N.M. asks from Chula Vista, CA on April 27, 2009
Seeking Advice How Getting Pregnant Whilebreastfeeding
My husband and I are interested in having another baby. We have a beautiful bab boy who is 13 months. I am still breastfeeding, and would like to continue until he wants to stop. I don't want any weaning advice...please help with suggestions! I have had my period for the last 4 months but it comes on various times. We would really like to have another baby soon. I am seeking advice and experience from other moms!
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Thanks for all the advice! I do get my period now...has been coming for 4 months. I am so glad to hear that it is possible...I am off to buy ovolation sticks! Thanks A Lot!
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G.M. answers from Los Angeles on April 28, 2009
http://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/ has inexpensive, high quality tests that you can buy in quantity. Get some ovulation tests and pregnancy tests to have on hand for the price of 1 or 2 tests in the store. I was very happy to have found this site when I was trying to ge pregnant!
Oh and I got pregnant with my second while breastfeeding my first with only sporatic periods. The old "breastfeeding is birth control" is a TOTAL wives'tale!
Good luck!
C.D. answers from Los Angeles on April 28, 2009
If you're menstruating again, you probably don't need to worry about it. Lots of women get pregnant while breastfeeding - I did too.
I must confess that I found breastfeeding a bit of a chore when I had morning sickness, and that I weaned my firstborn at 21 months because I just didn't care to feed two at once, although I know some mothers do.
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J.B. answers from Los Angeles on April 28, 2009
If you are having any trouble, I HIGHLY recommend the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler. It is SO incredibly informative about your cycle and determining when you are the most fertile. Good luck.
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G.Y. answers from San Diego on April 28, 2009
You can ask any doctor, you cannot breastfeed while pregnant. I had to stop breastfeeding my daughter at 10 months old. I too wanted to continue, but wasn't allowed.
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C.D. answers from Los Angeles on April 28, 2009
If you're menstruating again, you probably don't need to worry about it. Lots of women get pregnant while breastfeeding - I did too.
I must confess that I found breastfeeding a bit of a chore when I had morning sickness, and that I weaned my firstborn at 21 months because I just didn't care to feed two at once, although I know some mothers do.
I.T. answers from Bakersfield on April 28, 2009
I had sporadic periods for the first year after my baby was born. My last period was on Nov. 27 (Thanksgiving). My baby had just turned 14 months old and was still adamant about her breastmilk. I found out in early January that I was pregnant. According to my OB, the body weans naturally. My milk supply did seem to become less, but I was ready to wean so I don't know if it would have continued producing as long as my baby was still interested. (It still took me 2-3 months to wean her.) I have read about many women who breastfed through their entire pregnancy and some even tandem nursed the new baby and first baby! Soo it seems that whatever suits your plan is possible. Good luck to you!
R.J. answers from San Diego on April 28, 2009
In Sweeden, and a few other countries, they've done some AMAZING studies on this.
Come to find;
- There is a chemical reaction between a baby's saliva and the nipple/areola. Hence, how the milk your body produces changes with your little one's needs.
- Exclusive breast feeding for BC ONLY works if the infant is EXCLUSIVELY breastfed. AKA, no solids, purees, juices, OR WATER. Nothing, nada, zilch, except for breast milk. The babies saliva tells our bodies that essentailly, we're beginning to wean, and therefore it's time to get ready to be pregnant again... even if it's just plain old H20.
From what I've read, a woman has an equal chance of getting pregnant while nursing as she does while NOT nursing, if her baby has been introduced to other forms of nutrition/hydration. The studies done in socialized medicine countries are HUGE, compared to our teensy weensy ones. Socialized med. countries researchers can plug in relevant data, (without ever knowing the patient's name) and work in studies of hundreds of thousands...over decades. Here in the US a "BIG" study is usually 1500-2500.
Of course, that doesn't really take into account that many of our bodies are survivalists, that don't allow implantation of an ova when we're stressed (ummm...hello? a new mum stressed? No way!) or malnourished (aka dieting...we don't do that either, do we?). And, so too, that's a study in a country where mum's AND get a year to a year and a half of paid maternity leave.
So in short:
- Rest
- Relax
- Have fantastic sex (okay, that's just my 2 cents, count it in the relaxation column)
- Eat for 3 (oh darn. Pass the pizza?)
- Make sure your young one is not exclusively nursing
Good luck!
G.M. answers from Los Angeles on April 28, 2009
http://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/ has inexpensive, high quality tests that you can buy in quantity. Get some ovulation tests and pregnancy tests to have on hand for the price of 1 or 2 tests in the store. I was very happy to have found this site when I was trying to ge pregnant!
Oh and I got pregnant with my second while breastfeeding my first with only sporatic periods. The old "breastfeeding is birth control" is a TOTAL wives'tale!
Good luck!
A.L. answers from Los Angeles on April 28, 2009
If you have your period and/or are ovulating, you can get pregnant.
i didn't get Aunt Flo until DD was a year old. but when she was 15 months old i found myself pregnant... what a surprise since it took us 18 months to conceive the first time!
DD and i continued to have a healthy breastfeeding relationship and still are now that her sister is over 2 years old. we had some difficulties during the pregnancy (lower supply, sore nipples, colostrum tastes different, etc) but we kept going and she loves it now with all the milk i'm making for the baby! it just takes patience, persistence and a willingness for both mom and older nursling. It helps if you have a supporting family (i didn't... my hubby kept encouraging me to let her wean while she wasn't as interested, my mom, my dad, MIL...everyone who doesn't understand why i was still BFing in the first place) and it's amazing to be able to tandem nurse!
As far as i've read there are very few instances when a woman CAN'T or SHOULDN'T nurse while pregnant... even in cases where preterm labor is a problem. And if you don't have a problem with PTL, it surely won't affect you (i had DD#1 at 40 weeks and then defeated the wives tale that the second comes earlier: DD#2 was 8 days late!).
H.S. answers from Los Angeles on April 28, 2009
Breastfeeding does not prevent pregnancy. My 2nd child was conceived while breastfeeding #1. I stopped nursing him about 2 months before she was born.
Good luck!
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