J.S. asks from Omaha, NE on November 13, 2007
Sciatica and Pregnancy
I am 28 weeks pregnant and have been suffering with sciatic pain for about the last 2 months. I have been doing physical therapy and recently started with a chiropractor, who is going to have me start wearing a tens machine. ( it didn't work!) My OB will not let me have anything for pain until we see how the tens machine works. (They finally prescribed darvocet which still isn't helping so there is really no point in taking it!) I feel like I am losing it! I have never been in this much chronic pain in my life! It is getting worse and worse, I can barely sleep at night and sometimes just walking is so diffucult I have to crawl. I find myself crying all the time and just want this baby to come out so it goes away! My quality of life is going down the toilet and my 2 yr old isn't getting my full attention because of it. It probably doesn't help that I work retail and have to stand most of the day. Sorry for venting, but if anyone has experienced this or has advice please help me see the light at the end of the tunnel.
So What Happened?™
Well the tens machine and Darvocet are helping a little(I can Walk...sort of) I still can't stand up straight and continue to have intense pain. I am doing ice and all my pt, but they are thinking it is more the si joint, the next option is a possible cortisone shot in the joint to reduce inflammation. Still going on no sleep and a basket case. Thank you all for replying and keeping me in your thoughts and prayers!
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P.H. answers from St. Cloud on November 16, 2007
J., I went through the same thing when I was pregnant with my twins. I remember going to the IL state fair in a wheelchair. I had so much pain my 3 boys at home did the cooking and took care of me. My husband didnt do a thing. He didnt beleive the pain was so bad. Continue to do what the chiropractor says to do. That was the only releif I had along with Tylenol. Good Luck I also used ice packs and heat. P. Heder
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T.T. answers from Denver on November 16, 2007
I feel your pain, I had that problem during my pregnancies too! Ice worked for me. Ask your doctor if you can ice it. Then do 20 minutes on and 20 minutes off. See if that helps.
J.O. answers from Boise on November 15, 2007
I had it as bad as you with my second pregancy, and I had a all but new born to take care of, and then I got it that bad with my 4 pregnancy, all I have for you is baths, lots and lots of hot baths, I know they say not to make them to hot but that was the only thing that helped me from losing my mind. One other thing that helped was standing under a hot shower with the water on my back and bending and stretching, if you bend into the pain it works best but it can be painful at first, it did help though. I feel your pain I can still remember it like it was yeaterday. Sorry I couldn't be more help but I choose to stay away from all pain meds, partly because I was already sick and nasous(sp) through out the whole pregnacy.
C.A. answers from Boise on November 16, 2007
Sciatica can be excruciating. I get it off and on. The times when I was in the most pain, my tens unit was my savior. I would do some of my physical therepy to get the muscles warmed up so I could stretch them out. Swelling causes your hip to pinch your nerve, so... Next I would hook up my tens unit, and lay on my back on top of an ice pack with my feet up on a stack of pillows, and meditate. See if your 2 1/2 year old will meditate with you. just talk about a relaxing beautiful place and you can imagine yourselves there together. It will help take your mind off of the pain. Also, make sure you drink lots of water. It helps your body reduce swelling, and it lubricates your joints. I know it almost makes it worse when you don't think anyone realizes how bad the pain gets. Try to remember, the mind is stronger than the body, so try to work through the pain. It is the first thing you MUST do. And it will be over before you know it. Since I have learned what stretches work the best, I do them everyday, whether I am in pain or not, and the pain has not returned. You will get through this.
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S. answers from Salt Lake City on November 15, 2007
I feel your pain- with my first the the end of my preganncy I could not walk due to my back. I did manage to stay of most pain meds-tylenol and i were good buddies though.
What i found helped was some yoga stretches, a heating pad ( ok 2 of them) and hot bathes! yes hot bathes, my OB told me it was fine and it was a little peice of heaven.
I understand working retail but I would see if you can sit with your feet out in front of you as much as possible. Dont sit with your feet dangling or in front if you can help it.
The other thing you can try, with your OB consent, is acupuncture for it. I did it after my little one was born and it helped.
When are you due in January- I too am due in January.
K.H. answers from Grand Forks on November 16, 2007
Hi J.:
I also had this condition at one point during my pregnancy. I cant really relate to what you are experiencing because i dont think that it ever got as bad as yours. I do know that my Dr. gave me pain meds. I know that you Dr prob feels that he is doing what is in your best interest but does he know how bad things have gotten? Pain management should be one of the top priorities of health care providers and they should do all they can to aleviate it. Have you asked him his reasoning for not giving you pain meds, since it sounds like the PT isint doing any good? Maybe he doesint feel that you should be on a pain med for that amount of time and he is trying to find other methods to manage the pain? Have you looked into alternative medicine, aside from the chiropractor?
I dont know what to tell you except that if your Dr doesint take your concerns seriously then maybe you should go and get a second opinion?! Good Luck
K.
J.S. answers from Salt Lake City on November 15, 2007
Awww, I just want to send you a ((HUG)), Im sorry your having such a painful last trimester, my heart goes out to you, I hope you find some relief, and share it with us if you do, I'm trying to get pregnant with #2 and I remember the back pain, not as severe as yours, but if I get it this time around, I'll come looking to see if you found something that works.
A.G. answers from Lincoln on November 18, 2007
J.,
I have the exact same problem. It is worse with this pregnancy then with my first. My ob/gyn gave me a couple of sheets of paper that have exercises on them. They help a little especially after 20 weeks when it doesn't say to lay on your back. I won't take anything for the pain so I have to deal with it. I try to watch for things that irritate it and make it worse. When I notice something that is causing it to flare up I stop doing those things. Like I can't lay on the floor, lay on my back, stand for to long, sit on the floor, some chairs are uncomfortable, and things like that. So avoid what does cause the flare ups to be worse. Ask your ob/gyn about some easy exercises you can do while you are pregnant to help the back.
K.L. answers from Des Moines on November 15, 2007
Stretch, Stretch, Stretch!!! I know that can be kind of hard to do, but just stretching out your spine can really help...at least it did for me. I had it so bad that one day I woke up and couldn't walk...but that was just for a short while. I didn't have it during my pregnancy, but the slight pain is back now. I actually had to have surgery to fix the herniated disc that caused it when I was just 20. But, if you keep on your physical therapy and do all the exercises they give you, you should be fine! Good luck!!!
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