J.S. asks from Miami, FL on December 24, 2009
PMS Is Brutal
I feel like I am going to explode from bloating, hormones, bad vibes & have been eating more then my ex-football playing husband. I seriously canNOT stand myself. Who would have though PMS would be this bad??? Heating pad helps but not a practical option 24/7 for a week!
I am 42 and while I don't smoke more then a half-pack, it's enough so I can't use birth control pills. I don't exercise & crave salt & sugar like H20 and air, so don't suggest sit-ups & diet..not gonna happen....I know myself too well...
But any other help/suggestions would be welcomed.
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L.C. answers from Tampa on December 25, 2009
J.,
Have you spoken with your Dr. I can relate to hormones not being an option (I'm in that situation).
Have you had blood work done & hormones (thyroid & reproductive) checked?
Some antidepressants can help with PMS & PMDD.
You also may want to consider acupuncture & chinese herbs. If you need I referral I can recommend 2 practioners in the area.
You may also want to go to a naturopath Dr,
Although, they will all say to exercise. You just need to find what works for you. I have yet to find what I like, can stick with and work into my schedule :)
V.G. answers from Orlando on December 25, 2009
J., go immediately to your gynecologist. My 16 yo daughter suffered so for 4 years! We saw our family doctor, actually; daughter has not yet seen a gyn. Anyway! I know you said no birth control, but she now takes Seasonique and only has her period 4 times a year! Great! Also dr. prescribed some pills to take even when the symptoms come on, and daughter says they work wonders!
I, on the other hand, never had a problem till I was 46. Suddenly, my period just wouldn't stop! Well, after about 2 or 3 weeks, of course, I called my wonderful gyn, and we decided upon endometrial ablation. Look it up or ask your dr; it's fabulous, if you are a candidate! Most women never menstruate again (me included!). I wish you the best! Go! Ask! You do not have to suffer!
R.A. answers from Boca Raton on December 25, 2009
Hi J.,
I know you're saying don't suggest diet as it's not going to happen but think about what you're saying. It's as if you know it's from your diet. Otherwise you're just waiting for medication and all that will do is mask your problem and do more damage in other ways.
Dietary change really is the key.
Think of how you said that, you are craving it. So it's like when you tell a junky not to shoot up or an alcoholic not to have a drink. Well.... you're an adult, you know the reality, if you crave it, it's because your body is hurt you. Sooooooo you need to clean out your body and the cravings will go away and you'll feel better. It's a win win situation.
The other point is you'll teach your children good eating habits and start a healthy life for them so they have less problems later on.
People don't realize that society pumps all sorts of processed foods into the world, people eat it, get sick, long term destruction and then people cry out for help. DUH!
We need to take responsibility for our problems.
I can assure you if you give up eating sugar and that includes sugar in everything, read ingredients!!!! you will slowly life yourself from the fog and feel better. It will take some time but hey, how many years of putting garbage in your body did it take to feel as you do now?
Eat:
fresh veg, lots of whole grains (no, that doesn't mean whole wheat bread, it means rice, quinoa, barley, oats, kamut, etc), fresh beans, some fruits and get off dairy, animal products and cigarettes.
Otherwise, accept the fact that you are going to keep falling apart and your body will keep giving you reminders through pain and disease.
C.G. answers from Gainesville on December 25, 2009
I started with all the same expect for the smoking I don't. But I talked to my Dr and got on prozac it helps balance things and more of a normal flow of life. Then you won't want to eat so much you will feel better about yourself at least that is how I feel now and the weight is coming off slowly but it is coming off. Have more energy also, Good Luck
B.K. answers from Tallahassee on December 26, 2009
Try yoga and/or meditation. Meditation is like "taking out the mental garbage". It will help keep your mood even. The other stuff would respond well to diet changes and exercises, if you ever change your mind.
T.B. answers from Miami on December 30, 2009
Believe it or not, if you remove sugar from your diet, you will stop craving it. Once you introduce it back into your diet, however, you will be back to craving it. It sounds like you are not willing to change what is wrong: smoking, diet, and lack of exercise. I am sorry, but I have to agree with the lady who suggested change or stop complaining. Medication is only a mask for what is truly wrong and all medications have side effects that may be more unfavorable than you may think. I suffer from PMDD and found that 5-HTP works for that. However, I exercise 6 days a week, I don't smoke, and I eat a balanced diet, watching sugar and fat intake. While my PMDD is not gone, it's far more manageable than it was before I started taking the herbal supplement. I would speak to your doctor about your symptoms just to make sure you don't have any underlying issues but my best advice would be to change what you are unwilling to change. Not only will you feel better about yourself, but you may surprised by your overall improved well being.
M.S. answers from Sarasota on December 25, 2009
B12 or a B complex vitamin daily!
C.M. answers from Melbourne on December 25, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about your menstrual problems. I used to suffer in the same ways. I had a procedure called an 'endometrial ablation.' Ask your ob/gyn about it. Tell her all the symptons you have. Basically, it will take away your periods altogether. No more pain. No more bad moods for seven whole days. It has positively affected my whole life. I am so much happier. But, you can only have this done if you are not considering more children. You can check it out online. Start with webmd and see if they have anything on the topic. I trust that site.
Good luck!
C.
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