M. asks from Goodlettsville, TN on October 02, 2006
No More SMOKING
Any former smokers with some advice for how you quit. I ran out yesterday and decided not to buy anymore. I have hit the "butts" a couple of times but my husband and kids still have their heads intact! Please tell me what worked for you, I do not want to be a smoker anymore!!!
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Thank you Thank you Thank you ALL for the great advice.
Everyone seems to have a little different piece to the puzzle and I am grateful for the imput. Each one of your nuggets comes up at a difficult time and helps me push through.
I have hit a few "butts" in really tough times but still have not smoked a full cig for almost 2 days! Might seem like a short time but to me it seemed impossible only a few days ago.
Today I am going to do what someone said and focus on the positive benefits of being a non smoker rather than the fact that I havent had a cig in a while. I also really like the idea of putting the cig money in an envelope for something in my future, I think I'll make it a gift for my husband and kids since they have put up with my smoking for years. I guess I have always been able to motivate myself for others, not that I don't think I am good enough reason all on my own!
Just wanted to say thanks for caring enough to spend time offering me what has worked for you. Congrats to all who have overcome this habit and to thos who are on their way to the same, including ME!
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E.C. answers from Atlanta on October 05, 2006
Get pregnant. That's what worked for me. I don't know, something about protecting my child. Anyway, just an idea.
S.H. answers from Augusta on October 03, 2006
There's a book called, "The easiest way to quit smoking" the author's name is something Carr. My husband read it and by the time he finished the book, he had quit smoking. Also, you can look on-line for herbal "quit smoking" pills, that have worked for a few of my friends. Hope this helps.
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S.H. answers from Augusta on October 03, 2006
There's a book called, "The easiest way to quit smoking" the author's name is something Carr. My husband read it and by the time he finished the book, he had quit smoking. Also, you can look on-line for herbal "quit smoking" pills, that have worked for a few of my friends. Hope this helps.
M. answers from Atlanta on October 03, 2006
Today is my first day without cigarettes too! I've quit before so I know I can do it again. Good luck to you- I have no answers. All I know is you have to make that decision and STICK TO IT!!! No MATTER WHAT!!! It's hard but I've always heard that after 3 days it's all in your head. So just know that every hour that goes by you're closer to having it all out of your system. Good Luck!! Wish Me Luck Too!!!
M.
A.S. answers from Nashville on October 02, 2006
Good for you!!
I quit smoking 4 1/2 years ago, cheated once on a night out with a good friend and regretted it later! I will not go back to being stinky anymore either!!
One thing I did is reward myself for not smoking. Each week I would put $25 (or what I'd spend on a carton) in an envelope with something that I wanted written on the outside, like, new bedroom furniture, or new summer clothes, or Vehical Payment, what ever I wanted to pay on for the month. This way I felt like I was quitting for a "good" reason, (not that my health and my kids weren't a good reason to quit too!) Reward yourself... You are doing a great thing for yourself and others around you!!!
Good Luck, A.
A.N. answers from Atlanta on October 02, 2006
Hey
I smoked for 13 years and felt just like you....ready to quit!!! I think that is the first step. I used the patch. I started with step one for 6 weeks then moved to step 2 for 2 weeks and by the time I got to step three I only did it for a couple of days. One day I forgot to put the patch on and realized then that I didn't need it anymore. My sister quit this way too. If you smoke less than a pack a day you should start with step two for 6 weeks and go from there. Don't be discouraged if it doesn't work. You'll get there, like I said, the first step is being ready.
I noticed that you said you homeschool your children? My son is only 2 but I do plan on homeschooling as well. I have another baby on the way due in Febuary and was thinking about trying the mothers morning out program when my son is three, It is twice a week. Just so he can learn to play without me around. IS that against the homeschooling program? Will they get confused if they learn from a teacher? Have you ever left your kids like that?
E.C. answers from Atlanta on October 05, 2006
Get pregnant. That's what worked for me. I don't know, something about protecting my child. Anyway, just an idea.
L.B. answers from Jackson on October 03, 2006
Not sure what to tell you, but i am in the same boat. I had smoked for 9 years and quit when i was preg. with my last one. He is 17 months. Then 4 months later i started back. Now i have been trying unsucessfully to quit for 14 months. Let me know how your progress is going and any tricks you learn along the way that may help another stinky mom in need of freshening up.
L.H. answers from Knoxville on October 02, 2006
Wellbutrin. I took it twice a day and it was soooooooo easy.
I only had cravings for about a week, and the one time I smoked aftyer quitting, it was completely unsatisfying and NASTY. I was totally ungrumpy too!
K.H. answers from Biloxi on October 02, 2006
M., Have you tried the Patch? I picked it up five days ago and it has worked. Well, I did rip it off this morning and smoked a few, but I didn't "need" one. I didn't take the time to stop and pray about it, I just did it. I'm getting ready to shower and slap on another one. I will try everyday until I'm smoke free. I will pray for you as well. Just think how nasty it is...God does not want us to be dirty...he wants us to be clean and pure. We can do it. We are women...Look at everything we can do...lol we can beat this. :)
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