My son Ethan is healthy and smart too. He also has Down Syndrome (it's not Down's guys. That drives parents crazy) OK, so right now he has a cold and a fever of 101. Anybody elses kid sick? And he is developmentally delayed, but his Kindgergarten teacher says there are all kinds of smart and HE, is smart. We chose not to do any tests. So glad I did. I would have worried too, and that really is awful. We miscarried twice before Ethan, and worrying about losing another one was enough. Was it scary news, yes, but has it been awful-not all all. If you do get tested, please have good counseling before you make any decisions. 3-21 is World Down Syndrome day. Let's Celebrate their lives well worth living!