I also stopped breastfeeding around 12 months with my son and with my daughter. I would cut out one feeding at a time (or switch to a bottle) and give it a few weeks before I would eliminate another one. We still did the morning and bedtime feedings towards the end - the bedtime feeding was the last one to go. This worked well because my body decreased its supply gradually. Have your husband do the first couple of bedtime bottles when you decide it's time to stop breastfeeding altogether.