M. you may not like my reply but it is totally sincere. Have sex with your hubby, even if you don't want to. What you are experiencing is totally normal, but you are building a habit of no sex that will be hard to break when you are finally feeling better. And hand in hand with that is the fact that when you have sex with him and *pretend* to be into it, you will actually *become* into it and sexually stimulated. Your body is in the exhausting post-baby stage but hubby's isn't, and no matter how much you explain, he just can't understand. A strong foundation of great sex with your husband is God given and it's important, for him to feel wanted and for you to feel *normal*. You obviously have a very patient husband and that's wonderful! I know you are exhausted, nursing, on meds and just outright not in the mood, but sex doesn't have to take a long time. Do it for him and you will be amazed at what it does for you!