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Sorry to Be Such a Pest **Updated!

But it's so cool to get so many different kinds of women's opinions.

I asked whether it was ok to wear a black dress to a wedding. Thing is, I was WRONG, it's a NIGHT wedding (good thing I looked!).

Anyway, I got SO many different answers. I also got different answers from gfs and sisters I asked.

So I bought a black dress. Not a cocktail dress, and not all black, has white detail around the neck, wrists, pockets, from Chicos. I'd post a link, but they often get pulled.

The next question is, with a knee length a-line conservative but pretty dress with a medium heeled pump, do I HAVE to wear hose? And, if so, what color? I cannot remember the last time I put hose on, bleck. I have nice calves and ankles, really I do, they won't make you sick anyway. So will the fashion police totally book me and take me downtown with no HOSE?!

Thanks Ladies!

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WAIT! What about slips? Do people still wear slips?! Jeez, I am hopeless!

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Well. my grandmother doesn't even wear hose anymore. I don't think you have to wear hose.

I think you will get different answers on the slip thing, though. I am 29. Not a single person I know wears a slip. It does seem my friends who are in their 40's and beyond still wear slips, at times. I don't think it's a requirement, if that helps.

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You dont have to wear hose if you can pull off the dress without it. People still wear slips if you need to sometimes they help make the dress fit better and not cling, I only wear them if the dress is a little see through or clingy

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Forget the hose. You sound like the dress is smashing! You'll be smashing in it! Dance a lot and have fun!

D.

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Send me a picture of your legs Theresa, I'll be the judge! Just kidding!! Definitely fine, no hose. I hate hose!!! I do not have the best legs - big calves. But I don't wear hose, if you don't like my legs, don't look. My husband likes them, so I'm fine :-)
I second Luna, shaving is key!
Also a black dress is fine for a wedding. It's 2011 not 1950. Plenty of bridesmaids wear black these days for a contemporary look. Black is a classic color. No worries! Have fun :-)

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I do not understand why people say things like, hose is out, no hose! That's ridiculous! Yes, they still sell it. The departments stores, discount stores, etc. I would be shocked if people who wore suits to work didn't wear hose, especially lawyers, executives, etc.

Whether you wear hose or not has more to do with whether or not it compliments your outfit. For me, it depends on how formal or professional I need to be and the type of skirt or dress I'm wearing. If I wear hose, it's because I really think it's more flattering.

I wear a slip under certain skirts/dresses because the material clings or because it's thin. You'll have to be the judge of that. Does your dress need a slip? I don't think anyone wears a slip just because they think they "have to" or that's the "in" thing to do. It would be because the skirt/dress doesn't look as good without it.

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No hose. Do shave though. :)

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The trend is not to wear hose. But supposedly sales of hose rose when Kate visited wearing hose. I always go for comfort though, if there's any chance it will be cool I wear hose. Not that it really keeps you that warm, unless it's hot out ;-).

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I would wear the panty hose, but I feel too casual to not ware them. As for the slip, is the material thin? Try it on with a light behind you, if you can see your legs then wear the slip. I am thankful that I rarely have to get dressed up anymore.

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Forget the hose. You sound like the dress is smashing! You'll be smashing in it! Dance a lot and have fun!

D.

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Personally I would wear sheer black hose with a black dress and black shoes, especially since the wedding is at night. It seems more "formal" that way and for me personally, I would feel more put together if I had hose on. Just my opinion. Have fun!!! =)

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No hose. Do they even sell those anymore? Your oufit sounds gorgeous. Maybe do fun jewelry. I like to wear red with black and white. A big red ring and a red necklace or something.

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