Opinions on the IUD

I will help you with a fundraiser if you want the tubal ligation. It's ridiculous that the insurance won't pay for it because it is way cheaper than a fifth baby!

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Hi C.,

Instead of messing with your body's natural function, try considering Natural Family Planning (The Billings Method)! It is the most wonderful thing my husband and I could have chosen for our family. Not only is it free to do, it's an amazing feeling to know that you are working completely WITH your body, rather than against it. My husband and I postponed pregnancy with no problems for two and a half years, and then when we decided to conceive, were able to get it on the second cycle!

Anyway, it's definitely something worth considering. My mother-in-law is a certified teacher and I would happily put you in contact with her.

Best of luck! ~D.

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The doctors and midwives where I work LOVE the Mirena and so do a majority of the patients. It's convenient and so much nicer than having to remember to take a pill daily. With everything in life a small percentage of the population will have difficulties but it's a very small percentage. Yes, some gals get pregnant but again a much smaller percentage than those using pills, condoms, foam, rhythm etc. And pregnancy carries risks as well. Having a tubal has risks. Again, a small percentage. Don't focus on people's horror stories, just be aware that complications can occur. You have to decide what will work for you and your husband and having 10 children in 14 years would be a big challenge as well! Talk to your doctor and I'm sure he/she will be able to explain your options, pros and cons. I bet you'd love the Mirena. And down the line, if you decide you want another baby, you still have that as an option. Good luck.

Go to planned parenthood they might have a way to help you afford his vasectomy. Krissy

well, i have had it now for about two months or so. the only real complications we (my husband and i) have had so far with it our that he can feeli the stings from it sometimes while inside me, which goes away with time. the other is that i had that side effect where i bleed for about a month to two months after getting it. (brought back memories of having a baby and the aftermath.) but then it is all fine and swell. we havent had a single problem other than that. i would recomend it for anyone like me who cant remember to take a pill regularly. i love mine.

Hello C., I have had an IUD Mirena since 2003 after my 2nd child was born. I love it!!!! Since I am a busy mom of 2 I forget easily and having an IUD is a worry free way to make sure we don't have anymore surprises!!! I just recently had my original IUD removed 2 weeks ago and a new on inserted and would recommend it to anyone. I have never had a problem though there are side effects I have had no problems at all!!! I have a web site you can go to and view more info on the Mirena it is www.simplymirena.com I wish you the best with your 4th child and give you kudos for having 4. I have 2 and I'm not sure if that's it,but the Mirena has given me that opportunity to wait awhile to see!!!! For me it's been a 5 year+ guarantee!!!! If you have any questions feel free to contact me again once the baby is born by then I should be the Mirena spokes person!!! HA HA HA!!!! Best Wishes!!!

Will they cover Mirena? When I went in for my class before my tubiligation, they spoke very highly of Mirena. It is similar to the IUD, and it last for like 6 years. Plus it has a lot of positive side affects. The teacher really raved about it.

try planned parenthood for vasectomy...it was cheap for my husband...but the reversal was really expensive :)

This is a little off the subject but....
Have you actually talked to a financial counselor at the hospital where you are delivering? A lot of time you can get a pretty decent quote for "cash pay" procedures. Maybe they could work you up a quote for the tubal ligation that is manageable for your budget. At the hospital I work for we give 50% off if you pay prior to the procedure and write off the rest of the balance. Just an idea. I don't know much about the IUD because I had a tubal ligation right after I had my second child (and I mean minutes after!). But I do know that the cash price of a tubal ligation is a heck of a lot cheaper than the price of another child. It might be a good idea since you do have time, to get quotes from various hospitals where your OB/GYN has privelages. I don't know, just an idea.... Good Luck to you whatever you choose and have a happy last pregnancy! Take Care!

I would not trust an IUD. See if you can make payments to the hospital, save up or change insurance companies. Maybe the local womens clinic, Family Planning, can help you defray the costs?
E. H

I have had much success with the IUD & haven't had any issues. I am on the Mirena brand for 5 years & don't have to remember to take any pills. My husband & I are undecided on a 2nd child so this provided us the best option while we make a decision. My insurance covered it without question 100% & we had it placed at about 3 mos after I gave birth. Periods are quite light & you hardly notice them. The only con I see is that there is a very thin wire that is attached to the end of the IUD that your husband may or may not feel, so your Dr. can have it cut down if need be. I never told my hubby about this & it has never been an issue! Otherwise, I would HIGHLY recommend it!

C., I'm not sure what your financial status is. But the state offers a program that if you qualify you can either get the IUD or a tubal ligation at no cost to you. I work in a private ob/gyn office in Mission Hills, Ca and we offer the program. I'm a new member with Mamasource and I'm not sure if you can contact me. H. M

Have you spoken with the people at Planned Parenthood, or the Los Angeles Free Clinic? I would be suprised if they did not have some sort of reduced pay for a vasectomy. Good luck!

Have you checked if your insurance will cover a Vasectomy? It usually does. That would be my recommendation as I have never used an IUD, but a close friend of mine has a beautiful baby girl who she conceived with an IUD in place. It was not an easy pregnancy as the IUD had to be removed, etc.
Good luck.

Due to an immune disorder, I was discouraged from using contraceptive pills. Therefore, I opted to get an IUD. My IUD was inserted six months ago. For the first couple of months I was uncomfortable, but now I feel fine.

C.,
I always had trouble remembering to take pills, so I put them by my toothbrush. That way, I took one in the AM when I brushed my teeth. It seemed like a painless way to go. I couldn't get into doing the IUD. It creeps me out.
I did have a tubal lig and am so happy I took the step. Good luck with whatever you decide. It's not easy. But having more and more kids is even harder.
PCM

Well C.,
I have had one experience with an IUD. He is my 15 year old son, Greg.
Never had any cramping, bleeding, etc. Just didnt work.

Well I have an interesting story for you. I have a ParaGuard IUD (the copper one) and I found out today that I'm pregnant. My IUD is still there but it has moved and that's how it happened. My husband and I were in a state of shock when we found out but wanted to have another child anyway so we had to laugh. If you really want to get the IUD I would suggest using another form of birth control too such as condoms just in case so you don't end up in my position. Good luck to you!

I used to be on the IUD myself. I had a great experience with it. The only down side is when it needs to come out( you experience severe cramps). The other down side to the IUD is it increase the chance of getting cervical cancer because of the copper in it. I had it in five years and never received an abnormal PAP smear. It is important to remember what type of IUD you have ( some are 5 years and others 7 years) and the month and year you get the IUD put in. Your OBYGN will always ask you those two questions.