R.W. asks from Herndon, VA on August 12, 2011
Son Is So Sick!
Hi Moms,
My 3 year old son has been throwing up for 15 days (w/ diarrhea), with a 2 day break in the middle (9 days ago) Of course he only throws up at night, we've tried bland foods, he still has fits at night where he's throwing up every 15-20 minutes, continuing to dry-heave once everything speck of food is out of him (which is not much food lately!). We went to the Dr. 2 days ago and they basically said "wow, that's one serious stomach bug, but that doesn't explain why he's still throwing up." They had me take in a stool sample yesterday to test for whatever they test for, but they won't know results until Monday. We've been using probiotics, pedialite, gatorade, and absolutely nothing seems to make a difference.
I'm just really frustrated because I don't know what else to do for my son! My husband and I have barely slept for 2 weeks, not to mention the trauma and lack of sleep of my son. As I'm sure other mom's can imagine, it's heartbreaking and my son is totally losing weight from all this. All this being said, once he's done being sick in the morning, he's perky and active (can't slow this guy down!) and acts normal all day long, only to get sick again that night. There was one day when we actually got him to take it easy and basically watch tv all day (not ideal on a normal day, I know :), but he still was sick that night.
I guess I'm asking if anyone has any experience with a sickness like this, what did it end up being, should I be more worried than it just being a "stomach bug." I have 3 kids and none have ever been this sick, this long. He has no fever, or any other symptoms other than the "out both ends" problem we've been having.
Advice? Please?
So What Happened?™
Thank you so much to all who took time to give answers to my question. He eventually got better, although one stool test came back negative, and the Lab LOST the other stool sample. Because of this, we won't ever know for sure if it was Rotavirus, or something else. I'm still going to look into food allergies or other things that are making his body more prone to sickness. In the meantime, it meant a lot to me to hear all your input. I should also add that the throwing up only stopped after I insisted that the pediatrician give us a prescription for something to STOP throwup! She did, but I had to insist. That was the first night he actually slept, and the recovery got much quicker from then on (shocking that sleep would help him get better, right? :) Blessings to all!
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L.G. answers from Eugene on August 13, 2011
Apple juice and apple sauce tend to go down and stay down. Let him eat it slowly. Apple sauce and apple juice stop the runs. You have to get the kind without sugar added. The best is the fresh squeezed apple juice without anything added to it.
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M.P. answers from Portland on August 13, 2011
Giardia is no longer confined to wilderness settings. My daughter was sick, like this for over a week and a stool sample found giardia. She may have gotten it eating unwashed fruit or vegetables.
I would try feeding him only a small amount of soft, easy to digest foods.
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S.H. answers from Richmond on August 15, 2011
Is he still sick if he sleeps in another bed or room? Just wondering if there is something environmental going on since he's only sick at night. Have you tried propping him up so the stomach acid stays down - is it possible he's having problems w/reflux? It's so odd that it's only at night. I am sorry he's suffering like this. I know it has to be difficult for everyone involved. Hang in there!
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A.S. answers from Boca Raton on August 13, 2011
Lots of suggestions here, but I just wanted to add one more thought - if you go back to the doctor ask about celiac disease (severe sensitivity to gluten - wheat, rye, barley). Some celiacs can get extremely ill from even a small bit of gluten.
From your post I wonder if that could be why he feels better through the day - the previous night he got everything out of his system, and it takes the day time to build it back up again via what he's eating.
Just a thought . . . hope you can get this figured out. Bless your heart - that's tough for him and you.
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L.B. answers from Chicago on August 13, 2011
Try putting a teaspoon or 2 of organic raw unfiltered apple cider vinegar in about 4oz. of water sweetened a little raw hunny. The apple cider vinegar must have the Mother in it, which is sold at any health food store. It is excellent for zapping stomach bugs & bacteria but alkalines the stomach as well. You can add a little more water if needed. Also, grapefruit seed extract is good also. You can add a few drops to juice & it too kills bacteria. I have a 4 year old who has silent reflux & at one time had candida in her esophagus & this is what I give her daily. Has made a huge difference. I also give her probiotics too. I pray you find a cure quickly.
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B.C. answers from Norfolk on August 13, 2011
My son never threw up much but he did have diarrhea for almost 6 weeks.
Our pediatrician said once a gut gets irritated it can sometimes stay irritated for a long time after the initial source of irritation has resolved itself.
