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Some Ways to save Money

I was recently doing childcare out of my home as well as my full time job as a Social Worker. I was let go from my childcare position. I was expecting to get the child's sibling. So rather than increase my income it dropped dramitcally. My question is how are others making ends meet. Both my husband and I pack our lunches for work and rarely eat out as a family. I clip coupons to save money at the store. I no longer shop for items that we do not need such as clothing. I have had a garage sale and sold unneeded items on ebay. I have switched to online banking to save on the stamps. We have down graded our tv and internet access to save money. Can anyone give me some other ideas to save money other than getting another job. It would be greatly appreciated.

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I belong to a frugal (and free) site called Mommysavers.com. You may have seen the owner, Kim Danger, on Channel 3 on one of her visits to Phoenix. She's a SAHM that started the site to help people save...her husband is an accountant. It's a great community and has lots of hints on ways to save. I don't get any referrals or anything for having people join. I'm just another member, but I also moderate a couple of forums over there (I started the Special Needs forum when I became a mod). Stop in and take a look. I joined when I was looking for ways to save as a SAHM.

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I just want to say thank you for putting this question out there! There is so much great advise that I am going to try out & hopefully that will help us as well. My husband & I have had a rough year financially as well and now we are trying to work thru it.

Thank you to all the moms for giving their input on anything that will help save money! =)

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A.,

You Are not alone. Almost everyone I know is struggling one way or another. I've read most of the response to find out new ideas to help my family. Here are a few things that have helped our family and I hope they can help yours.

Food- OMG a lot of $$$$. I shop at Fresh N easy, everyday they have 50% of items throughout the store. I even found dough there to make pizza with!! I usually go on a Monday or tuesday after the weekend rush. ( I used to price match, but it had me to frazzled looking through the papers time and time again, I lost my sanity. For you women that do it, I admire you!!) Also, when I check out of this store I make sure I gets someones help so they can give me 5 dollars off for every 20. I saved 30 Dollars last week. I also do the bountiful baskets every two weeks. I volunteer and get to leave by 7:30-8 am and have the rest of the day to spend with my family. Also, anything I would buy out, ice cream and what not I try to make at home. I also switched from coffee to tea, because you can get a lump of it through bountiful baskets for like 4 dollars.

Fun/ Movies/ things for the kids- We got rid of cable at the beginning of this year. It was the best thing ever for my family. We spend more time together instead of watching TV( we still have internet or I would go insane, but that's all we pay for). We used to have the blockbuster online, but we had to cut it. So we do now at least once a week is the library!! I know the library!! AT the footbills branch you can rent as many as 10 movies at a time for a week ( don't bring them back late 1 dollar a day in late fees). Also, they still have reading time twice a week for little kids and have things for the children to do while they are there. I get all kinds of books for the kids, myself and my husband.

Clothes- I'm not sure about anyone else, but we are really into hard times, so when it comes to this department we are really CHEAP. I've been shopping at the thrift store so the kids clothes and toys ( shoes I just can't!). I haven't really bought myself to many things ( because of flactuating weight HAHA). I really save the money of my husband though becuase he works a place where he has to wear a tie.

Washing clothes- The biggest thing that helps here is not wearing as much clothes. I'm not sure about your family, but we were going through a lot of clothes a day. Use bibs, and try to wear the same thing all day ( except at bedtime). We keep the ac up to 80 which can be hot sometimes, so sometimes he kids don't wear a lot of clothes to keep them cool and it saves ( no one is going to see us if we are at home anyways). Also, we have excema in our family so I can't buy anything generic in this department ( you have to pick your battles) so we still buy name brand detergent. I do use less though. I actually watched the amount of soap it took to make suds for the first 5 loads and have it down now. I don't wash anything in hot, becuase the water it already warm anyways, and they have cold water bleach ( it works) Also, I use the SOLAR dryer when I can.

Energy-this one is tough, becuase I hate to be hot and get hives ( i'm allergic to excessive heat, talk about living in the wrong state). I have APS which sucks, so at night we close the vents to the rooms we are not in that way the air goes to just the bedrooms ( make sure you leave one open next to the ac unit so it detects when to turn off). Electronics, ac, dryer, and stove use up a lot. we have pretty much all it covered, turn it on, turn it off, stove only 3 times a day, becuase it makes the whole house hot. Or use the grill to cook. Also, you make want to turn your water heater down.

Cell phone/house phone- keep the one you use the most and then down the plan you already have. ( probably your cell phone!)

