A.M. asks from Houston, PA on October 08, 2008
My Six Year Old Has Been Getting Migrane Headaches!
Ever since school started the begining of September my daughter has been complaining of headaches and stomach aches. She started first grade this year, and had a hard time adjusting to going to school all day. The first two weeks she cried a lot. She said she missed me too much at school. She made a couple new friends, and has not been giving me a hard time about going to school anymore. However, she is complaining about a headache and stomach ache everyday. I didn't want to keep "blowing it off" so I scheduled a doctor's appointment for her just to make sure it was not a sinus infection or something more. I get a lot of migrane headaches. They started for me in kindergarden. I was hoping the doctor was going to tell me that she had something that could be easily cured. He feels that she is having migrane headaches. He gave me a perscription for an anti-histamine. He said the side effects are weight gain, and drowsiness. She is to take a dose in the morning, and a dose in the evening to prevent migrane headaches. He also wants me to keep a log of her headaches. Some of her headaches have been so bad that they wake her up in the night. I can sympatize because my headaches do the same to me. I am very hessitant to fill this perscription. I don't like the side effects, and I don't want to start her on this kind of medicine at such a young age. She can afford to gain a little weight. She is tiny and only wieghs 40 lbs, but this is what also scares me about her taking medicine everyday to prevent headaches. Does anyone have any advice for me? Thank you!
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It is so nice to get all your different perspectives! You all have brought up a lot of good points. We did have her eyes checked at the doctors and she tested fine. I am a little worried about it being something more than migranes. I will keep a log of them, and what she ate and did that day to see if there is a pattern. If they get worse I am going to demand more testing. The link to the Cleveland Clinic was awesome! Thank you so much!
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R.S. answers from Pittsburgh on October 09, 2008
I am a believer in chiropractors. It is amazing the relief I get for my headaches. I took my 2 1/2 year old for the first time this week. The doctor's specialty is in pediatric chiro. After her evaluation, she asked if my daughter had ear problems, especially the right ear. We have been dealing with swimmer's ear since August. She did very gentle manipulations. My daughter wasn't alarmed at all by what she was doing. So, try chiropractic but research it first and get as much info as you can. I remember having headaches when I was 5. I hope it works for you, too.
L. answers from Philadelphia on October 09, 2008
Have you kept a food diary for her??? It is amazing the number of kids that are getting migraine headaches from MSG - food dyes - and artificial colors/flavors...(school lunches are loaded with MSG and many other artificial ingredients). My son was having the same trouble and we went 95% organic with no artificial anything...he hasn't had a headache in two years!! Best of luck to you!!
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D.P. answers from Pittsburgh on October 08, 2008
Hi A.,
Personally I would not want to be giving my child any medication on a daily basis. Have you tried minimizing the headaches with sleep, diet, etc? Check out this info from the Cleveland Clinic:
http://my.clevelandclinic.org/disorders/Migraine_Headache...
Good luck to you and your daughter!
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S.W. answers from Harrisburg on October 08, 2008
migraines are hard enough to diagnose in adults - let alone children - not trying to tell you that your pediatrician is wrong - but unless its hereditary i would think its not migraines. I would get a second opinion - dont know where you live but Ryder barnes peds is great great great. (they are in mech) here are my suggestions
1. have her tested for strep - some kids react differently to strep (my daugter does) last year (first grade) around this time she started freaking out about school and complaining of headaches and stomach aches and got really home sick etc - once she was tested postivie for strep and put onto antibiotics she was fine - i was amazed
2. test her eyesight - if she is having headaches it could be from her sight being bad - and think about it - if her sight is bad and she cant' see the board - then she may be getting nervous about school - which can affect her belly as well - and you maynot notice it bc of the difference of activies between hme and school
3. ask her teacher if she can make a "fam photo" keepsake to keep at her desk - one of you and your other child that she can have with her at all times. another suggestion along those lines is to get a special necklace (locket maybe) or bracelet that is really meaningful - so that she knows that whenb she is getting homesick she can touch it and Mommy is right there
Hope that helps - if you need anything let me know!
keep up posted!
S. w
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T.Y. answers from Philadelphia on October 09, 2008
I know you've gotten some great responses but I just wanted to say that you should definitely look for a pattern. Something must be triggering the headaches. I also suffered from migraines as a child and still do but I have learned my triggers (not eating often enough, stress, sunlight, etc) and I've learned to take precautions to avoid them (eat every two hours, wear a hat and sunglasses outdoors, etc). Maybe if you can find out what's causing them you can avoid them. I hope things work out.
J.C. answers from Philadelphia on October 09, 2008
She wakes up at night with pain?
Get her an MRI. or at least a CT.
In the meantime, check out the school thing, her feelings about your relationships, anything else that's going on emotionally.
Also... and this might get some static... give her a placebo. Make a syrup and put it in a bottle. Give her a spoonful. If it's emotional, this is her "exit".
Here's the story of my friend's 8yo who had migraines:
http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/viewMyStory.do?method=exec...
T.M. answers from Philadelphia on October 08, 2008
i would get a secound opinion...my step daughter gets them because of her hair if i keep it short she doesnt get them but she has alot of hair...i would think they would do blood work and mri or something...it could be stress but the waking up is concerning ask for a referral for specialist..
B.K. answers from Pittsburgh on October 09, 2008
Hi A.. Before you fill that perscription talk to a specialist about modifying her diet. I had a friend that suffered from migranes all the time. Her Doctor put her on a very strict diet for 6 weeks then began to re-introduce foods and found that anything with caffeine was one of her main "triggers". It turns out that even one small candy bar could set her into a migrane! Of course some migranes are stress "triggered" and that's when you have to teach her how to relax herself, and have self-confidence. It's a tough road, but you can do it and so can she! You can be giving her a gift of a lifetime! Good luck and best wishes.
M.G. answers from Philadelphia on October 09, 2008
If it were me in the situation, I think I would talk with a child counselor. It sounds like there still might be anxiety issues about school that might be causing the headaches. I would be weary of drugging your little girl before you explore all possible ways of helping her.
C.J. answers from Harrisburg on October 08, 2008
Sounds like she really is getting migrains. the question is why? How is her eyes? Is this everyday? Is she sleeping well? Is she waking up tired? This always makes us mommies sad when are kids hurt.
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