K.J. asks from Spring Hill, TN on July 13, 2010
New to Cloth Diapers and Need Some Help Please
I have recently started using cloth diapers on my 16 month old. We have been going back and forth between cloth and disposables for almost 2 months now. I have two issues and a question that I was hoping some of you moms could help me:
1-What do I use when she gets a diaper rash? We used to use a mix of Desitin and Vaseline, because it is the only thing she would respond to well. I know that it can hinder how your cloth inserts absorb water so I don't use it on them. Any time she gets a rash now, I put disposables on her (I know they can cause rash, too) so I can use the mix then switch her back into cloth when it clears.
2-How do I get them to hold more, because she is always leaking? They were working wonderfully for us in the beginning so we went out and spend $200 stocking up on more so I could use them full time. However, right after we did that, we started having issues. Since it has been hotter, she is drinking more and more. She can wear a cloth diaper for 30-45 min and it is so full that it has already leaked. I have washed my clothes several times which they say makes them more absorbent. I have also stripped them in case there was already build up on it. I am using the largest size possible on her, too. Do I just need to wait until it gets cooler and she is drinking less water before I use them again, or is there something else I can do.
3-I would also like to know what kind of soap you use to wash your diapers and where you buy it. I have read that certain soaps are better than others for cloth, but all the brands they list are brands I have never heard of before. I would appreciate you sharing that as well.
If anyone else has any other cloth diaper suggestions or any tricks you have used to make things easier, please feel free to share those with me, too. I am new and besides what I have read online, I don't really know much about using them. Thanks!
Edit-Here is some more info to help:
*I am currently using gDiapers. Their cloth inserts are both hemp and microfiber.
*The diapers and inserts do come in sizes with gDiapers.
*I stripped them by their directions -boil for 30 minutes, then wash without detergent
*I am using Dreft to wash them which I read wasn't the best but was still better than others. I am planning to buy better detergent for them soon which is why I would love suggestions.
*I wash them on hot with half the amount of detergent it suggests. Then I either dry them in the dryer or put them out in the sun if it is a nice day
*I don't know if we have hard water or not so I can't answer that question
I hope this answers everyone's questions and it helps everyone answer more easily. Thanks for all the help already!
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J.P. answers from Boise on July 13, 2010
I have some cotton strips that I use when I need to use diapercream. I actually put it on everynight to prevent diaper rash, and it works great. You can just cut up an old t shirt, or use flannel wipes.
What kind of diapers are you using. It is hard to give suggestions without knowing that. I have heard that hemp inserts hold more. My son is a VERY heavy wetter and we use BumGenius. At night we use two normal and one infant insert. By largest possible size, are the diapers sized or one size that adjusts? That could be part of the problem with the leaking, in that the diaper is too big. If it isn't tight around her legs and waist, it can leak, or wick out.
I use the Costco dye free, scent free detergent.
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A.C. answers from Cincinnati on July 13, 2010
1 - I use a zinc-oxide-based diaper cream like Desitin but I put a paper (flushable or compostable) diaper liner in the diaper in case of a diaper rash, to keep the cream off of the diaper. You can buy them on amazon.com if no one near you sells them.
2 - Consider a diaper doubler. If you are already using a diaper doubler, check the fabric. Hemp is more absorbent than cotton, and I have been told that microfiber is even more absorbent than hemp. Microfiber is supposedly drying against the skin, though, so I have been advised to use it in pocket diapers or in between the diaper and a hemp doubler. Be careful stripping the diapers unless what you are using is specifically designed for cloth diapers.
3 - I use Charlie's Soap, and love it. It is highly recommended for cloth diapers. I buy it from a local cloth diapering store, but you can get it on amazon.com with free shipping. I have heard great things about Rockin Green, which I think is a specific cloth-diaper cleaner, but it's more expensive than Charlie's Soap per load, which is the only reason I'm not really tempted to switch it up. But people who use it love it.
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M.B. answers from Dallas on July 13, 2010
I saw you added more info! I have always done a quick cold rinse, washed on hot, then another cold rinse. The diapers I use suggested washing this way. Something about starting with a hot wash will set in stains and bacteria..?? All I know, is it's always worked for me :) I use Calgon, which is a water softener. It helps with my diapers, a lot! You might try it, it's only $4 at the grocery store.
It does sound like you need a good stripping. And definitely new detergent!! That dreft, is probably the culprit behind the repelling, causing the leaks. I love cloth diapers and I hope you have better luck with them soon!!
No matter how much she drinks, there shouldn't be leaks after 45 minutes!! What kind of diapers do you use? How did you strip you diapers? What detergent are you currently using? What is your washing routine when washing the diapers? Do you have hard water? If we knew the answers to those questions, it would really help! I suspect you may have a repelling issue. There might be enzymes in the detergent you're using, that cause it to repel liquids and also prevent them from getting really clean. As far as diaper cream, I just take cloth wipes or strips of fleece and put it between the skin and the diaper. The cream doesn't get on the diaper that way. Grandma Els daper cream is safe with cloth diapers. I remember seeing some at Target and
Babies R Us.
