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Son May Have OCD

I just had a teacher conference and was told my son may have OCD. He is almost ten years old and has had some quirks that we were always curious about. At school he is well behaved and a great student, but at home is totally opposite. In school he will clean the pencil marks that other students leave behind on the sharpener. At home he will pace, walk in circles, and move his hands rapidly when excited. I was wondering if anyone can give me some insight into this disorder and how or what can be done. We will be setting up meetings in the next two weeks. I just want to know what to expect and how to cope with calming him down while he is at home. The crying and over reactions over minor things are challenging and I dont know what to do to get him thru it. Are there changes in the home itself that causes the attitude change or can I make changes in the home to help? I am at aloss here. Thank you for any help.

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So What Happened?™

Sorry to take so long to give an update and another thank you for all of the responses. My husband and myself did a survey over the observations of our son. The teacher did the same thing and the three were averaged out. He does show some OCD tendencies, but is borderline for Aspergers Disorder. Right now they will not label him officially of having that, but will closely monitor him for the next year and see what happens. In the mean time we were given some information on a book to read to get some more insight on the disorder and come back with any further issues or concerns. We are also going to try to have more "structured" in the home to see if that may help as well. If that doesnt seem to help then we may pursue this further. So will keep you posted. Again many thanks for the information given and support.

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try this web site http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obsessive-compulsive_disorder i use wikipedia for a lot of things

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try this web site http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obsessive-compulsive_disorder i use wikipedia for a lot of things

hope it works
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I would start with the pediatrician and a referral to a psychologist. Keep a journal of when he gets upset and what caused it so you know where to start. I have a son with autism who is very particular about a lot of things, so if you have anything specific you'd like ideas for, feel free to send me a PM.

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T.~
It is my understanding that everybody has obsessive streaks, some worse than others. Still in other cases it can be much more severe, as you know. I don't mean to downplay your concern, but his behavior makes him feel better, so first of all don't fight it and don't make him feel like he is any different than anybody else. But relax around him and don't obsess about his obsessing. I have to say, though, that go with your doc...and rely on what they say much more heavily than you do anything that you find on this site. Sure people have great suggestions and helpful hints, but your doc needs to be the first line of information.

Good luck to you and him, I hope it's just his personality and won't affect his life. He'll build his life around his compulsions and be just fine.

~L.

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Sometimes a child will thrive in a structured setting and then struggle with an unstructured one. I would have him tested by a private firm if you have the ability. I had my son tested that way because at the time the contract from the school had a clause that said I would have to adhere to the advice given by the school as far as drugs and learning techniques. I wanted the freedom to make those dicisions as his parent without restrictions imposed by the school. There are several posibilities with those behaviors you discribe. Find a reputable office that is well respected to look into this. Labels are sometimes imposed on children befor it's confirmed what's wrong. Don't jump the gun on what it is until you have a diagnosis by a Dr. Teachers are not qualified to do that. All the teacher should be saying is that there is a possible problem that needs to be checked out. I will be praying to Jeus for your issue and you and your son.

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Hi T.,
I have a son with ADHD, I don’t know much about anything so please take my words with a grain of salt. But In my efforts to learn about his ADHD I came across an article written by Jenny McCarthy that she described some of the characteristics that sound similar to the ones you described, I can't for the life of me find that article on the internet although I found a bunch of articles with her speaking, just not this one where she spoke clearly of the symptoms and her reaction to it. So I found this instead. Like I say, I don’t know anything, I just thought I'd pass this along incase it may be some benefit to you. I'd definitely see a professional to see what’s up.

http://www.webmd.com/parenting/guide/mental-health-autism

Good Luck to you and your son.

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Hi T.,

I think it's very important to have your son tested for OCD, but I would also like to suggest that you have him tested for Asperger's Syndrome. Two of my friends' sons have this condition, and your sons symptoms sound like what I have observed in both of them. Especially if he has any social or emotional issues, such as blurting out things without thinking, or detachment.

I wish you both the best of luck!

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As bad as I hate to say, that sounds normal. I was told by the school and others that my son was ADHD And OCD last year, they got us in a special program that got us some help. I never thought there was anythign wrong with my son, but everyone else was telling me there was. We have now had him tested for EVERYTHING, and there is nothing wrong with him but a high IQ. He cries easily and gets excited easily, these are really reflections of my choice of parenting rather than something "wrong" with him. Good luck, I know how frustrating it can be. The best thing to calm my son I have found, is for me to stay calm. I get down to his level, lower my voice to a whisper and talk to him, he normally repsonds appropriatly

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OCD may be part of it but I am a mother of a nine year old high functioning autistic by. Sounds to me like he should be tested for that. Everything sounds way too similar.

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