M. asks from Farmington, MN on October 10, 2008
Quit Smoking
Hello,
This may be an unusal request for a mother, but am seeking some advise on quitting smoking. I am a 32 year old Mom with two children and desperately want to quit smoking. Are there any Moms out there that have any suggestions? Anything that you found helpful when you quit??
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A.M. answers from Appleton on October 13, 2008
I quit with the help of Chantix. I have been smoke free since January 17. I was on Chantix for a total of 2 months. My sister also quit using the Chantix and took it for 3 months. My dad also used Chantix but he was taking it for 6 months before he felt comfortable to quit.
H.T. answers from Minneapolis on October 11, 2008
I applaud you for trying to quit smoking! It is not easy. When I quit, I tried to avoid all places where people where smoking, which is easier now, since now day people can only smoke outside.
I chewed lots and lots of gum (sugar free), drank lots of water and tried to keep myself as busy as possible.
Good luck!! I have been smoke free since 8/1991.
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E.H. answers from Minneapolis on October 10, 2008
I tried to quit a couple times before I successfully quit a couple years ago. I used to smoke a pack a day. Cold turkey and nicotine gum/patches never worked for me because I was so addicted to the oral aspect of smoking. Here's what I did:
Week 1 - 20 cigarettes per day
Week 2 - 18
Week 3 - 16
Week 4 - 14
Week 5 - 12
Week 6 - 10...
You get the point. I just kept cutting back until I was smoking 1-2 per day for a whole week and then I quit completely after that. I found it much easier to gradually get used to the idea of not smoking and wean myself off of the nicotine at the same time. Sure, it took a couple months, but it worked! Good luck to you! It's so hard, but after "hell week," it gets SO much easier every day.
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K.S. answers from Bismarck on October 10, 2008
What I found to be the most help for me was QuitNet.Com. You can enter all your info including how much you currently smoke. Then you can check back and find out how much money you have saved and how much of your lifespan you saved. It was really great to be able to see those numbers go up everyday. It was a good reminder that I really am accomplishing something and it made it all worth it. I also used the patch for a few weeks because I'm so scared of getting sick if I smoke with the patch. For me it was all psychological. You can also make sure you have plenty of gum and hard candy on hand for when you are having cravings. Good luck to you. It's not easy but it is really worth it.
K.
K.C. answers from Madison on October 11, 2008
I'll just add, if you could arrange for the kids to stay somewhere else for a weekend, quit on a Saturday a.m. Have someone stay with you for the entire first 48 hours (longer if possible). Make them promise not to let you out of their sight, cook for you if you need them to. I spent the first two days on the couch, flipping between crying, laughing and being very ornery. Use the gum or patch if need/want to. Give yourself permission to "melt down". For some people, the physical withdrawl is very difficult. It was for me.
Good luck
L.R. answers from Milwaukee on October 12, 2008
Hi M.,
I was a pack a day smoker from age 15-34. I was pregnant knowing I should quit smoking. I cut down to 6 per day...only smoking half of a cig each time....so I "smoked" 12 times per day but only a total of 6 cigs. I could not get below that 6. My step dad is a hypnotist. I knew I was going to have to try using his help. The day he was supposed to hypnotize me...I was sad. I did not really want to quit smoking but I just knew that I had to. I smoked 3 right in a row then was hypnotized. I have never smoked since!!! It has been a little over 2 years. I don't even really want one. It is a crazy feeling. I remember the first week was realy tough...my step dad told me to eat sunflower seeds which helped a little. He says it is the first 72 hours that are critical. Here is his website if you are interested. www.calviclinic.com
He has a 88% success rate!
Good luck....it is VERY freeing when you quit....I no longer have to carry around lotion, spray, and gum everywhere to make sure I cover up the smell.
L.:)
L.D. answers from Minneapolis on October 11, 2008
I've never been a smoker but I've heard cinnamon and cigarets is a horrible taste combination. Stock-up on cinnamon chewing gum and breath savors -sugarfree if you can find them.
T.C. answers from Minneapolis on October 13, 2008
quiting is very hard! i did it before i got pregnant because i didnt want to go thru withdrawls while being pregnant. i didnt use any patches and i didnt go cold turkey. it took a good 6 months to quit completly, but i did it gradually and it worked great for me. i started out figuring out how much i smoked a day and cut that number down. once i got used to less i kept decreasing and before i knew it i was down to only smoking a couple when i went out. i still craved them during the day but not that bad and it usually went away after a few minutes. once i got pregant and didnt go out anymore it was no big thing to not have one. now i can go out and do what ever and rarley crave them and it has been over 2 years. i like the fact that my kids hopefully will never have to see me go thru cancer or emphasima, etc. you have to figure out what methed you can hadle to quit with and you will never be able to unless your really truley ready to give them up for you. i wish you the best of luck.
H.T. answers from Minneapolis on October 11, 2008
I applaud you for trying to quit smoking! It is not easy. When I quit, I tried to avoid all places where people where smoking, which is easier now, since now day people can only smoke outside.
I chewed lots and lots of gum (sugar free), drank lots of water and tried to keep myself as busy as possible.
Good luck!! I have been smoke free since 8/1991.
M.F. answers from St. Cloud on October 11, 2008
I quit smoking, but did it cold turkey. My ex-sister-in-law was dying from cancer and after visiting with her and seeing her still smoking, I decided to do it. She was a year younger than I and had had a really good life; beauty pagents, airline hostess, money, all of it and then to die so young and such a tragic ending. My daughter tried stopping and went on a new medication. All I can say is, I am so very grateful she got off the medication. She was having horrible depression; crying all the time, just about going crazy and with two little ones; 4 years and 11 months. Just be very careful what you take. I still say determination and cold turkey are the best way. Good luck.
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