Not Feeling Baby Move at 19 1/2 Weeks

Im in my 4th pregnancy now at 21 weeks and I don't feel much of any movement either. My doctor said its because of not being very far along and the position the baby is in makes a big difference in feeling any movement too. I also lost my 3rd at 9 weeks and have some extra weight/abdominal skin i blame on two c-sections.
good luck.

Every baby is different...my mom was pregnant with me first and I moved ALL the time...but my mom said my brother (2nd) NEVER moved and she actually thought there was something wrong with him - she asked the doctor and he said everything was fine...when my brother was born he was such a laid back baby and I was definitely more high strung...so I guess our personalities were evident in utero....try not to worry - every doctor's visit seems like an eternity away - but just stay healthy and in the next visit, hopefully they will reassure you that everything is fine....

extra weight can make it harder to detect movement, also, if you have an anterior placenta (where the placenta is on the front of your uterus, toward your belly instead of your back) that can mask movement. If you are having twins, they tend to move a little less as they begin to crowd each other. if you are concerned, call your healthcare provider.

A quick word of caution about the home dopplers - because it can be tricky locating the baby's heart beat at times, even for professionals, don't freak out if you can't find it right away. Still call your HCP, but don't immediately assume the worst.

This is my 2nd pregnancy and I'm at 22 weeks - still nothing but Braxton Hicks. However, I also have the anterior placenta (front of the uterus) and was told that is why by the perinatologist.

Try to relax. Worrying won't increase your chances of a healthy baby. Think positive thoughts. If your doctor will allow it, maybe consider some prenatal yoga to help you feel better connected to the baby and help with relaxation.

Cheers,
C.

You can always have your doctor do a stress test (I think that's what it's called). I had my first baby a year ago and when I was nervous about her not moving my doctor had no problem with me doing the test. It turned out everything was fine, but it was nice to know :) Good luck!

it's not surprising that you're anxious and worried due to your past experiences. but the other moms are right, stressing is something that is so harmful (although difficult to control!) you are doing everything right. you have competent experienced help, you're being seen and monitored frequently, and you have the HUGE comfort of that doppler telling you the baby is alive and well. you're an experienced mom, and you know every pregnancy is different. remember that what 'most' experience is a generalization and you just can't judge your individual pregnancy solely on what others experience.
try to relax. breathe. meditate. pray. go for slow ambling walks in the lambent spring air. sit with a nice cup of herbal tea and a good book. everything you do affects your growing baby, so make sure what you're doing is good for both of you.
i totally realize this is easier said than done. hugs to you and hope you post soon that all is going well.
khairete
S.

Some babys move around a lot when you are sleeping. Toward the end of my pregnancy I hardly felt my son move at all, but my husband told me the baby was partying all night long. I'd snuggle up to my husband while I slept and my tummy kept nudging him till he fell out of bed.

The baby's position can play a role in this. If the baby is facing your back, you may not feel movements. That happened to a friend of mine. She didn't actually feel her baby move until 30 wks when the baby turned.

Ask your dr about your concerns. Its good that you have a doppler and can reassure yourself by listening to the heartbeat.

I haven't personally had this, but recently a friend (had previously had several babies) said that she didn't hear her baby move until about 20 weeks because the placenta was on that side of the uterus (or something) so it was most likely cushioning the movement.

I am recently pregnant w/ our third son. I was also worried about not feeling him move. I have just recently been able to really feel him move and I just hit my 6 mo. mark. With my others sons, I felt them alot sooner. But this son seems to be more calmer inside me than the other two. Now I wish he would move off my right side (which he apparently loves). :)

I wouldn't worry too much since you are able to hear the baby's heart rate with your at-home monitor. It's natural with your previous losses to be concerned and nerbous...but try and relax. :)

Feeling the baby move depends on so MANY things-- Your position, the baby's position, the placenta's postion; your schedules (does the baby move when you're awake and paying attention, or does he wait until you're busy or sleeping good?) and whether you have the Karate Kid or a couch potato hanging out in there......

I would call your doctor and tell them your concerned. They can do an ultrasound to make sure everything is fine, at least heart tones. It's not good for you to be stressed out about it, call them and they will ease your mind. I'm hoping for the best for you!

S.

First off - take a deep breath!!

Stress will not help you or your baby. You are hearing a heart-beat that's a good thing. You have a doppler at home - wow!

Every pregnancy is different. Some babies stay in the back of the uterus. Others, right up front.

The fact that you are being seen, basically, every two weeks - you are stressing over things you have no control over!!! The stress is not helping you at all.

I had five pregnancies and lost 3 of those - one at 19 weeks and the other two at 12 to 14 weeks. You don't state why you are in a high-risk pregnancy nor how many live births you have had. But bottom line? DO NOT stress - you can hear a heartbeat? The baby MAY be in the back of your uterus.

I hope that all goes well for you in this pregnancy!! Please do not stress - you are not helping yourself or your baby!!

Best,

C.