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Pull-Ups At Night - Independence,MO

My 3 year old son is potty trained during the day but not at night.He wets way too much for me to even try to take him out of pull-ups.So my issue is that he will be four on July but only weighs about 28 lbs.The good nights,etc start at 35 lbs and I have tried them and they are so big he pees out of the leg(he still wears the 2-3T size).I have been buying the regular pull-ups (and even tried the night time absorbancy.)Well all off his blankets,sheets,lovey smell like urine all of the time.I don't know if he is leaking and staying asleep?His PJ's are usually not wet but the pull-up is usually soaked and he stinks like urine.I don't want to have to constantly wash him and his sheets and blankets.Does anyone have any ideas on what I could try?I thought about going back to night time diapers but the last time I tried a diaper he cried because he felt belittled.

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I agree w/ all of the other responses about limiting drinks, and the waterproof pad, ect. But have you tried putting on training underwear over the pull up that may keep the pull up from leaking and they are thicker than regular underwear so it may not soak through. Good Luck!

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There is a product out there, they used to call them Diaper Doubler's, I just saw them at Baby's R Us yesterday under another name that I don't recall, they used to be at some pharmacies too. They look like the old fashioned sanitary napkins, just a big extra pad to add to the diaper. This should work without changing any of his other behaviors.

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We had a similar situation. Our son was day trained by 2y 9m, but still wearing a diaper to bed. He would wake up every morning with a wet diaper, so I figured he wasn't ready to give it up. One night we put him to bed w/o it (by accident) and he woke up dry. So, we did it again the next night and he was dry again. He hasn't worn a diaper since. He will be 4 in July (also weighs 28lbs) and we've been doing this since Nov. He's had 2 or 3 accidents. He goes to bed at 8 and we take him to the potty around 11 (although we are cutting back on this too). Good Luck!

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Hi C.,

We have exactly the same issue with our 3 y/o daughter. We stopped letting her have anything to drink in the 1 to 1 1/2 hours before bedtime, except a tiny sip of water if her mouth is dry. We take her to the potty when we take the cup away, and again right before we tuck her in. When nothing interferes with this nighttime process, and we take her potty as soon as she wakes in the morning, her pullup is nearly dry. (If anything interferes, however, we get to wash the sheets/blankets/kiddo!) I've seen 3t-4t pullups at our Wal-Mart; we're moving to those as soon as we run out of 2t-3t! Good luck!

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Hi C.,

Do not let him have anything to drink two hours before bed. Take him to the potty every 45-60 minutes before then, too. Part of the potty training method we followed while training our son was to wake him up before we went to bed to take him potty. (We go to bed about two hours after he does.) Then also 30 minutes before he usually wakes in the morning. That method worked beautifully with our son. He stays dry all night... even during naps.

Hope this helps!! ls

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It sounds to me like you need to do a few things. Try and cut down on the fluid he drinks after a certain time of day. I would push the fluids really hard before about 3pm. If his urine smells strong it's possible that he is not getting enough fluid in over all. After 3pm I would start only giving him about 2 ounces at a time until around 6pm. Then I would just stop giving him fluids after 6pm. I know it's a pain. But maybe if he's really thirsty you can let him suck on a small popsycle.

I would also look into making his bedtime a little bit later so that he is not in bed as many hours and can potty again before bed. I would even consider waking him at night and having him go to the bathroom. I've done this with daycare children and they do go back to sleep.

S.

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Limit his liquid intake before bedtime. This will help tremendously.

I think if I'd left my kids in pull ups, which they didn't even have made when some were young, they'd still be in them. I had to put them in little underwear or they would wet the bed so it worked to just switch in the beginning. I know kids are different though and some just have a problem but I also woke my kids when I went to bed later until they learned to wake themselves and get up and go. Other wise you got a lot of good advice on the pull ups sizes and of course no liquids, etc.

put a waterproof cover over the mattress and try to get rid of the diapers and pullups. It amazes me how many can potty train their kids during the day but they are too scared to let them go all night. Anytime a kid wears a diaper or pull up they are going to pee in it. That is just what they know from wearing them as a baby. I potty trained all 3 of my kids without them wearing pullups or diapers to bed. Once we made up our minds they were going to wear underwear they wore underwear all the time. You can get the thick training pants and some even have plastic sewn on the outside. This is what we used for daytime and night time until they were very potty trained and didn't take as long to potty train them and they only had a few accidents in their beds at first. We did get them up to go potty when we went to bed usually around 10:30 and they went first thing in the morning when they woke up. We noticed with the first that when we tried to potty train him with pullups it was a slow process. When we decided to quit using them and went to the training underwear he was totally potty trained in a few weeks. The other 2 we didn't use pullups except when we went somewhere that we knew would be hard to find a bathroom quick.

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