E.L. asks from Jacksonville, NC on January 12, 2007
Starting Solids at 5 Months?
Hi. I have a 5 month old daughter who I have exclusively been breastfeeding but lately she seems to be wanting to eat a lot and that she wants to eat a lot longer than usual. I had been planning on waiting until she was 6 months old to start introducing rice cereal but I have a feeling that she is ready. When have others started, how did you go about starting, and how did it go? Please help. I am a first time mom and just want to do what's right. The only issue that I really have with starting is that my husband and his sister are very large. My husband is 6'4" and 210 pounds, which is OK for a male, but his sister is 6'2" about 300 pounds and her daughter(my neice) is only 11 years old and 5'0" and about 130 pounds. I just don't want my daughter to be overweight. She was born 8 pounds 0 ounces and has already doubled her birthrate. Help please! Thanks in advance!
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B. answers from Charlotte on January 14, 2007
My pediatrician told me to start my dsughter on rice cereal or oatmeal when she was 4 1/2 months. I waited until she was 5 months. I also was only breastfeeding, and it seemed like she was starting to take interest in what I was eating, so the Dr said that was a sign that she was ready. She will only eat Oatmeal with bananas, not the plain stuff, and I don't blame her - yuck. I limit the rice cereal because it binds her up. At 5 1/2 months I started Stage 1 veggies and it took a few days to get used to it, but now she eats one jar, twice a day. I sometimes will add a little rice cereal to the food to thicken it up just slightly. My daughter is 6 1/2 months and her pediatrician told me I can start Stage 2 any time now.
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S.M. answers from Charlotte on January 13, 2007
I think I started between 5 & 6 months. I also consulted the peditrician before starting cereal. I used rice cereal and would mix it w/ warm breast milk until it was on the runny side. Eventually I got to the point where I could use warm water & splash of b.milk and was delighted when she finally was able to eat the amount in the 'bowl' -- which really was just a custard cup. At first, she wasn't real thrilled about something in her mouth that wasn't pure milk. And I had my first of many introductions to the concept of just keep introducing a food at least 15 times. I also let her play with the food some so she could 'feel' involved.
I, too, worry about my daughter being over-weight based on family histories. Somewhere I heard that if you breast feed a child until 6 months, the chances of that child being overweight reduces like 60% (maybe more I'm not real sure since I memorized the month as a goal) and I think if feed to like a year the likelihood reduces even more. Now that she's almost 2, I try to make sure I introduce her to as many veggies & fruits as possible and I pray I am helping set-up the basics of healthy eating for when she's an adult.
Oh something else I came across in my many readings, was that if you want your child to like a food -- ie veggies -- introduce it to them via yourbreast milk. In other words, they will develop a taste for foods based on what you eat which flavors the milk.
If you're worried she weighs too much you can talk w/ a Dr. Just keep in mind that when she starts crawling & walking, she will not be gaining weight as fast as she is now and will be burning up a LOT more calories.
By the way, I too am first time mom and don't have a lot of local support(just moved 400 miles) and no family nearby -- can we say I bug everyone I know who is a mom/dad for tips without embarrassment at my workplace.
M.S. answers from Jacksonville on January 14, 2007
Hi E.,
I'm in Richlands very near Jacksonville. I am not a member of La leche League but I have many friends that are. That would be the best place for you to go for breast feeding support.
I did extended breastfeeding with both my son (12) and Daughter (8) until they were at least two. We did not have a feeding schedule we were on demand! So in that vein....feed her when she wants to be fed and as much as she wants.
Are you having trouble producing enough...taking too much time etc? I can rememeber a point where I felt like that is ALL we did.
It is awesome that you are in tune with the possibilities of weight issues. It means that you are thinking about the family genectics and really planning for your daughter to be healthy! Don't let it weigh soo heavy on things now.
I'm sending your message on to someone that is living a breat feeding life now, and has experience. She'll have LLL info too.
hang in there!
You sound like a great momma!
-mercy
J.C. answers from Greenville on January 12, 2007
My son was 2 months premature so you can adjust the age. I started him on rice cereal at 5 months and veggies at 5 and a half months. I started the veggies after only 2 weeks bc he was just not really into the cereal, but he liked it mixed in with his veggies and fruit.
