Hi N.,
If a church is a true church of God and is based on the Bible, you won't find a church that actually "accepts" all ways of life. What they would do is welcome you and minister to you to teach you the Word of God and what it means in the Bible. They will guide you and love you through this process since we all have to start somewhere. The fact that you are willing to go is wonderful. Once you become more aware of what the Bible really means, God is the one who helps you to internally make the changes He desires. The church is just His mouth, hands, ears, etc (His "body")to help others. That's why it's the "body of Christ." I have been through the Catholic, Episcopal, and Lutheran churches since I was basically raised Catholic. Since I didn't feel like I was growing spiritually and felt like I was "stuck" in a routine environment, I decided to try a non-denominational christian church. I now attend Central Christian Church of the East Valley in Gilbert on Germann and Lindsay. We have another church in Mesa on Lindsay and north of University. Please check out the website at www.cccev.com and see what fits for you. I can honestly and proudly tell you that since I started going there in August 2008, it's been an awesome, wonderful, spirit growing experience! Cal Jernigan is the BEST pastor I have heard teach. His son, Jeremy, teaches the 3rd Format service which is what you probably are looking for on Sundays at 6:00 pm. Please check it out. I promise you will not regret it! I will keep you in prayer. V. Garcia.