S.S. asks from Elmhurst, IL on April 12, 2008
My Husband Snores Badly Every Night
Does anyone have any suggestions about helping this situation. Either him or me. My husband snores so much the room almost shakes. I do not want to leave our bed, as I enjoy the closeness and warmth of being with him and we are both happy together. But the snoring wakes me up all night.I tried ear plugs. Perhaps I used the wrong kind. Anyone know of any that would work. He is also willing to try things to take or nasal sprays. Anyone successful with anything? Thanks.
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Thanks for so much advice and I've been trying a number of them. Hubby won't see a doctor, but we have a variety of temporary solutions thanks to all of you I am sleeping a little more! If he is snoring on his back I turn him sideways. If he remembers he uses vicks before he falls asleep. It smells somewhat obnoxious, but whatever it takes... I also have some industrial strength earplugs from Walgreens and worse comes to worse I even tried one of your advice -Nightime ibuprofin. Cuts down on what I hear if I'm sleeping. Thanks MOMS...AHHH...
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V. answers from Chicago on April 12, 2008
As a dentist I recommend a snore guard. I have several patients that I have made them for, and they swear by them. I have also made one for my husband. Call my office ###-###-####, and talk to Michael, he can tell you all about it. It's the easiest and cheapest way to start.
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A.W. answers from Peoria on April 13, 2008
Smoking and being overweight can cause snoring. If that isn't the problem you could try ear plugs. My husband can snore so loud at times the ear plugs didn't help so I downloaded a thunderstorm on my ipod and listen to it every night. I also have sound isolate ear plugs! Hope that helps!
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L.B. answers from Chicago on April 13, 2008
Try Earos brand earplugs. I think i bought them at Whole foods. Also, Breathe Right strips help and I understand there is a homeopathic spray that helps, but haven't tied it. Also, the sobakawa pillows that are filled with buckwheat hulls help because they support the neck really well. Good luck!
L. B.
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V. answers from Chicago on April 12, 2008
As a dentist I recommend a snore guard. I have several patients that I have made them for, and they swear by them. I have also made one for my husband. Call my office ###-###-####, and talk to Michael, he can tell you all about it. It's the easiest and cheapest way to start.
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C.A. answers from Chicago on April 13, 2008
Hi S.,
My husband snores also and it shakes the room too!
I bought my husband the Breathe Right Strips from walmart, but there also at walgreens, jewels, etc.
They have small, medium, and large strips and they apply to the nose. They are heaven!!!
In fact the first night he used them I slept so hard I could not believe that I actually slept the entire 8 hours, it felt like a whole day!
Good Luck!
C.
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J.T. answers from Chicago on April 13, 2008
Sometimes it's allergy related and an air purifier helps. I know we let people try ours for a couple weeks to see if it helps, and it's done the trick for more than one person.
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A.G. answers from Chicago on April 13, 2008
Snore Strips. You can buy them at wlagreens, target, etc. Loosing weight can help to if that is an issue. My hubby is a big guy...at a healthy weight he is 220 and and 6 foot 2, but when he starts to cross the 250 line he snores so load it I can hearit downstairs, then if he looses ten or fifteen pounds, like he has in the last few weeks it stops. Also, I have noticed that allergies can really aggravate this in my self and have found talikng the right meds helps tremendously. My parents sleep in seperate rooms and I swear it has saved their marriage.
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S.C. answers from Chicago on April 13, 2008
Hi S.!
I am the same as you - we tried everything! Every home remedy, every ear plug, EVERY thing.
Finally, we started sleeping separately. It was like a miracle for me - I finally got a good nights rest and felt better than I had in years.
In the end, he sometimes sleeps with me, but I have to turn upside down and sleep with my face to his feet and his face to my feet or he's NOT snoring several decibels of loudness directly into my ear. He also MUST sleep on his stomach or he will snore worse. If I can't roll him over, I wake him up and ask him to roll over. Sometimes we get frustrated with this arrangement - even if we are sleeping feet to face - because I'll have to wake him up 15 times in middle of the night, so he'll finally get up and go to a different room.
Another thing that might help is that I use a very loud HEPA filter machine in my bedroom for my allergies. This machine also helps block out his snoring by keeping the "sounds" in the room at a similar and constant loudness.
My husband is very heavy, so I do not see surgery as an option - he is over 300 lbs, so I know what his neck is always going to be tight and cause problems for him from a snoring perspective, so we have decided to sleep separate most of the time. He has also been tested for APNEA, but they discovered it is only about half-APNEA that's the problem, so they wouldn't prescribe one of those machines. So here we are.
The reason our sleeping arrangement works for us is he is very, very, very affectionate outside of the bedroom and we make a lot of time for each other plus we have sex often because he comes into the room early mornings or snuggles with me late night if I approach him. We are very touchy-feely and he is generous with his hugs and public displays of affection, so I do not feel as if I am missing anything. I am very happy overall and we have been married for almost 10 years, so for us, this solution - or way of life of sleeping separately the majority of the time - really works. Again, the key is to feel you have that closeness with him in other ways.
Good luck!
S
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C.H. answers from Chicago on April 13, 2008
My husband is also an extremely loud snorer. We have tried just about everything besides surgery. So far for me the only thing that works is taking Advil PM before I go to bed. I only take one instead of the recommended two so I can still hear the kids if they get up and be coherent enough to get up myself. But it does help me sleep against my husband's snoring. It might sound crazy, but it works for me when nothing else has.
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A.L. answers from Chicago on April 13, 2008
My husband snored so bad the earth shook too. He finally went to the doctor and was sent to a sleep clinic. He was diagnosed with sleep apnea (a serious health condition). Now he sleeps with a mask and with an attached machine. My husband had to go through three masks before he was comfortable. Now he and I are getting sleep and he doesn't have to sleep on the couch anymore! It's worth a try! Good luck...
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S.S. answers from Chicago on April 12, 2008
My husband has severe sleep apnea which causes his terrible snoring...he should probably go in for a sleep study as this can be dangerous! It is hereditary in my hubby's fam and two uncles have passed from it going untreated! Not trying to scare you but it can be serious.
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