D.R. asks from Flower Mound, TX on May 08, 2007
Second Pregnancy Question
I am a petite girl, and I know that every pregnancy is different, but after I had my son, I went back to my normal weight (pre-pregnancy). I just found out that I am about 5 weeks pregnant, and I have gained six pounds!!! With the first one, I had LOST 12 pounds during the first trimester! On top of that, I look like I am about 3-4 months pregnant. Has this happened to anybody? The reason that I mention that I am petite, is b/c the size of my belly is quite noticeable.
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N.N. answers from Dallas on May 10, 2007
Ditto. I am petite as well (5'5" and about 102 lbs.) With my first pregnancy I gained about 34 pounds and with the second I gained 40 pounds and started showing at about 6 weeks. That tummy just popped right out! I breastfed both babies and was back down to my original weight at about 6 months. Still need to tone though! Much harder the second time around to lose that loose skin! Good luck!
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L.A. answers from Dallas on May 08, 2007
You sound just like me, I am only 5'0, and was so sick my first pregnancy, I lost 15 pounds.. (ended up gaining 40 after 5 months though). My son is 15 months, and am, back to my prepregnancy weight.
Now, I am about 5 weeks pregnant as well, and already am feeling bloated way beyond my first pregnancy. Interesting.
R.C. answers from Dallas on May 08, 2007
OH MY I am SOOOOO GLAD I found someone else going through this as well. I am pregnant with my second child to after my first I lost all of the weight and than some. I am 5'6 and weigh about 108 (BEFORE GOT PREGNANT AGAIN) before I found out I was pregnant again I had gained some weight now I am 12 weeks pregnant and look like I am about 5 months. ( I AM already wearing maternity cloths) They say with your second you show A LOT sooner so I guess it is true. I am nevous that I am not going to loss the weight as well as I did the first time but I will worry about after the baby. All I can say is just eat right but dont over do it. Good luck.
A.D. answers from Dallas on May 08, 2007
Your body "knows" what to do now and will follow suit with your second... you'll show sooner, you'll gain weight sooner, your muscles will be more relaxed sooner. It stinks...but it's just that your body is going kind of like 'oh yeah, we're pregnant again, lets go guys' and they just ruin your waist line immediately. LOL
A.E. answers from San Antonio on May 08, 2007
Yeah, I'm going through that now. With my son I was so sick and lost 10 lbs in my first trimester, but with this one I'm eating like a horse and have gained 8 lbs. I've already had to start buying maternity clothes, but the last time I didn't get into maternity clothes until my 5th month. I'm petite too and all my weight is going straight to my belly and I look 3-5 months pregnant already. However, I've heard, and I'm sure this is just an old wives tale, but I've heard that if you're experiencing totally opposite symptoms, you could be having a girl. Anyway, you're definitely not alone.
M.F. answers from Dallas on May 08, 2007
I am 5' 2" and while I showed sooner than some of my friends with my first, I at least made it to 4 months before I really needed maternity clothes. With my second, I barely made it past 10 weeks before I was pulling out maternity gear. My first child was 14 months when I got pregnant with the second. It is totally normal for the second pregnancy to show sooner and look bigger. Your muscles, ligaments, etc. give way pretty quickly because they've already done it before. I think this is especially true with pregnancies that are closer than 2 years apart.
I did gain a few more pounds with the second, but he was a bigger baby than his sister. However, I lost it all more quickly after the second than I did with the first. Possibly because I quit nursing sooner, but whatever the reason, I'll take it!
Good luck and congrats!
M.S. answers from Dallas on May 08, 2007
I got bigger faster with my second child. I felt like I had barely found out I was pregnant when I started wearing my maternity clothes. I gained less weight with my second pregnancy but I did get bigger faster.
E.D. answers from Dallas on May 08, 2007
Yes, I have seen this many times. I too just recently had my second child, congrats to you all! My stomach also seemed to pop out much quicker this time around. I have a friend who also just had her second baby and is petite and she went through the exact same thing. She grew very fast and in her first pregnancy you could hardly tell she was expecting. Also the fact that the pregnancies are close together has something to do with it.
K.H. answers from Dallas on May 08, 2007
Congrats on your pregnancy! I understand how you feel. It took about 5 months with my first for anyone to even notice I was pregnant. With my second at 6 weeks, my dad asked me if I was pregnant (we weren't going to tell anyone until 12 weeks). Then with my third I joke that at conception you could tell I was putting on weight. Also, about the weight loss after birth...be patient with yourself...it takes 9 months to get there and it can take 9 months or more to loose it. For me it took longer to loose the weight with the second and third child. If you are eating right, just love your body...it will grow as needed for your baby and then after birth will eventually get back to your regular size.
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