F.N. asks from Redondo Beach, CA on February 03, 2012
Nanny Payment
We're in the process of interviewing nannies now, and I had just assumed we would pay "on the books." I'm running into iissues though with nannies wanting to be paid under the table, even when we offer to gross up. They say that this is the "usual" way it's done.
Is that true?? No judgments - Just trying to get a feel. For those paying under the table, what if the nanny gets hurt while in your home? How is that covered? Or if later on in life she applies for social security or something?
Maybe I am just being paranoid but wanted to learn a bit more about what is the norm locally.
Thank you!
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I.W. answers from Portland on February 03, 2012
S.L. answers from Kansas City on February 03, 2012
Be up front and honest regardless of how it's done anywhere else. Hire a person who does it 'right'.
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L._. answers from San Diego on February 03, 2012
Do NOT do it. Do you want your child in the care of a low life that doesn't pay their bills? It's illegal.
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M.C. answers from Washington DC on February 03, 2012
Are you going through a nanny service?
It should be on the books. If its not on the books, then you can't claim the expense on your taxes under childcare.
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N.B. answers from Minneapolis on February 03, 2012
Go legit and only hire someone legit! If it comes back to haunt you it will be in a big tax, legal and financial sort of way.
For you to get the tax credits they need to claim the income or one of you is likely to be "caught" on that (same for home daycare providers...I have been both nanny and dc provider). If they got hurt, you "fired" them (unemployment), etc..all of those scenarios involve being legit.
Make sure you are paying correctly, doing overtime if it applies and all the other rules. There are great resources out there to protect and inform both families and the nannies.
In my opinion a PROFESSIONAL nanny is one who has this in her arsenal. Care might be great with an under the table person, but not very professional, really!
JMO~
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S.S. answers from Chicago on February 03, 2012
no its not how its done for regular real nanny positions. If you pay under the table you can't claim it later. I pay my own taxes. my boss pays me a check each friday. he tells me what he is claiming and i claim that as income. then my tax guy does my taxes. If they are trying to get you to pay under the table /off the books then they are not planning on claiming it. which means you can't claim it at the end of the year either. keep looking.
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J.T. answers from New York on February 03, 2012
I'm not local but I don't really think it's the norm for a professional nanny. Most want to pay into social security etc. And if you're offering to gross it up, they should be happy. When we hired twice through an agency, we paid taxes. And as far as deductions, the whole year is not deductible! I wish it was... I think $5k via your dependent care account is the most that's tax free. I don't think someone wanting to be paid off the books means they won't be a good nanny but it does open you up to some liability I think.
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T.F. answers from Dallas on February 03, 2012
I would not deal with anyone under the table. That should send red flags everywhere to you. it sounds like you have received the red flags well.... follow your gut.
You are doing the right thing to pay properly.
1st,,, never mess with the IRS. You do and you are begging for trouble.
2nd... by asking you to pay under the table, they are admitting that they are dishonest.
3rd... you don't want a dishonest person watching your child do you?
4th... lets say they do have some sort of accident, fall, etc and then you bet they will sue you for anything they can get because... they are dishonest.
5th... there is a reason somewhere as to why they want to be under the table and you know as well as we do that means something somewhere is illegal.
Good luck. Keep looking for an honest person.
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I.W. answers from Portland on February 03, 2012
I am a nanny & I report my income. My employer uses a company that handles the taxes etc. I wouldn't work under the table. That just feels wrong not to pay taxes on my income. The only exception is for one time babysitting jobs. I take those once in a while.
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G.B. answers from Oklahoma City on February 04, 2012
No it is not. They want free money. I would not increase the amount either. That is not fair to you. If you increase their income they still make the same but you are paying more. It's not fair. It's also not normal.
If you contact a CPA who is familiar with hiring contract labor then ask them how to go about doing this with the nanny. That way it is a simple paperwork thing. You hire them to do a job and have a set amount they get paid, they are responsible for paying their own taxes. You do not have to pay SS on them, like hiring a plumber, you don't pay taxes on what you pay them, they are contract labor.
We use substitute teachers in child care like this. They are paid $x per hour of work and then paid. I did not pay any taxes and did not have to file any particular forms at tax time. But a CPA would know exactly how to go about doing this. Calling them a babysitter since they don't live in is okay too. The title "Nanny" implies a lot more that the term "babysitter".
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