Nailbiting Advice

Check to see if they still make that yucky tasteing fingernail polish. That helped my friend when we were young. Get her some gloves to wear-at home, no need to draw attention unless this will help her. Get her to ask her friends to bring it to her attention when she starts biting her nails so she can stop. It will not happen overnight.
Continue to love her and do not scold. She will have to understand that you are not nagging her when you tell her to she needs to stop biting her nails. Talk with her and make a plan.

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Good luck! I would encourage looking for an alternative to nailbiting. Something to keep her hands busy. Wearing gloves at night should help if she does it in her sleep. Might also look into reducing stresses in her life or getting her interested in a calming therapy like yoga or meditation.

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I was a terrible nailbiter for a time in my youth and my brother was a horrible lip chewer and we were two of the most stressed out kids you could find (my parents were good people but they were very high strung). Find out if she is stressed about anything and take notice specific times she does it or times that seem to spark the need to chew. I've noticed kids who have those little quirks like nailbiting or things like stuttering just need more time and more ways to express themselves, not just what's going on in their minds but in their hearts as well. Hang in there!

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I was a nail biter through my high school years. It is a very stressful time for many young women, and can be even worse giiven the current economy.
I finally stopped after having falsies put on for several months. You can't bit through them, and they looks so good. They also hurt like no one's business if you do try to bit them off. It will let her get used to having long nails and give her insintive to grow them out. Now I can grow my nails as long as I want. She can aalso chew gum to help with the transition.
She also needs to learn to manage the stress with visialization, breathing, excerise, journaling, and a different poiint of view. It is a symptom of internal conflict.
I have also used the rubberband, my mom has slapped my hands when she has caught me doing it. I have even tried the naasty tasting liquids. These can work, but don't give her any incintive, and will effect everything that she eats. At 9 years old I'm guessing a large part of her diet is finger foods.

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