Planning First Trip with First Baby

Hi~
Cruises are a lot of fun and they offer everything you can find on land, from laundry service to sitters, from fine art to fine dining. But some of them come with a price tag and it could be high.
For booking, I think I'd go with an agent. They may help you think of things you forgot. If you make a list of all the things you use every single day for your baby, that would assure you that you haven't overlooked anything, like a crib for sleeping.
Some other suggestions were to get a room in the "center" of the ship, to minimize the rocking you might otherwise feel, but it won't matter because you won't be in your room all the time anyway. You'll be there to sleep, dress and not much else. Another thing...if baby doesn't like very dark rooms, then I would suggest you spend the extra money and get an exterior room. Interior rooms are devoid of any light other than lamps. It can be unnerving.
Finally, if you are particular about who watches your baby, then it may behoove you to invite a temporary "nanny" so you can have your time to do as you wish and she'll watch baby all the time. If you are more "hands on" (and it seems you are) then perhaps a teen would better suit your needs. She would be responsible for watching baby while you and hubby do your thing at night. Just please make sure if you bring someone with you, then she understands she will not be paid. After all, she's getting a free cruise. I think a relative might be best, if you have someone within your family.
Many cruises are just fun all the time, the staff is fun and engaging and most helpful, too so have a great time...
~J.

Our first trip was with the kids was a cruise to Bermuda. I hate to fly so for me cruising is wonderful. The minute you step on the ship you are on vacation. The reason why I chose Bermuda was for the same reason you stated I wasen't sure if the rocking of the ship was going to bother them or even myself. When you go to Bermuda you usually dock for a few days so the ship (even though there isn't much rocking anyway) is steady and you can get on and off as you please. Most other cruises you are at sea a lot and only stop every day or so for a few hours. Bermuda is beautiful we have been back three times since. It is clean, safe, and very easy to get around with bus shuttles, ferry boats, cabs etc. The beaches are incredible. We took Carnival the first few times and Royal the next. Believe it or not the food was better on Carnival although the atmosphere is nicer I thought on Royal. If you want kid friendly and family orientated I would do Carnival. Some people on the more exclusive lines are not so open to kids around them (if you know what I mean). Many couples go for a get away and are not open to children running around. Carnival is a whole different atmosphere. Good luck and have fun!!

My advice would be do not take a young baby on a cruise.
The virus factor is too great. Too many people in a
contained area. Just not worth it in my opinion.

my suggestion is you guys are traveling by plane when the plane takes off give her a bottle or a pacifier because that will help with her ears and tummie discomfort also when the plane lands i also went a vacation with my son when he was younger and it was an excellent plane ride no discomfort for him at all. if your travelibg via car maintain the schedule your in when your home abd swaddle swaddle swaddle. when on a cruise remember she was on a 9 month cruise constant movement motions just keep her swaddeld they have a carrier that supposed to resembl being in the womb. enjoy your trip enjoy your baby

N B,
I wouldn't do cruise, after all the hype about germs and illnesses aboard! But that is me.

You might bring stroller baby carrier for your conveneince, but car seat is a must if you will do any taxi/car rides in ports.

The rest is up to you, but ifyou are not up for rocking any more than you already do for bedtime, maybe a cruise is not such a hot idea.

What is the problem with flying - other than recirculated germs?

Ideal for me: Car + trailer + food + dog + hubby + baby + approx 800 miles due south = nice camping spot. No rocking except in the hammock, no germs except what we bring. Chirping birds, a little rain, a little sun, a little fun, a lot of real relaxation.

Good luck,
M.

Cruises are great trips for families. Most will not allow the baby on the ship until they are 6 months old. I would consider Royal Carribbean the best for kids that is reasonably priced. Disney is great too, but very expensive.

To avoid the rocking, request a cabin that is mid-ship. They are the most stable. Also most of the ships have stbilizers now that are much better then past years. You almost never feel them moving. My sister is taking my nephew on a cruise with us this Summer. We are going in July and he will be just over 1 year.

You can definately bring a stroller. I am a travel agent, so of course I',m going to say book with a travel agent. They can often get you better pricing and they can give great advice (of course, I am biased). If you want specific info or pricing, let me know. My email is ____@____.com

Well don't worry about the rocking, babies love to be rocked. She has been rocking for 9 months. If you plan on leaving the ship for tours, you should bring her car seat, unless her baby carrier can be strapped in with seat belts.
I dont think you will have any problems if you are nursing, but if she is on formula then you need to be real careful about the water. I'm not talking about Mexico's water, but simply the change in chemicals different places use can give a baby diarrhea. If possible find out what kind of bottled water the ship uses and get her used to it before you go.
Some ships also have certified baby sitters so you can enjoy some time by yourself. You can get most information on their websites.

Hey there - Ive been on 4 cruises - mostly alone with the husband but the one time we took the kids it was so much fun. It was a cruise to nowhere - it leaves NYC and comes back 48 hours later, no excursions. My youngest was just over 1 years old at the time and it was fun watching her walk along the corridors with the ship moving...

Here are some tips i could offer you:

You dont need a car seat on the ship. Not 100% sure if you can bring a stroller, we didnt, I would check the individual cruise line for that - the baby carrier may make it easier for you to walk around the ship with the baby. Be sure to ask for a crib when you book your cruise, They are small enough to fit in any room you are in.

Like any trip research all avenues sometimes a travel agent can offer a better deal then online. I once booked a trip thru an agent and it turned out to be a little more then booking online directly thru the cruise line - most of those websites charge a fee making it a little more then booking directly thru Carnival or Royal Caribbean. Pick your cruise then go directly to the cruise line website to book. Calling sometimes costs more too - airlines do this.

You can find some great travel tips on the cruise line websites.

There really is no ship that has less rocking, perhaps larger ships dont sway as much but it all depends on the waters and if a storm just passed chances are your ship will rock a little more. (we had to deal with this once, lucky we dont get sick on cruises) The best advise would be to get a room as HIGH and CENTER of the ship as possible. Think of it as a pendulum on a clock... the higher up you are the less you will feel. Its crazy that the infirmary is on the lowest level of the ship.. think about that one, lol.

Disney cruise line is supposed to be great for kids, but Ive never done that one - weve always gone on Carnival - when we went with the kids - we were able to leave them in 'Camp Carnival' for hours at a time and go to the shows on the ship or just have 'us' time. My sons were gone for almost 7 hours, they kept them really busy and returned them to their cabin at night, my sons at the time were 10 and 11 - but this is an extra cost on top of the cruise. They give you a 'beeper' like when you go to a restaurant, so they can contact you at any point, just in case - so you have peace of mind.

I wish you luck and hope you find the best cruise for yourself and family.

while cruises are great for older kids, id be cautious about taking an infant. just as a PP stated the virus, many people, small space thing concerns me. traveling with an infant is so much easier than a toddler. i wouldnt rule out airplane travel, maybe to a club med/breezes type place that offers kids club and in your case day care. good luck and enjoy!