Hi C. :)
First, CONGRATULATIONS for your strength and your courage in leaving your son's father. You've ABSOLUTELY done the right things and you've taught your son an invaluable lesson in love :). I'm proud of you! :) I pray more women would have your strength!
Now, getting down to business, where abouts in OC do you live? I live there, too. I have a son who just turned 3 at the end of July. I can only imagine what his wishlist for both his birthday and Christmas must be! Please have him make one if he hasn't already and I will do all I can to help you make both occasions so very special. Also, if you are in need of clothes, I can provide you with some nice ones :).
I will send you my email and get back to me as soon as you can about what he'd like. Is there anything you are in need of?
Please be strong and continue to honor yourself! It might feel difficult around the holidays, however you have opened a most magnificant door for better than you have ever imagined possible for yourself! :)
Love and hugs~