Hi L.!! My daughter just turned a year old and is allergic to milk/soy. We just found out a month ago. She was breast fed only until she decided to quit. I have to exclude any kind of butter or milk in her food. She loves rice, meats, and some fruits. Noodles are good as well, and anyting with bread. I accidentally fed her some yogurt and she actually did really well. Come to find out it is made with acidophilus. I don't know what your daughter is able to drink, but we found out that our daughter can drink Lacto free milk. They also make acidophilus milk. Land O Lakes brand is what we get. We use WIC and they help provide us with that. I am a pasta eater so I make alot of spaghetti, homemade chicken and noodle, etc.... Just a couple of ideas. She likes fresh fruit I found out. She is not big on canned fruit. She loves bread. PB&J, lunch meat sandwiches. She practically eats everything you and I eat. Now for instance you make your veggies with butter....what I do is cook them pull hers out and then add the butter to ours. Now I have been slowly introducing some milk products to her and testing what she can and cannot have. Try something once and wait for a few days before you try something new. Make sure you record it to give you and your doctor some kind of idea. I hope this helps you out. Good luck!!