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Problems with Introducing the Bottle

I have been breast feeding my doughter for 3 months now. I plan on continuung breastfeeding as long as she wants to up to a year old. however I decieded that we should try to bottle feed her some breast milk from a bottle just in case i am not able to feed her. for instance it would be nice to be able to give her a bottle while doing holiday travel instead of having to stop and feed her or if i get sick.

the problem is that we tried to give her a bottle (my husband was feeding her since that is what the 'books' suggest) and she freaked out. screaming and cring, she didnt want anything to do with the bottle. after a few minutes and no milk eaten i tried to offer her my breast and she refused it too! she was so upset! i felt so bad!
did we wait to long? is she too old to accept milk from a bottle? any suggestions on how to make to transisition to a bottle everyonce in a while easier?

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When my son was 2 & 1/2 months old we lost his daddy. I needed a lot of help & had to put my baby on formula. I talked to a lactation consultant & she was very helpful. She told me not to try the bottle while he was real hungry because he would be too frustrated. She also told me not to cradle him while giving him the bottle. I could hold him facing away from me or sitting up in his infant seat or some other ways. I started out with the breast & fed him a little so that he was not so hungry, then I finished his feeding with a bottle & it didn't take long at all to get him used to formula.

You can change to the Playtex bottle's with the drop in liner with the comfort latch nipples. I use these with my daughter because I am not able to breastfeed because of piercings that I have.

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You are perfectley normal! I went thru the same thing with my daughter (she was harder to bottle feed than the 3 boys). The only thing that worked was for someone else, daddy or the daycare provider, to feed her the bottle when I was no where around. It seemed that if she could see me, she wanted me and could not understand why she couldnt have me. It also helped to have a tshirt that I had worn and not washed next to her and the bottle, it gave her a sense that Iwas there, they get used to your smell at feeding time. Everyone here has great ideas, try as many as you can til you find one that works. You are doing the right thing, if you dont get a little time away, you will start feeling like a feeding machine! Plus, its Christmas and us girls must Shop! Happy Holidays and Good Luck with Ella!

When my son was 2 & 1/2 months old we lost his daddy. I needed a lot of help & had to put my baby on formula. I talked to a lactation consultant & she was very helpful. She told me not to try the bottle while he was real hungry because he would be too frustrated. She also told me not to cradle him while giving him the bottle. I could hold him facing away from me or sitting up in his infant seat or some other ways. I started out with the breast & fed him a little so that he was not so hungry, then I finished his feeding with a bottle & it didn't take long at all to get him used to formula.

I don't know what kind of packy you use, but the only bottle my son will take is the soothie bottle. It is "most like the breast" and definitely most like the packy they started him on at the hospital (he never was too attached to the packy though). My daughter did better with a soft top cup. The other thing is maybe the nipple releases differently, too fast or slow. I have to extra holes with a hot needle. Try to stay calm, make it as much like nursing in the environment as possible and don't force it. Also try nursing him well, then letting him try the bottle after the first breast. He may be less frustrated then. It will come in good time. You may also just make sure he has a bottle near him to become more comfortable with when he plays. If you can't get him to take it, it will be okay. You can excuse yourself for a few minutes if you need to. I just lay a blanket over us while I nurse.

Yes, It is the Playtex Vent air nurser, that is what we use & mine takes it from me or my husband. I'm lucky I guess. I was going to suggest this when i read the request & it is cool that someone had the same idea. Also, I agree with catching her before she is worked up. Good Luck!

She's not too old. Any habit can be formed with consistency and encouragement. There are a few things to consider. What kind of nipple did you use? My kids were VERY picky about the nipple. Silicone was not an option. I had to use an orthotic shaped rubber nipple. The other thing was I had to use a larger nipple for them (at 3 months I was using a 6-9 month nipple because the milk came out so slow in the newborn to 3 month nipple. You don't want the milk to flow too fast or they become lazy suckers and you don't want the milk to be difficult to get or they refuse to try it. Why drink a bottle when it takes 30+ minutes to do what can be accomplished in 5-7? The last think that was hugely important was temperature. It needs to be the same temp as when it comes out of mom. Some babies would eat anything so this may not matter for them, but I know for mine, they preferred mom and if mom was not available then the next closest thing would do. So those are things to think about.

Also another thing to think about. When you get sick, if you can by all means continue to nurse. You may be protecting your baby from getting your illness or at least from getting it as badly. You will produce antibodies and your child will drink them and start fighting it off before it really starts. This worked great for all 3 of my kids when I nursed them. I always tried to make sure if they got exposed to someone ill, that I had at least the same level of exposure so I could start make antibodies...even if I didn't get sick my body was at least on some level defending itself from whatever I was exposed to and thus allowing the same for my child thru me as I helped my child build their natural immunity.

Good luck and I really hope that you can find the right bottle or nipple or temperature or whatever it is so your child will accept a bottle when needed.

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hi K., 1st when you do give her the bottle put a blanket or what ever you've done normally to cover yourself. also hold her just as if you were breast feeding her but instead you are holding a bottle. and do it when its not a naptime or bedtime. also do these things if she goes to daycare. hopefully this helps you a little.

You can change to the Playtex bottle's with the drop in liner with the comfort latch nipples. I use these with my daughter because I am not able to breastfeed because of piercings that I have.

I know with my little girl, at first it helped to hold her sitting up more...facing out or towards me on my knees while we fed her a bottle. This helped to not confuse her about nursing and I was told sitting in a more upright position forces a breastfed baby to need to suck more from the bottle just like they do from the breast. I've also heard sometimes Mom needs to be out of the house for the first few bottles, baby can sense you're there and wonders why you're not feeding them with the bottle. If she still won't take the bottle, try a sippy cup...it doesn't matter how she gets the milk when you're not around, just that she gets it.

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