I hate to discourage you but she sounds like my daughter....and I had no luck potty training her until recently and she is 3 1/2. I had started to try things with her back when she was 2 with no luck. She just wanted nothing to do with it. I do have a few suggestions though. You can try a reward system. Use stickers, a small piece of candy like an M & M. Also, try putting the potty chair in the livingroom in front of the TV. Put in a video and have her sit bare bottom on it. Other than those, if she does want to or isn't truly ready, nothing will work until she is. Good luck!!!