I use Country Save detergent, which can be found at Sprouts Markets or Whole Foods (in most). Rockin Green is a detergent made specifically for cloth diapers and can be purchased online.
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C.R. answers from Knoxville on July 14, 2010
Could you double up on the diapers. We did cloth but the kind we used were gauze diapers that were recatangular. We would fold them depending on the size of the baby. At night I would take a second diaper folded to go into the other as a liner for my sons. We always used dreft. We also had a diaper pail with bleach water in it. That is where we put the diapers then poured the whole thing into the washer and ran it on a short load, then did a second time with detergent.
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B.M. answers from Wilmington on July 14, 2010
Hi,
My son has been out of diapers for a long while now, but I used cloth diapers when he was a baby. Here are my suggestions.
1 - When he had a diaper rash (rare), I would temporarily switch to disposables and use Aquaphor on the rash. That stuff is wonderful! You can get it in the baby aisle, or find it a little cheaper in the regular skin care aisle. I bought a tub of it (12 oz. maybe?), and it's still almost half full five years later. A little dab works wonders on diaper rash, and is also good for any other kinds of scrapes, cuts, etc.
2 - For the leaks issue, try using two inserts. You can also buy microfiber cloths in the automotive department at Target (or wherever) and those work great, too... and they're cheaper! Just wrap one around the regular insert for added absorbtion. A friend suggested that and it worked great for us!
3 - I used Tide with our cloth diapers, and it worked fine. One of the diaper websites had suggested Tide as an option, and of all the detergents they listed, it was the easiest to find so I switched to it. Every once in a while I would wash a load of diapers with vinegar to strip them, but not often. Generally the Tide worked well, even with really hard water at our house! I usually dried the diapers on the clothesline, although in the winter I found that a hot dryer worked better.
Hope that's helpful, and kudos to you for going the cloth diaper route! Best wishes to you and your family.
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C.S. answers from Columbus on July 13, 2010
Definately use a different detergent. I have used Charlie's soap and liked it. I recently switched to Rockin' Green and Love it!
Also, when my dd has a rash (rare, but it happens) i put a liner in her dipe. They make both paper and cloth ones. You could even buy the fabric and cut your own liners.
Gdiapers also have the biodegradable inserts as an option to the cloth. You could just use those with the g cover until the need for cream is gone.
Good luck and way to go for cloth diapering!!!!
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J.P. answers from Boise on July 13, 2010
I have some cotton strips that I use when I need to use diapercream. I actually put it on everynight to prevent diaper rash, and it works great. You can just cut up an old t shirt, or use flannel wipes.
What kind of diapers are you using. It is hard to give suggestions without knowing that. I have heard that hemp inserts hold more. My son is a VERY heavy wetter and we use BumGenius. At night we use two normal and one infant insert. By largest possible size, are the diapers sized or one size that adjusts? That could be part of the problem with the leaking, in that the diaper is too big. If it isn't tight around her legs and waist, it can leak, or wick out.
I use the Costco dye free, scent free detergent.
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E.H. answers from Nashville on July 14, 2010
I have a combination of bum genius diapers and gdiapers. A few things I have learned: the more you wash the inserts, the more absorbent they become. I use Charlie's soap -it's gentle, affordable, and I can pick it up at my whole foods market (plus it lasts a long time b/c you only have to use 1/8 cup per load). I wash on a short cold cycle with half the amount of detergent, then a hot cycle with 1/8 cup, then an extra rinse.
I let my son "air out" as much as possible if he looks like he may be getting a rash and I keep a dry cloth on hand to make sure he is totally dry after I wipe him and before a new diaper goes on. I also use earth's best diaper rash cream (natural and contains no petroleum based ingredients). There are some other good, natural creams as well, but I have not had any problems with the earth's best ruining his diapers.
As far as leaking goes, I have run into this problem too. Obviously, cloth diapers aren't as leak proof as disposables, but it's worth the effort to me. Have you tried the disposable inserts for gdiapers(they come sized as well)? They work really great, prevent more leaks, and are a bit more breathable than a disposable diaper. You can also find thinner cloth inserts that are called diaper doublers, which just add another layer of protection to the cloth inserts you already have.
Hope this helps and good luck
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M.T. answers from Detroit on July 14, 2010
I have used extra virgin olive oil as a diaper rash ointment and it has worked beautifully and is good for their skin.
We found 2 detergents that we like Eco (http://www.ecostoreusa.com) and a store brand called Meijer Naturally Gentle - sensitive. We tried 7th generation but liked these others better.
We also use gDiapers, although mostly for day wear. I have found that my bummi's inserts work better for heavy days inside the gDiaper cover. We use an imsi vimsi, wool or polar fleece cover for nighttime along with two diaper layers to provide greater absorbency at night. The bummi's insert is about 6 layers of absorbent cotton and fits perfectly into the diaper holder.
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