Home- we actually had to move from Tolleson to north phoenix to be close to my husbands work. Yes, it's smaller, but we live so close that we are now saving over 500 dollars a month in gas!! OUCH!!!!( we were filling up 3 times a week with an SUV). I also, get to see my husband at lunch time, so it's a breather for the whole family.

Car- we only have had one car for the last 2 years. It's hard at first, but totally worth it. Only one to fill up, get washed, pay insurance on and so forth. It works for us becuase I'll take the car at lunch time to go shopping, or take the kids to the library and by the time we are done, it's time to get dad.

Here are the things we have been doing and probably more that I can't think of right now. I know some people would rather work then have to go through all this trouble to save. I think it's very important to teach our children that it's okay to be going through hard times and to show them how to do it with a good heart. It's important to me to be with my children so they how to be a family. Yeah, I could probably go back to watching children, but I wasn't happy dealing with others children or parents that weren't responisble. It's easier for me to control what i can, than what I cannot, which includes the things I listed above. Another thing A., you are not alone by any means!! and whatever you do, don't feel bad becuase your kids don't have cable. If anything you are doing your children a FAVOR, for showing them alternatives and not everything in life is just GIVEN to them, becuase they are there and they are you children. GOOD LUCK to you and everyone else who is going through this.

N. M

Mother of a 3 1/2 year old and a 1 year

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One thing I did to save money was to get rid of my cell phone and switch to a VoIP (voice over Internet protocol) phone by the company Magic Jack (www.magicjack.com). It costs $40 for an entire year of service and long distance is free! I've been using it for two months now and very happy with it. My cell was $40/mo so it's a huge savings :)

I also use the Sharecolorado.com food program mentioned by another person. Angelfoodministries.com is another good one to check out (although I do like the shareco options better).

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I am so poud of this one. dont know why i didnt think of it before. i was at safeway (its the only gorcery store in our town) on sunday. sunday nights they put out the meat that is on sale, whatever didnt sell over the weekend. they had beef roasts on sale for 124 a lb. they were huge. i selected one that was 15 lbs and one that was 18 lbs. i took them back to the butcher and asked if he would grind them into hamburger for me. he idd and i got hamburger for 1.24 a lb. tons of it. i separated it and put in freezer bags. i buy the meat on sale on sundays and some months all we have is hamburger so i have to be very creative. this time there was also stuff on sale so i bought chicken and pork too. we have two freezers, one is always on and the other is for when it is full and i have bought bulk stuff. i also go to farmers market here on satuday mornings. the fruit and veggies are much cheaper and taste better. dont buy meat there becaue it is expensive. if htere si something my family like sor i use a lot i buy and freeze. this saturday i bought 15 lbs of onions. i cut them up and forze them in the tiny sip lock bags, i left a few fresh ones for now. i dont buy paper towels. i bought budles of different colored wash cloths one color per family member, at walmart, it is like 12 for 5 dollars. we use those instead of paper towels/napikins. i have a separtate color for the kitchen. i buy the super giant rolls of toilet paper. there is less sotrage needed and they last longer. i make my own floor cleaner. i dont have carpets. i use laundry detergent and a little bleach and dilute in in a pan with water then put it is a used bottle and dilute it some more depending on what i will clean. i hang my clothes out in the 'solar dryer" as much as possible.i dont buy snacks, imake my own. i buy flour and sugar in bulk and store in these huge tupperware things i bought.i buy milk when it is on sale an freeze it. we finally paid off crdit cards my husband had form before we were married and we now have one and it stays at home. we use it only for emergencies. al of our vehicles are paid for because we did without a lot of things to pay them off. shop for cheaper insurance. learn how to change your own oil. we dont go anywhere, outside work, unless we have tow or more thigns to do like go to a dr appointment and buy groceries that day. since y son went to college we dont watch much tv so we have cancelled our satellite and either watch movies or read or take walks. keep track of phone bills (this is the hardest for me because i miss my son terribly ad he calls at least once a day) we changed to an unilited plan and only have one cell phone which we share. going on an out of town trip. carry a cooler and pack food from home. i have been doing this since my kids were babies. stop somehwere and have a picnic.plant a garden. even in apartment living you can have container gardens. i curently have tons of tomatoes, carrots, lettuce spinace, garlic, squash, peppers. i trade with a neighbor who plants things i dont have. i have a huge pecan tree in our yard and i collect and sell the nuts. we go to pick your own farms and get fruit. i jsut got a bunch of peaches and imade jam , do the same with strawberries and corn. then i trade those also. dont buy baking mixes or rice and potatoe mixes. its cheaper to make your own. teach the kids about budget by taking them to the sotre with you and give them a list of things to buy and teach them to read labels and compare prices. my youngest just went to college and he found a roommate and pays 220 in rent which includes utilities. he did a lot of research and shopping around. he doesnt eat out, alwasy packs lunches and has only been spending about 20 dollars a week on food so far. i hav a lot of cuposn to give him so it will probably be less. also rides a bike almost anywhere he goes. just look at whatever you do and eat and go and see hwo you can cut costs. good luck

