she stumbles on. I asked her daycare provider about it and she said that it is perfectly normal. She said that what happens is that their brain gets ahead of their mouth and causes them to studder until it catches up. I think it's so cute. My husband and I have to hold our breathe so we don't laugh. But, don't worry it will pass as she gets older. It will slow down and then should disappear.
K.R. answers from Joplin on February 05, 2007
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A.B. answers from St. Louis on February 05, 2007
It is...try not to worry about it. My son did this for a few months when he was 3, and I was really worried because my dad stuttered as a kid. I took him to a speech pathologist, and she told me they don't even evaluate kids until they're school age because it's so common. I can't remember the percentages, but she said most kids that stutter are boys, and most of that group have an immediate family member that stutters or did so in the past...apparently it's genetic. Anyway, he did outgrow and has no problems since...he also would get stuck on the first word of a sentence or when he was excited. I'm sure this is just a phase that will pass!
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