4 months should be fine to start her, but if you are truly unsure give a call in to your ped's office and they will tell you what they think is best.
J.H. answers from Raleigh on January 13, 2007
I've started my daughter on rice already and she is 5 1/2 months - I started a week or so ago. The little stinker took right to it like she's been doing it for weeks already. Even though she is smaller than my other 2 were at this age...she seems to be a better eater!
For the first feeding I mixed a tbls or so of rice cereal with 3 tbls of forumla (not pumping well)...just made it pretty soupy...she sucked it off the spoon. Over the next few days...I just made it thicker.
I also made her first feeding at night - closer to bedtime - in hopes that it would also make her sleep a little longer...
I asked my ped when I could start doing food-food...she said as long as she was doing so well with the rice cereal I could start the food whenever. So, we're gonna add in some of the first stage foods next week (she's got a little bug thanks to DS so we need to get over that first!)
Feedind her food now is not gonna make her obese. I started both my other 2 children around 5 -6 months...and my 4 year old girl is a "rail"...and my boy - while "sturdier" is still slim.
I think you should be more careful about feeding as they get older...the snack foods, sodas, candy...etc. When my kids are hungry I just pump in the good foods...and they know they don't get candy as snack - so I have a shelf of "healthy" snacks they can choose from! And they don't know the difference - so they don't mind.
\J.
M.V. answers from Richmond on January 13, 2007
Hi E. :)
I have a son who just turned six months old on the 11th of January, when He was first born, He was 7lbs 6 oz, but the first day that He was born, he was drinking 3 onces every 2-3 hours, and when i brought him home, he was drinking 4 ounces every 2-3 hours, by his second week he was drinking 10 four ounce bottles a day! i ended up putting a lil bit of ceral in his bottles to fill him up a bit, but that didnt help much, when he was 2 months old i started him on cereal and fruits, now He has doubled his body weight and then some.. grins.. He is a big healthy baby, not far but very long, 22 pounds and 28 inches long, i say, do what you feel is right, if thats what she wants to eat let her, my son eats three baby jars a food a day, and about 5 bottles now, and well.. thats what seems to work for Him!
M.
J.H. answers from Charlotte on January 13, 2007
I probably would not put rice cereal in the bottle. I read it is one way you can easily overfeed your baby. However, at this point, you should not be concerned about your child being overweight. The reason is you might underfeed your baby and at this point, she needs to have certain nutrients and vitamins in her diet. If you are that concerned, consult with your pediatrician to make sure they are aware of your concerns.
J.M. answers from Greenville on January 13, 2007
declan started rice cereal and baby foods steadily at 4.5 months. he was too hungry for me to keep up and the dr said when that happened to go ahead and start with cereal and breast milk mixed. now he has his cereal mixed with applesauce because the vitamin c helps the iron absorption. he also gets a veggie a day. right now he's good with greenbeans and is still iffy about squash. declan was 6lbs 7oz when he was born and is now 14lbs but is still in the lower percentiles for weight and height, with weight being even lower than height. he's gotten so much more active lately and just needs the extra calories.
T.C. answers from Myrtle Beach on January 12, 2007
If you think your baby is ready to start eating solids, then she is ready. I started my son on solids when he was about 4 months old, and I had no trouble with it. The pediatrician suggested starting him on rice cereal, (the infant brand of course) but he would not eat it, so I went ahead and started him on the infant oatmeal. (He does not like rice to this day, and he is five lol.) I started with a small amount, and I increased slowly as he seemed to be ready to eat more. I started him on the jar baby food a month or so later, when he started wanting more food than just cereal. I wouldn't worry too much about your husband's family's weight issues, as babies tend to eat only what they need. As she gets older, it's very important to keep her on a healthy diet. (veggies, fruits, rice and oatmeal cereals.) I would also continue breastfeeding, as long as she is willing to nurse. I continued nursing my son until he was nine months old, in addition to feeding him solid foods. It is really a trial and error sort of thing as to what foods she will like, ( my son hated the meat baby food but loved all the veggies and fruits) as moms tend to get a sense of what their baby likes/wants/needs. Be sure to double check with the pediatrician before starting solid foods, though--I'm just telling you my personal experience with my son. Good luck! Hope this helps you out.
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