R.B. asks from Hudsonville, MI on March 30, 2009
Sleeping Away from Home
Hello Mamas,
My daughter is almost 26 months old, and I am seeking advice regarding how to prepare her to sleep away from home. Only once has our daughter has slept anywhere besides her crib or Grandma and Grandpa's crib, and this did not go well. We had a family reunion at a camp, and we could not get her to sleep (we had laid her and her big sister on mattresses on the floor.). My husband, mother-in-law, and I had to take turns pushing her in the stroller until she finally fell asleep near midnight. We have some family outings planned again for this summer, and we want to find a way to prepare her to sleep somewhere else, outside of a crib. Does anyone have any suggestions for how we can do this at home? We don't want to put her in our bed since then she will want that every night. We aren't ready to take her out of the crib permanently; we just want her to have some experience sleeping outside of a crib before these outings so we get some sleep when we are vacationing! Thanks for the advice!
Rachael
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G.B. answers from Detroit on March 31, 2009
My grandbabies sleep with their parents when they're not at home and everyone gets more sleep that way. You could also try a folded quilt or exercise pad on the floor next to you. Many kids have this problem.
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G.B. answers from Detroit on March 31, 2009
My grandbabies sleep with their parents when they're not at home and everyone gets more sleep that way. You could also try a folded quilt or exercise pad on the floor next to you. Many kids have this problem.
K.G. answers from Detroit on March 30, 2009
Maybe you can have a couple of "camp outs" in your house. You can sleep on the floor and have special snacks!
Blessings, K.
A.H. answers from Detroit on March 31, 2009
I would bring 4-5 things that she normally has in her bed. For example, my daughter always sleeps in a sleep sack, has her bunny and some other animals. Maybe bring an extra blanket from her bed also for the smell. That and try to keep her night time routine as similar as possible, with the key components surely the same...like we always read a book and dance with her to a special song before bed (we sing or hum it if there is no cd player). We always make sure to do these two things no matter where we are. It's worked like a charm!
D.J. answers from Detroit on March 31, 2009
get a pack and play or a port a crib have her take short nabs in it until you are ready to go on your trips and take them with you. or place the mattress or what ever she is going to sleep on in her crib so she can get use to it.
E.G. answers from Detroit on March 31, 2009
R.,
The only thing I can think of would be to get a pack n play
portable crib. Have her sleep in it in her room instead of her crib and then you can travel with her.
E.
Good luck
M.G. answers from Detroit on March 30, 2009
Have you tried a pack n play? Most hotels now provide them (or cribs) and you can buy them fairly cheap. You could also try to borrow from friends for your trips!
K.N. answers from Detroit on March 31, 2009
We have 2 1/2 year old twin boys and we travel for vacations several times per year. Last year in Feb we went to FL (they were 16 mos old). We also went to NYC and Washington DC last year. The year before that we went on a trip to the Adirondacks in NY (they were not a year old yet then).
I bought Peapods from Kidco. They fold up so are great for travelling and they are like a tent that lays on the floor with an inflatable mattress. Great for camping and travelling. They worked out great. I put them up at home first for about a week or two and let the boys play in them and lay down in them so that they were used to them. (I have 2 for sale right now on Craigs List)
Now that they are older, we use a Ready Bed (small inflatable mattress). I got one at a garage sale that was Winnie the Pooh for $5 and we bought another one at Target that is Disney Cars (they are about $28). Bought a small portable air pump that plugs into the cigarette lighter in the car to use to inflate them when on the road. Again, had them inflated at home for the boys so that they could get used to them before going on our trips.
My 2 listen to a sound machine each night while sleeping and during naps. We have a small one that came inside a stuffed animal lamb that runs on batteries - we take that with us when we go on vacations or trips and we use that at night when they go to sleep. We make the room as much like home as possible - using the sound machine, I bring sheets from home (and also some of our dryer sheets and laundry detergent for if we are doing laundry while there), and our sound machine, and they bring their stuffed animal that they like to sleep with, and I bring a few lightweight blankets. It really helps to re-create what they are used to for sleeping at night, and we have no problems getting them to sleep when on vacations.
We also try to stick to the same 'schedule' that we have at home - in terms of eating meals and nap times, etc. and I think this helps tremendously.
We used Pack N Plays at hotels (request it when you make your reservation, but bring your own sheets) when they were very young. But weight limits on most PNPs is usually 30-35 lbs, and once they are able to climb, or if they are taller than average (but don't meet the weight limits) I don't think they are a very good option.
--K.
B.P. answers from Kalamazoo on March 31, 2009
The pack-n-play works well when they are younger, but check the weight limits. I think my kids outgrew ours by the time they were two. I would try the camping out at home or at someone else's house. We always had trouble with this when our children were younger too and sometimes ended up sleeping with them on vacation. My husband of course was opposed to this, but otherwise between him and the kids I got no sleep on vacations! We generally didn't have any problems going back to our routine at home after vacation - we often would get home late and they were more than happy to go back to their familiar bed.
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