L.D. asks from Grand Prairie, TX on June 12, 2009
Seeking OB/GYN or Midwife in DFW Area for a Natural Childbirth
I am pregnant for the first time and would like to have a natural delivery as long as my pregnancy goes well. I have met with an OB who said they were OPEN to it, however, I did not get good vibes when I brought it up. I also have met with a midwife at SpecialBeginnings Birth Center in Grand Prairie, but am still researching my options. Is it really possible to have a all natural birth where you are free to move around the room, eat, squat, whatever makes you feel good in a hospital around here? Any DR/Midwife/BC/Hospital recommendations? I really appreciate your help!!! I am starting to stress out : )
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Thanks soooo much for all of your advice and information -- I am processing everything and might have questions for you in the upcoming days... if anyone new comes along and reads my request, please leave more responses!!! I never thought I would get such GREAT information! I am feeling better already :))
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S.F. answers from Dallas on June 13, 2009
They have certified nurse midwives at Baylor Dallas and at Harris Methodist Fort Worth. I was in the same place you are when I was pregnant. I went to see the midwives group at Baylor and LOVED my experience. I ate, drank, walked and did whatever I wanted with no pressure, IV, or anything while I was in labor. They are VERY natural childbirth friendly at Baylor. I loved my nurses in L and D and post partum. I would highly recommend it! Also, the midwives group at Baylor is part of a OB GYN group also, so if something were to happen to make you high risk , you just start seeing an OB but you can keep the midwife involved too. The midwives that were there when I went there were Lindsey and Jane. I had Lindsey for the birth and Jane afterward. Both Awesome! Lindsey has since moved to Fort worth and is at Harris I heard. I have heard great things about that group also! Good luck!
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G.W. answers from Dallas on June 15, 2009
Hi L.
I've had 4 kids, all at different hospitals around the US. But I would say that at every hospital the docs and nurses were okay with whatever I decided as long as I was clear and firm with my decision. If I started to waver they would push the idea of the meds but if you are polite but firm, I think they will probably respect your decision.
I only wrote this because I know it can sometimes be hard to match up insurance companies with birth plans that we want. So, even if you go with a "conventional" doctor or hospital, just remember that YOU have the right to request whatever care you want. Don't be afraid to speak up for yourself. The health of your baby is most important but don't let the hospital B.S. you either!
Good luck!
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V.B. answers from Dallas on June 13, 2009
In Arlington, Dr. Mary Finke;Arlington Memorial Hospital. my daughter writes her own birthing guidelines, etc.,goes over it with her and the attending nurse before delivery and does very well. The last two of 5 were natural and I was in there and she did awesome. Her quiet sister-in-law is her helper for ice chips, soft music, etc. and her husband is her assistant;ie: back rubs, walking, holding during labor etc. They don't cut the mebilacord for 2-3 minutes until it quits pulsing, no episiotomy, etc. You feel better, the baby is more alert and you heal faster. Go for it, girl!
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S.W. answers from Dallas on June 13, 2009
I used Dr. Gunby in Dallas (Baylor) when I had my son. He was very supportive of my wanting to go natural. He even told the nurse to leave me alone about an epi. I was able to labor in the shower, walk around freely, use a birthing ball. I felt very much in charge. I did end up having to be induced due to my water breaking and labor still not starting for ages and ages, but he even let me decide when I was ready for that as well. I would highly recommend him.
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A.C. answers from Dallas on June 13, 2009
I think mine, Dr. Peppler (at Arlington Memorial)is probably open to that- but my 1st child had to be induced as she had gotten too big and her size caused great trauma to her during birth. I am however very grateful that she was born in the hospital. I had no idea her being late would cause her to have a collapsed lung, acidosis, hydronephrosis, and she was big enough that they nearly broke her shoulder trying to get her out. With that said- even if things are going normally I would definitly try to have my baby in a hospital. I don't think she would have survived otherwise.
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K.C. answers from Dallas on June 13, 2009
I have had two babies here in Fort Worth. My first was with an OB that said she was very open to natural childbirth. It turned out that my idea of natural and hers were different. I had a home birth with a mw from Gentle Beginnings for my second baby. I did a lot of research and found that out of hospital births are considerably more safe. I know that it goes against our societal rules to think of a hospital as less safe, but it was true in my case. I highly recommend Gentle Beginnings. And if you like to read, I would recommend Jennifer Block's book "Pushed". Feel free to email me, if you think i can help you any further.
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M.G. answers from Dallas on June 13, 2009
i'm at baylor downtown using dr kurian (had been using a midwife til she left the practice)... i have complications to my pregnancy so i'm not 100% sure i'll end up w/ the natural vbac i'm wanting, but dr kurian has been so compassionate to my wishes and preferences and truly does seem very supportive of natural birth. i really liked lindsay stephens who is a midwife, but she apparently is now working at a birth center in ft worth...
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M.T. answers from Dallas on June 13, 2009
We used Anne Crowell at Gentle Beginnings Birth Center over in Hurst. She and her staff are AMAZING! I wanted a natural birth, with no epidural and when I went to see a doctor about that, I was pretty much told that I would end up with a c-sect. Not what I wanted to hear! I was able to walk around during labor, drink, didn't want to eat, and best of all, able to have a water birth where my husband caught my darling daughter.
I would also HIGHLY recommend getting a doula, which is a labor coach. Having one with you is such a relieve. Check out the website dona.org for more info and one near you. My husband thought that the idea was dumb, but now he wouldn't want me to go through labor w/o one!
Hospitals can be tricky just because of the policies that they are required to follow, so if you do go the hospital route, definetly spell the things out that you want. Also, I know at Gentle Beginnings, they have a back-up doctor just in case. Their website is gentlebeginningsbc.com
They posted my birth story on their website too if you want to check it out.
Best of luck! and whatever way you do go, be happy :)
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