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I don't have advice for you, I just wanted to let you know that you aren't the only one. My husband and I don't have a television at all, we have one car that allows us to get to work and our children to school, we don't go out, and we shop and cook economically. We are in terrible debt from three months that we both were unemployed and looking desperately for work about a year ago. It's hard and there are some things that have to be done collectively (making legislative changes to ensure that housing, good, and health care is kept affordable), not individually. In more civilized nations, parents are subsidized to stay home and care for the children to ensure that the next generation is well cared for and well socialized. It's in the public interest, not charity. We need some massive paradigm shifts in this country when it comes to parenting and what it means to be responsible. Individual families are told that we bear sole responsibility for our financial woes, while those who control the finances of the nation have let their greed and fiscal irresponsibility ruin economies. People are literally committing suicide because of their credit scores--we have to place our sense of self-worth elsewhere and insist that hard work should provide a home, good food, health care, time to care for our families, and a public safety net for the times when life is out of our control.

I'm sorry I don't have practical advice, but as someone who struggles in spite of working four jobs at one time, I know that sometimes I just need to be reminded that it's not my fault that the ends still don't get met. It's hard to be 34 (my age) and not be able to pay your bills, but there are a lot of us struggling in just this way. Hang in there.

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Try getting most of your food through www.bountifulbaskets.org. It's a large amount of produce for $15 per basket. I can feed my family of 7 for almost two weeks on what comes in the two baskets I purchase. When times have been tougher, I've replaced meat for beans, cold cereal for oatmeal, etc.

We're all facing some belt-tightening right now. Don't get discouraged!

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I totally agree with Rose's comment about this country needing to review the parenting ideals!! My husband and I ride bikes as much as possible, we have joined a local CSA, I'm not sure if there is one in your area, but you should look into it. It's a great way to cut down on produce costs, support local food and help in menu planning. We use our clothes line for just about everything, cloth diapers, homemade bread and granola and joined Costco to buy items in bulk. We DON'T use credit cards. We don't have tv or home phone - although I think that a land line with 5cent longdistance would be cheaper than our cell service, but we're in the contract. We don't try to "keep up with the Jone's." We camp for weekend entertainment...close to home. There is a great website, hillbillyhousewife.com, don't be deterred by the name, it's a great refrence guide to cutting food costs. You're not alone.

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It is hard, isn't it? Some things I do that I hope will help you is I plan our weekly menu around what is on sale at the grocery store. When I get the mail, I look at the ads and plan around that. I also shop at Walmart or Frye's - they seem to have the best prices. I use www.gasbuddy.com to find the lowest priced gas station on the day I go to get gas. I usually get gas on a Tues. or Wed. if I can, prices are lower then. We have a budget and allow so much for recreation, etc.
Check with your electric Co. and you can go on the "Time Saver Program" where you can't use major applicances from 1pm to 8pm. I do my laundry on Wed. from 7am to 1pm. We keep our air cond. at 83 degrees. You can cook dinner, that won't hurt the program. If you call the Electric Co. and become part of this you can save quite a bit on your electric bill.

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Thank you for sharing the truth and reality of your life. There are so many others looking for practical solutions too. I look forward to reading the many replies I'm sure you'll receive.

I just joined Bountiful Baskets here in Phoenix. It's a food Co-op for fruits/veggies. For $15 and driving to a pick up site of your choice you receive about $50 worth of produce. Way worth it. And very fun to get things I would normally not splurge on, such as Rainier cherries. Just google Bountiful Baskets, and then walk through the site steps. Very simple to join and find a location near you. The first time basket costs a couple of dollars more to get you into the system. We also ride our bikes to and from school, even with my son's band instrument (alto sax) bungeed to the back.

God bless you for taking care of your children at home!

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