P.S. asks from Plano, TX on July 24, 2007
Sign Language for Babies
Has anyone tried teaching sign language to their babies as a way to help communicate with your child? I heard this helps to avoid frustration. If so, what resource/book/dvd did you find useful? I look forward to hearing from other moms with experience
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A.B. answers from Dallas on July 26, 2007
I taught both my boys some sign starting at about 6 mo. It was SO helpful! I got a couple books and videos, but think I learned most of it from an article in a Parents magazine! I mostly focused on things like eat, drink, more, milk, etc. My oldest boy who is now 3 1/2 still occasionally uses it (more just to be cute :)), but it's still helpful for my 2 year old to clarify what he's saying. Definetly try it!! Will take a lot of stress off both of you and is so funny to see them do it!!
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M.K. answers from Dallas on July 24, 2007
Magda,
I totally believe in teaching sign language to infants. One of the best things to teach them that I have found was the Sing with me website.... www.signwithme.com It has little video's for you to look at & work with them with. My 2 year old was able to tell me that he wanted something to eat or drink very early & that helped alot in my house especially with an older brother. You can also go on the internet & search infant sign language dvd's & it pulls up quite a few. Good luck!!
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J.S. answers from Dallas on July 25, 2007
My daughter is 10 months old and she can sign more and ball and can understand a few more. I think those are two of the easiest ones to learn since it's like clapping with your hands. I personally think it's a wonderful language to learn and although you might not see immediate results, like anything, repetition is the key and they will understand. My daughter is also learning Japanese from her bachan (grandmother) and can say several words in Japanese as well. Babies are like sponges, use this time to teach them as much as you can!
Before you purchase books and videos, there is a program on Channel 13 that is a lot of fun to watch. It's called Signing Time and comes on at 6:30 Sunday mornings. We record it and watch it later. Check it out and see if it might be of interest for you. The program is created by a mother who's daughter is deaf and she created this program to teach others as well. Her daughter and nephew are the children in the program. http://www.signingtime.com/
J.S. answers from Dallas on August 06, 2007
I started signing to my son when he was about 7 months old. He is now catching on. It does take a long time and alot of repeating but it is so worth it. I sign simple thing right now like; eat, more, kiss, and all done. He knows what kiss is and will give me a kiss, and he will tell me when he is done eating. I love the idea and got my signs off of the internet for free, I just did a google search for Infant Sign Language.
Good Luck.
K.W. answers from Dallas on July 24, 2007
Magda,
I really believe in sign language for babies. It helps to develop thier vocabulary and language conceptualism at a very early age and cuts down on frustration by giving them a way to communicate desires before they are able to verbalize them. It helps your frustration level also because there is a way to understand and communicate for you as well. We begin here teaching the moms the principals at about 4 months of age. Tammy from Wee Hands does 2 classes per week, 1 for beginners and another for more experienced moms and children. She is affiliated with the company Sign to Me. It takes about 3 months of moms signing to babies before they begin to respond. Tammy explains realistic expectations. Typically the kids are about 8 months old before they respond with basic signs but they seem to build exponentially.
For more information on this and other classes such as musik garden, scrapbooking and mommy and me yoga call The Nesting Place in Grapevine. ###-###-####
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C.W. answers from Dallas on July 25, 2007
I took my daughter who was 13 months at the time to a music/sign language class at the rec center in allen, Kindermusic and they signed certain things that you say all the time; i.e: all done, more, thank you and such. I incorporated it in our day to day activities and made sure that my nanny used them as well and she can now say those words at 18 months but still signs them.
A.S. answers from Dallas on July 25, 2007
Signingtime.com videos are totally awesome! You can't buy them at the stores but you can get them cheaper on ebay than at their website. Do check out the website though to familiarize yourself on the "sets" they make. besides ebay, I sldo found a "dealer" (another mom) locally who was able to sell me a set I wanted in a hurry (xmas)...she met me same day in town and I got as good a price from her as I had on ebay. I had found her on craigslist searching for signingtime. Her contact info was Tammy ###-###-####. Good luck.
A.B. answers from Dallas on July 26, 2007
I taught both my boys some sign starting at about 6 mo. It was SO helpful! I got a couple books and videos, but think I learned most of it from an article in a Parents magazine! I mostly focused on things like eat, drink, more, milk, etc. My oldest boy who is now 3 1/2 still occasionally uses it (more just to be cute :)), but it's still helpful for my 2 year old to clarify what he's saying. Definetly try it!! Will take a lot of stress off both of you and is so funny to see them do it!!
L.M. answers from Dallas on July 25, 2007
I hate to rain on your parade, but research and my experience show that baby signs delay speech. All the children I've known whose parents have taught them signs (5 kids from 3 different families) have been very slow to talk. If the child has a way to communicate nonverbally, he or she will not feel driven to learn verbal communication. Sure, baby signs are cute and convenient for the parent because they're easy to teach and interpret, but think about later on when your child is way behind the other kids. Plus, other adults and children don't know baby signs, so think of your child's frustration in trying to communicate with anyone but his/her parents. Why not spend the time it would take teaching signs to your child, talking to him/her instead? Children who are talked to and read to a lot have bigger vocabularies and higher IQs. Besides, if they are old enough to do signs, they are old enough to learn to talk. My son had a 60 word vocab by 1 year old, and now speaks in sentences at 22 months. His friend learned baby signs, is just now starting to talk at the age of 2.
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