Keeping up with the fluids/electrolytes is most important, try small amounts frequently to cut down on the gagging as much as possible.
Have him suck on pedialyte popsicles.
He doesn't actually need solids so much as the fluids.
Can he sleep propped up?
It's hard, but it's really good he has no fever and that he's acting normal.
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K.L. answers from Medford on August 12, 2011
grasping at straws,,,
Is he taking vitamins at a certain time of day that might be bothering him?
Brushing his teeth with a contaminated tooth brush?
Drinking from a cup that might carry jerms?
Not washing his hands often?
Have his hands in his pants,, and then his mouth?
Does he still suck his thumb or have a pacifier that is not clean enough?
Has he seen a dentist to rule out tooth decay that can make him sick?
Was he at the dentist and has a filling that might be toxic to him?
Drinking water from bottled water that is too old, been in the car, been opened weeks ago? They do build up bacteria after they are opened.
Chewing on toys or window sills that might contain toxins, lead paint, bug spray, plant fertilizer, cleaners?
Did you recarpet, repaint, re-anything in his room? Bedding included.
Did you go camping or anywhere he might have had water or got into a stream with bacteria that stays in your system for a long time?
I sure hope the stool sample reveals something they can deal with and make him better soon.
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D.B. answers from Charlotte on August 13, 2011
I am so sorry you are going through this. Did they take blood too? You should have a complete blood work up done.
I have to say this sounds an awful lot like salmonella. The stool will tell the tale on that.
Keep him hydrated, even if you have to wake him. Dehydration plays havoc on the kidneys and the heart.
Let us know how this turns out, Mama.
Good luck,
D.
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B.C. answers from Los Angeles on August 13, 2011
Little kids tend to put things in their mouths or handle things then their hands find a way into their mouths. I would watch what he plays with and make sure it is clean. Since you said he is fine during the day after he is finished being sick I would check what he touches just before bed time. If you have him brush his teeth at night, check his tooth brush and anything he uses just before bed time. If he sleeps with a pacifier, I'd get a new one just to be sure.
If you have a cat or a dog, I would give the pet a real good bath and take any flea or tick collar off of the animal. Some people are allergic to the insecticide on the flea and tick collars.
I would feed him cheese (real cheese, not the processed cheese food stuff) and cottage cheese and yogurt. Why? Because it has the bacteria in it that assists in digestion. Something that causes diarrhea usually kills most of the digestive bacteria in our bowels. The cheese and cottage cheese and yogurt helps restore that bacteria.
Good luck to you and yours.
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R.R. answers from Denver on August 13, 2011
I think it is a little odd that he only gets sick in the morning and at night. If it were a bug I would think he would be effected all day long. My son went through a similar thing last year. For about 3-4 weeks he complained of gut wrenching pain and then he would throw up in the morning and in the evening. Usually he would be woken up and be on the toilet with a trashcan for hours. We kept the log of what went in and what came out, did the BRAT diet. I consulted 'Dr. Google' (looked up every possible thing he could have) and I made my doctor test him for everything even though they didn't think there was a chance he could have it. He had his blood tested for any abnormality possible and everything came back normal. Personally, I think that doctors can be a little dismissing and blame everything on a 'bug'. My son was also having to pee all the time. Diabetes was ruled out and over the course of about 4 weeks he seemed to be getting better. He still has a very sensitive stomach. He can't eat anything before bed or he will be up 4 hours later with bad stomach ache, vomitting and on the toilet. Someone suggested to me that his intestines may not be growing as fast as his body. Strangely enough, I have noticed that when he complains of his hips hurting and and legs hurting due to growing pains, he seems to get stomach issues around the same time. I keep track of when he has these symptoms and so far they seem to coincide with his growing spurts. Of course, I brought this to the attention of his doctor and he basically dismissed it all to a 'bug'. Lol. I feel your frustration and feel bad for you son. I sincerely pray that he feels better soon and am hoping that his test results come back with something. As a mom it is so much better knowing what is going on with your child than not knowing at all. Please let us all know what the doctors find out. Hugs to you and your family during this hard time. <3
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K.G. answers from Fort Wayne on August 13, 2011
have your dr write out a script for a stool sample. your ins should cover it 100%. that may answer a lot of questions and avoid unnessary tests. also a blood test is always good to find out if there is any infection going on. gl
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