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Need Help, Advice, or Maybe Just Encouragement with Exercise/weight Loss.

I am sure other mom's have been in my situation, so I am hoping for some advice. I have always had some weight I would like to lose, but in the last two months, my weight has shot up about 10 more pounds, which now means I would like to lose at least 30. After I had my son I lost a lot of weight, but was spending 2 hours a day in the gym. With two children, I find I do not have that type of time. I had a physical back in October, which included standard thyroid tests, which came back fine.

About a month ago I started getting really upset about it, so I started with some new routines. I have been watching what I eat (although my diet has never been that bad)--trying to eat about 1,200-1,500 calories a day with lots of fruit, veggies, whole grains, and lean protein. I have been exercising for 30 minutes a day with different combinations of 10 minute workouts (cardio, abs, total body, lower body, and yoga). I wear a pedometer and consistently get over 10,000 steps a day between work and walking the dog when I get home. Here's the deal. In the last month, NOTHING has happened. I haven't lost weight or inches. If anything, I am daily becoming even more depressed about how I look. I am also taking some multi vitamins and supplementing my fiber intake.

Any thoughts, recommendations, encouragement, anything that anybody can give me to help--would be so greatly appreciated!

What can I do next?

So What Happened?™

I really appreciate everybody's advice and encouragement. I got some great information as well. First, I joined sparkpeople.com, which is a free tool that you can use to get suggested workouts, meal plans, tips and tricks, as well as track all your calories ,workouts, and goals. I am very excited about using this tool to as proof that I am doing what I should. I am also going to switch to alternating cardio and weight training days. The burst training method I was using didn't seem to be working for me.

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Another great tool to try www.livestrong.com and try the daily plate. Its also free and has helped me tremendously. What I learned from there, I was not eating near enough calories to lose weight. Seems crazy. I was trying to eat 1500 when I should have been at least 1850 and if I work out I usually have to eat at least another 300 calories. Give it a try. Good luck.

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I LOVE Nutrisystem! I have lost 32 lbs and have 25 more to go. This is the first time I see a light at the end of the tunnel. Let me know if you want more info.

K.,

I feel for you. However, I dont understand after all that work nothing has come off? Do you eat a lot of carbs? You know I am not a fan of atkins or anything like that but I will tell you cut your carbs and you will probably loose weight. You dont have to do anyting drastic, but cut the carbs and I think you wil see results.
good luck

I love the original hilton head metabolism diet, sparkpeople.com, and ttapp. The three together have worked wonders for me.

S.

Another great tool to try www.livestrong.com and try the daily plate. Its also free and has helped me tremendously. What I learned from there, I was not eating near enough calories to lose weight. Seems crazy. I was trying to eat 1500 when I should have been at least 1850 and if I work out I usually have to eat at least another 300 calories. Give it a try. Good luck.

Hi K.,

I'm a family health coach and would like to help. A lot of what you mentioned are great practices "lots of fruit, veggies, whole grains, and lean protein. I have been exercising for 30 minutes a day with different combinations of 10 minute workouts (cardio, abs, total body, lower body, and yoga). I wear a pedometer and consistently get over 10,000 steps a day".

I'd like to better understand why your body is holding on to the weight. It could be too few calories, too many calories at each meal, ie. a few large meals vs. more small meals, not eating per your activities/routine, i.e. eating schedule. It could be the amount of rest you get between exercise, the amount of sleep you get each week...it could be a lot things. Please take a look at my website and let me know if you are interested in meeting or talking over the phone for a free consultation. I'd like to better understand your biology, schedule, exactly what your eating and when, as well as, how you are exercising. Please don't be discouraged. Success can be right around the corner!

S. Johnson, Lead Health Coach
www.eatplaylivegreen.com

K. - I started the beginning of this year 28 lbs over where i wish i was and 18 lbs over where i was last summer. For years if i needed to lose weight I would do one of those no carb diets. I loved it and it worked but they were really hard b/c i love my breads and pastas. I also love red meat. I January i really hit it hard going to the gym 4-5 times a week and doing low carb. I'm one of those people that are really motivated by seeing my scale every day. I love when it shows even the slights decrease b/c that way i know i did a good job yesterday and can do it again.

Well - after working so hard and diligently i only lost 2 lbs in January. I'm a very emotional person and it gets worse when it comes to my appearance. The first of Feb. i was seriously at a breaking point. I was depressed and self conscious and couldn't take it anymore.

I called Jenny Craig and set up a time to talk to them and see how their program works. Even when i was in the office with the lady i started crying just b/c i was disappointed in myself and felt miserable and unattractive. I started their 20lbs for $20 promotion. I paid the $20 up front and then buy their food on a weekly basis.

The first two weeks i held strong sticking with mostly their foods (i would supplement here and there) but the meals were wonderful. I love how convenient it is and how i can still cook for my family and not have to worry about my meals b/c they are planned a week in advance and ready to go as soon as i need them. I also go to the gym about 5-7 times a week. I do very intense cardio for 30 minutes. After the first few weeks i started throwing in weight training every other day.

After the first two weeks i couldn't believe how much energy i had and how much weight i was losing. I could tell that my metabolism was picking up. All of this just pushed me even harder. My counselor at Jenny is wonderful although i'm following the program and much happier now so she doesn't really have to work too hard.

I’ve even weaned myself away from the Jenny foods only buying a few of the breakfasts, lunches, and dinners. I stick to my own 100 cal snacks and protein bars.

I know this is long but i just wanted to let you know that I too have been there and this so far has been my saving grace. I've been on the program for 5 weeks and have lost 12.2 lbs according to my weigh in last week. And I’m totally pumped to see how much it is tomorrow.

Jenny is a little expensive but - the new found body, emotions, self esteem, the overall new me is totally worth it.

If you'd like additional info just sent me a message.

Also - I’m not a jenny sales rep i just am truly impressed with the results I’ve seen

I think you're doing great! Good for you for counting calories AND exercising. I suggest you up your calorie intake for a few days. It could be that you've been eating too little with all of your exercise and your body has gone into survival mode. Maybe try to eat a minimum of 1,500 calories for 3-4 days, then go back to your original routine. Remember that you should NEVER eat less than 1,200 calories on an inactive day. If you're exercising, you really should eat more than 1,200 to factor in how much you burn in exercise (i.e. if you exercise and burn 100 calories, then you shouldn't eat less than 1,300 calories those days)

And, don't weigh yourself every day. Once a week should be sufficient (and you won't go crazy with no movement of the numbers.) Also, make sure you're counting EVERYTHING you put in your mouth, including liquid calories. It's easy to grab a bite of something throughout the day and then it really adds up at the end of the day.

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Thanks,
SP

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