L.A. asks from Kew Gardens, NY on December 19, 2010
Returning to Work - Ideas Re: Making Pumping Easier???
Ladies:
My first child, our darling son, is now 2 months old. I'll be returning to work on Feb 1, when he'll be 16 weeks. We are largely breastfeeding now (He sometimes gets an ounce or two of formula to top him off, or a bottle from daddy if I'm out on an errand without him, and he needs feeding). Frankly, he doesn't seem to like the formula. He takes it begrudgingly at best unless he is truly hungry. Also, he has much more gas, and spit up after a formula meal.
My work day is 9-5, however, with a lengthy commute, I'll be leaving the house at 7:30 at the latest, and be back at 6:30 at the earliest. I hope to carry on breast feeding, and my employer accommodates pumping. Any ideas/ suggestions for making the transition back to work easier. Also, how am I going to find enough energy to keep up with breastfeeding, commuting, work, and childcare. I seem tapped out by feeding and childcare alone at this point.
Thanks for all your thoughtful hints and suggestions.
PS: hubby is in the picture, and he's a great help with keeping house and baby care.
PPS: my parents, who leave nearby, and my husband (in grad school) will be sharing child care responsibilities while I am at work.
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H.X. answers from Los Angeles on December 19, 2010
own two pump kits and wash at home not at work. Also, you can keep waking in the night to pump after baby sleeps through the night.
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J.B. answers from Rochester on December 21, 2010
First of all, it is law that your employeer must allow breaks and a private room for pumping. I pump during times that my baby would normally feed. Secondly, with a such along commute, perhaps try pumping while driving. I know, several ppl will tell you that it is unsafe and whatnot, but I use my hand pump while driving often and it works well for me. I just don't do it if the weather is bad.
Everything does get easier, you just have to find your own balance.
S.Y. answers from New York on December 20, 2010
It's terrific that you are committed to pumping while at work! I did that for eleven months and it's tough but totally doable. First, it helped that I was able to borrow my girlfriend's pump, so I didn't have to trudge it back and forth to the office. Second, I blocked out time to pump on my calendar - about 30 minutes three times a day at first, then twice as my supply decreased a little. Third, I bought these great wiping cloths by Medela (don't remember what they are called), so I didn't have to wash the pumpies each time. I just wiped them down and washed them at home. Fourth, I enlisted my husband's help. I told him my job was to pump and feed our son; his was to support me in this process by washing and assembling all the pieces on a daily basis. My hours were exactly the same as yours and I was definitely tired but I got into a rhythm with it and actually miss it. I am a good multi-tasker, so I actually wound up being quite productive WHILE I was pumping - I chatted on the phone, answered emails, selected photos of our son to print online, etc.
What you are doing is amazing! Keep it up!!!
H.X. answers from Los Angeles on December 19, 2010
own two pump kits and wash at home not at work. Also, you can keep waking in the night to pump after baby sleeps through the night.
C.N. answers from Buffalo on December 21, 2010
You've gotten alot of great answers so far. I would also suggest pumping now to build up a freezer stash. I had difficultly finding extra time in the day to do this, but it was worth the aggravation when there were at least 3 days worth of "meals" frozen!
The Medela cleaning wipes are great! I don't have any right now but I do have an extra set of pump parts, so that I don't have to wash them in between pump breaks. Make sure you've got them cleaned & ready to go for the next day (I forgot mine once - yikes!).
As for feeling drained by the grueling schedule of childcare-commuting-pumping-commuting-childcare-?sleep?-repeat... LOL - Well, it gets easier!
Our LO's stay home with Dad half the time & with my mom the other half. It is a BIG relief to know they're in the best possible hands while I'm away at work! Sounds like you have a great support system in place. Relax and best wishes to you!
I.L. answers from Alexandria on December 20, 2010
At work have a pumping schedule and make it a priority to stick to it. For me it was easy to say "after I finish this task," and when I didn't keep to my schedule my milk decreased.
Whatever space you will pump in, make sure it is as peaceful and distraction free as possible. Keeping your milk level up while pumping at work is hard if you let yourself get stressed. Consider your pumping time as your time out, and do whatever you need to and can do to make it a relaxing time.
Congratulations on your baby boy!
K.S. answers from New York on December 21, 2010
Hi L.,
I've been back to work for 10 months and besides a few formula feedings, I've exclusively breastfed.
I have a hand pump (Medela) which was $40 at Target for the kit. It's awesome! I bring 3/4 bottles with me in one of those little hard lunch bags with 2/3 small ice-packs. I pumped every 2/3 hours (now less because we're weening). I just bring in the bottles and put them in the daycare fridge for the next day when I pick-up. Fridays I use the Lansinoh (sp?) bags and freeze them when I get home. Sunday nights I take out the bags and put them in the fridge so they're defrosted by Monday morning.
I do have some formula at school just in case she goes through a massive feeding binge and needs more than the 3/4 bottles I supply. I think they only used it once.
A few things not to forget...make sure you have some (a lot in my case) extra leak pads with you at work. They can easily be hidden in a drawer somewhere. You don't want to run out of those! Wear clothing as if you were nursing. Ever try to pump while you're half undressed cause you wore a dress that you have to unzip halfway down? Another thing that I have at work is a back-up pump and some extra bags. I've forgotten a few times and believe me, you don't want to go a whole day without being able to pump. OUCH!
You'll be fine! Your son is lucky to have such a caring mommy!
P.M. answers from Tampa on December 19, 2010
Pump while breastfeeding... breastfeed as much as possible when you are home (no bottles from well meaning husbands or family), pump on the long commute to and from work (you can place the suction cups inside your bra to make it hands free) and just move the cup around to get different suction points. Try to stock up as much breastmilk to freeze starting NOW. You and baby will be much happier for it. The sooner you start stocking up, the easier it will be to get into a pumping routine away from baby. Good luck - I know you can do it!
Formula is synthetic nutrition and cow's protein... it smells and tastes horrible and has so much fructose added that it's a wonder it's fit for newborn/baby consumption.
http://www.breastfeeding.com/all_about/all_about_formula....
http://www.lactivist.net/?p=1307
D.C. answers from Fresno on December 19, 2010
start pumping before you go back to work to build up a supply to put in the freezer. Pump at least 3 times a day at work to keep up your supply. I mixed breast milk and formula when I couldn't pump enough. It took the pressure off me to get every last ounce. My son did well with a mixed bottle. I also pumped every night before bed and saved the milk when my son started sleeping through the night. When your son starts solids around 6 months you will need less milk. When he ate more solids I only pumped twice at work and it made my life much easier. I breast fed both of my sons til they were about 10 months. They self weaned at that age. I preferred to continue even though it was hard when I was working. I hated making bottles and the expense of formula more than I hated pumping:) Good luck
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