G.S. asks from White Plains, MD on December 13, 2007
Seeking Advice About Stuttering That Just Started with 2.5Yr Old Daughter
My 2.5 yr old daughter just started stuttering or repeating her first word in a sentence. I noticed it started about 2 weeks ago when she would repeat "Mo mom mommy..." and then the rest of her sentence. She is extremely bright and started talking before she turned 1 year old. She speaks very clearly and in full sentences, with little grammatical errors. I and strangers can understand her 95% of the time and she can have a very intelligent conversation with you. She uses past and future tense correctly, and conjugates words correctly.
The new stutter is concerning me because her verbal skills are so off the charts! I am wondering if this is normal for her age or if her brain is working faster than her mouth can spit it out or if this a phase she is going through. I am pregnant and due in a month; she is very excited about her new brother. I also wonder if the changes that are happening with the new baby about to arrive is triggering anxiety for her and causing her stutter. Any advice or thoughts would be helpful. I am trying not to worry too much or stress her out even more. We tell her to just slow down and think about what she is going to say so she does not have to repeat herself. Is it too early to consider a speech therapist or an evaluation?
So What Happened?™
Thank you all for the great advice you have given me; all the support is great. My daughter has since stopped stuttering almost completely now. It definitely got worse before it got better though. Soon after my 1st post she began exhibiting the secondary behaviors such as facial grimacing and quick blinking of the eyes when she stuttered. This lasted about a week and then she began to improve. We were very patient with her during this period and spent a lot of one on one time with her. One of the positive things is we are noticing a tremendous growth in her vocabulary and expression of herself. So I do believe this was just a development stage she was going through.
She is still excited about her baby brother and now yells for him to come out of mommies tummy to come play with her. Any day now! Thanks again for all your support!
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R.B. answers from Washington DC on December 14, 2007
I have a son that is four, that is very intelligent as well. He had a stuttering problem for a very short time when he was younger. It has been awhile, but I do remember it. I was so worried when it happened! It is normal for them to go through this. Her brain is thinking faster than her words can catch up with. I read about this online when my son was going through it, and it recommended just trying not to draw attention to it, as it would pass. You don't want it to become a point of anxiety for her when it happens, because that will just make it worse. This will probably pass quickly. It did for us. My son is doing great, and is still very verbally advanced. Take care.
B.H. answers from Washington DC on December 14, 2007
Hello! This exact same situation happened with my daughter at about 1 1/2 years of age. She just couldn't speak as fast as her brain was working! She was quite verbal and had great communication skills. I was so worried having worked in the field of pediatric oncology with a specialty in Brain tumors. YIKES!!! At the time this started we were in the process of a move and anticipating the arrival of baby #3. She seemed otherwise unphased by everything. It lasted only a couple of weeks and we just kept reminding her to slow down and take her time. She bounced back and I'd actually forgotten about the situation!
Good luck!
J.M. answers from Richmond on December 15, 2007
I am a Speech Language Pathologist who has specialized in fluency disorders (aka "stuttering'). I agree with some of the advice you have been given so far and some of it I do not. Here is my take on it...
As long as your child does not have a family history of speech disorders (not necessarily stuttering), I would not be terribly alarmed at this age and with this degree of stuttering. Every child and adult has "normal dysfluencies" that occur in everyday speech. Be on the look out for things like facial grimacing, your daughter seeming stressed or anxious about her dysfluency, her refusal to talk when it happens, or her substitution of other words when she begins to stutter on a particular word. As long as she is just getting caught up on the first sound at the beginning of a sentence and it isn't happening really frequently, I would chalk it up to occasional motor planning difficulties (the brain having trouble sending signals to the speech muscles). We all do this at times and yes, the stress (even if it is positive stress) of awaiting her baby brother's arrival is enough to mix up the signals a bit from time to time. Keep an eye on it. Most likely, it will go away on its own over the next few months as she adjusts to the new baby. If any of the secondary behaviors like I described earlier begin to occur or if her dysfluency becomes really frequent, that is the time to take her to your pediatrician and ask for a referral to a Speech Language Pathologist. However, you are her mother and if your instinct tells you something is really wrong, go ahead and take her in. I have certainly treated two year olds with fluency problems.
In the meantime, DO wait patiently for your daughter to say what she wants to say. DO NOT tell her to stop and think about what she wants to say before she speaks. She is 2 1/2 and she can only think about what she wants to say for so long before she is thinking about something else. Calling attention to the dysfluency will only make her self-conscious and anxious about speaking.
Feel free to contact me directly if I can answer any questions.
Good luck!
- J. :-)
T.P. answers from Washington DC on December 14, 2007
Hi G.,
It is not too early to have her evaluated. I would call Infants and Toddlers and talk to them. Our 8 year old started to stutter around 3 and we had her in speech therapy starting then. It has helped a lot. Most of the time they outgrow this, but it never hurts to get them evaluated. Hope this helps!
Blessings,
T.
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K.H. answers from Lynchburg on December 14, 2007
I stuttered at the same age....my mom (and my grandma came down for a visit them too) as soon as i op-op-opened my mouth they would say STOP!!!! now think about what you are going to say.......now say it. and it took about 1 week of constant STOP, but sure enough I was cured. I think sudden stuttering at this age comes from having so much to say (you say how bright she is so in sure she is inquisitve), and talking before youy think about it....good luck
C.P. answers from Washington DC on December 14, 2007
This happened with my DS who is now 4-1/2 y.o.-- he was probably 2-1/2 or 3 at the time (with a baby brother on the way). He was an early talker, very bright and communicated easily with us and others. Then, he would do the same "stuttering" thing that you mention about your DD. It worried me b/c my dad grew up with a stuttering problem and he fought a tough battle to overcome it. I mentioned my DS's stuttering to my friend who is a special resources teacher in the public school system, and she said he was doing this b/c he liked the way it sounded and "felt" on his tongue. I kept my eye on it and tried not to obsess, and lo and behold, it cleared itself up just as she said. It in fact was a phase. I would watch her and see if anything changes and then seek professional help if it gets worse or does not disappear in a timeframe you feel comfortable about. Best of luck to you!
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