Special Gift for Husband

I would also get him jewelry. Either a necklace with a mini gold badge charm with his badge number on it (you can have them made at Redford Jewelry and Coin on Six Mile in Redford, or probably anywhere for that matter)or the Saint Michael charm on a necklace. Something he can wear anywhere and all the time. For the badge charm you need to know what the MSP badges look like because I think they order them in that exact badge and put his number on it.

You could consider giving him something that would give him some time to himself - we ladies often like the spa. Men seem to like "events." I would get my husband a nice suite at his favorite sporting event so he and his buddies could go and enjoy, or a weekend off where he could go to Vegas or skiing or wherever. Good luck!

Hi C.,
Have you thought of something more sentimental? I am not sure of your religion or beliefs, but how about a gold or silver medal of a patron saint? I believe that it is Saint Michael who is the patron saint of police officers. My brother is a police officer, and I know others who wear these. You could have it blessed at a church after purchasing it. Most jewelry stores carry them.
Good luck and congratulations on the new baby!

The most creative gift I ever gave my husband was a replica of the sword Mel Gibson's character, William Wallace, used in Braveheart. It's my husband's favorite movie and I tracked down the company that did the props for the movie. Many companies that supply to the movie industry sell replica prop items to the general public.

The sword is full size and weight and I paired it with a framed Braveheart movie poster. My husband always loved this particular movie poster because the quote on it says "Every man dies. Not every man truly lives." He lives his life that way and always connected with the spirit of William Wallace.

If your husband has a movie he really connects with, give this some thought. My husband was truly blown away. The poster and sword adorn the walls of our entertainment area and he enjoys seeing them everyday. That quote gives him a great dose of inspiration daily.

If your husband doesn't really have a favorite movie, I was also thinking you could get a significant prop/poster from a great cop flick. Maybe one of his favorite actors has played a cop at some point. Anything "Dirty Harry" would appeal to my husband.

I know this is a little out there in terms of a suggestion, but, given the reason for the gift, I think something truly unique would be very meaningful to him.

Good luck! L.

There are many desks that might be good. (Engravings)They have globes and all types of things and different sizes. you might even find something pertaining with the police academy. The place is called Engraving Connections

Engraving Connections 1205 S. Main St. Plymouth, MI 48170

or look online at:
www.engravecon.com

Good Luck

How about a flight in a hot air balloon or a day learning to fly a helicopter or a race car or doing a parachute jump..... There are sites on the internet for stuff like that - a once in a lifetime thing for a life changing event!

I don't really have a gift suggestion (although I think the poster below had a great idea with you buying tickets for he and his buddies to a sporting event - if he's into that kind of thing) but I did want to say that a nice "gift" would be for you to read the book called "I Love A Cop: What Police Families Need to Know" by Ellen Kirschman. My husband has been a police officer for almost 10 years now and I read this soon after he started (we were only dating at the time - now we're married). I also got copies as gifts for his mother and sister. It gives you a really good look into their psyche and is incredibly helpful for families and loved ones of police officers. My husband was so happy that I read it. Here is a review from Amazon.com to give you better insight into the book: "This book is as necessary for the overall survival of our law enforcement officers as their vests, weapons, and officer safety tactics. The realities of the job have changed in the post-9/11 world, and the revised edition arrives just in time. Dr. Kirschman provides an in-depth look at the daily challenges facing the law enforcement officer and family, and offers specific strategies for overcoming the pitfalls that potentially take such a heavy toll. This book should be issued to every recruit entering the profession."
Congrats to your husband for making such a huge jump!!! It's a tough but incredibly rewarding profession.

My husband always wanted a Weber grill, but the gas ones were way out of our budget. Instead he would buy himself a cheap off-brand grill, and he'd have to replace it every three years or so (we're year-round grillers). Weber makes these "portable" grills that are HUGE and fit into a stand, so it looks like a regular grill. It's so much nicer than any of the other grills he's had. He was thrilled, and he gets compliments on it all the time. Of course, if your husband isn't into grilling, this idea would be a total waste of money :)

A.

My husband was a Police Commander in Madison Heights for 26 years and was the Policeman of the Year when he retired in 1980. He loved his work and helping people, may your husband build a great relationship with others as well.

What about a Pandigital Picture Frame and take digital pictures of the academy and his graduation to insert in one of the files that he will always have. You can add other SD cards through the years.

God Bless you both, Gladys Yonker

My husband's dream was also to be a police officer. When he graduated from the academy I gave him the medallion of St. Michael, Patron Saint of Police Officers. I don't believe he has taken it off in 7 years.

I didnt get a chance to read your responses but being a police officer myself I would suggest getting him a St. Michael Charm. He is the patron saint of police officers and is to protect us. I got mine the day I graduated from the police academy and wear it everyday I work. Good luck to you and your husband.

HI,
How wonderful that you want to give your husband a special gift. I am a lot older that you, but sometimes I think that an event is more memorable, where a gift might be forgotten after a while. How about a special dinner, like at Greenfield Village with a sleigh ride. Or a Zhivago weekend up at Garland resort. There is a cute bed and breakfast in Columbiaville, The Peters Mansion, and she makes great dinners. These are just some suggestions. Congratulations on having a great husband- Michigan State police are the very best.
Best Wishes!

Hey C.
Congrats to you and your brave husband. Anyone who steps to front lines to serve and protect makes me real proud as well. Tell your husband I said thank you. Now for the gift. Take a picture of you and the baby and have it put on a heart shape charm (gold or silver)buy a nice chain (gold or silver) for him to wear around his neck. That way the two most important people he loves are always with him.

How about GPS nagavaiton system. We just bought one and love it. We bought a Garmin Nuvi 260.

Hi there....my husband is police officer and first I just have to say that it is hard enough when they are at the academy and you with a little one, I am guessing that is even harder. Hats off to you!

There are a lot of cool things you can do...there is the Police Officers prayer.

I got my husband the picture/artwork called "The Runaway" and had it framed really nice. It's a great picture.

You could get him any kind of equipment he may need...they give you all your stuff when you get a job, but my husband needed black gloves if searching a car and wanted a small mag light. Go on line and check out police officer stuff and you may find something really cool.

Is your husband hired anywhere after the academy? You said State Police...you could try to borrow a coat and hat of the uniform and have a professional picture taken with your son and framed and give it to him...that would be really cool!! Have your son wrapped in the coat but with the patch showing and the hat next to him etc. If u can't get the hat and coat, save that idea for when he is hired and has one you can get without him knowing and then get the pic...very cool!

Anyway those are a few ideas, hope they help!

Let me know what you decide on!!!!

It's hard being married to a police officer, but it is also really cool knowing what your husband does everyday, puts his life on the line, helps people. Cops get such a bad rap, I just don't understand!

When my husband/he was my finance at the time was at the academy they held a workshop on what it is like being married to a cop, they talked about how he may come home and not want to talk about his day at work and it has to be oaky with you because he may have seen or did something that he doesn't want to talk about....or tell you about because it will make you worry even more. The hours, the overtime, being called at night to work an extra shift, getting held over....etc. Just keep your communication open!!

Good luck...hope I helped!!!

S. :)

I would say surprise him with a weekend getaway. As hard as it will be to leave your little one I am sure you have a grandma, auntie or even a good friend who would love to stay with your little guy! If you arent ready for awhole weekend you could start with a night.I am sure the two of you could use some time alone. Make the weekend all about him. Write him a note telling him how proud you are of him and stuff it in his suitcase. Buy something new and sexy and wear it for his eyes only! I did this for my husband's birthday the year after our first child was born. You should have seen his face when he realized I was willing to part with our baby and be his for an entire night!

Has he ever wanted to go anywhere special? Maybe some hiking gear or hunting gear if that's his thing? Maybe the two of you could go together on a dream vacation? My husband and I went to Vegas earlier this year. I found a great deal on a hotel and we also did some sight seeing around Nevada. Since most police officers have to stay in good physical shape, maybe a membership to a gym if he doesn't already have one?

Best wishes,

MC

When my husband retired from Chrysler after 30 years, my daughter and I bought him a really nice grill. There are all kinds of prices; high end options and gadgets. We spent about $1500 on it, which was more than we wanted to spend, but is actually about mid-range, price wise. You may be able to get a good deal this time of year. My husband loved it and uses it as often as possible. It also offered a lot of future gift-giving options such as grill tools, cookbooks, etc.

Hi C., my husband is a police officer. He has his own little arsenal of guns. Not because he's a gun freak but he likes home protection and also to go to the range with. Anyway, every cop I know, which is quite a few, has their favortie personal off duty weapon. Maybe, take him to buy his. It wouldn't be a surprise but definitely could be a fun day outing together and it would show you really support his career choice.