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My Friend's Grandson Is in the Children's Hospital... Doctors Are Dumbfounded.

I hope that someone can figure this one out...
My friend's grandson is in the hospital (Milwaukee, WI). The Drs can't figure things out. He seems happy/alert and eats all the time, but keeps losing weight. I hoped to get some input from all of you. Maybe some of you have gone through this and did something they haven't tried. I cut and pasted some of what she has written to me, so you know what is going on. Have any of you moms had this experience with any of your kids/grandkids?

Some of what she wrote to me:
...he lived his first 7 weeks in a hospital ...he's been out for about 5 and a half weeks ...now he's back in children's hospital ...he just not gaining weight ...he is 13 weeks old and is losing weight ...doctors are dumbfounded...can't figure out what's wrong with him ...he has very high calcium again ...he looks fine, but not gaining any weight. ...they changed the formula for my grandson about 3 times already...one of them made him throw up a lot ...all the tests that they have run have come back normal. ...when he was born, he weighed 9 pounds 1 ounce ....at 3 months, he weighs 8 pounds 12 ounces ....he weighs less now ...he eats all the time ...but keeps losing weight ...doctors cannot figure this out...he's alert..he eats, poops, pees, smiles, passes gas... but this is a total mystery to the doctors.

I pray they find something soon for her grandson. I trust the doctors, but I thought if any of you have gone through this and found something that worked... maybe it is something they could try as well. Please keep him in your prayers.

Thank you in advance for any advice, suggestions, and concern.
~SR

1/11 update: I appreciate the responses and suggestions so far. My friend has given me some more information I thought you may find of interest...
Here is part of what she wrote...
"no,i dont mind you checking into things....like i said,this child is a mystery child...the doctors have been doing all kinds of tests...here is a list of some....blood tests(cholestrol,calcium,cancer,blood pressure,potassium,white blood cells,red blood cells)..these are some that i remember....also had had 3 or 4 mri on heart, kidney, liver,brain....also ct scans on parts of body....they are even looking into a possible syndrome of some kind...they did mention possibly williams syndrome.....i checked that out, but i dont think thats it though He will be there for about 2 weeks now.....doctors want to really find the problem. ...thanks again for the info...that was one thing they already checked..diabetes.....baby's mom is a diabetic...that's why the baby was so big when born....they checked to see if he was diabetic...he's NOT.....but he could be in later years"

I appreciate all the responses so far and will keep everyone posted. I hope they find something soon!

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So What Happened?™

First, I want to thank all who have responded. I had an overwhelming amount of replies. I'm so glad there are so many great moms out there who care and willing to help out.

I have been keeping my friend posted on everyone's responses. I wrote her a couple days ago to see how things were. This is what she wrote me:
"he came home on sunday.. I went right over to see him..he looks good..he is up over 10 pounds now...doctors gave the kids a large bottle of something...but they need to put it in his formula..it helps the formula to stick to his ribs(so to speak)..it helps put on weight...can't remember what it's called...but it is working.....
thanks again for looking on the web for all the info....talked to the kids about the info..alot of it the doctors have already ruled out.....so the mystery still lingers on..."

She also sent me a picture... he's a cutie!

Thanks everyone!

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I was wondering if the child has ever been tested for Cystic Fibrosis. I know that is one of the side effects of that disease. My son was the same way after he was born. He was an eating machine but kept losing weight and then we found out with his newborn screening that he had CF and ever since he was put on the medications and physical therapy he is doing awesome and has no trouble gaining weight.

Sometimes high calcium levels can indicate a parathyroid condition. I wish this family well and hope the doctors get to the bottom of the problem quickly!

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We will keep the little one and family in out prayers!!

The Waisman Center in Madison has a wonderful metabolic doctor, Dr Rice I think his name is.They tested my daughter for certain Metabolic diseases and found out that she had a Carnitine deficiency, she is a happy healthy 15 yr old today! Certain metabolic diseases cause vomiting and weight loss and failure to thrive...its worth checking into...good luck and prayers!

Have they tested thyroid levels or had a genetics doctor look at him?

I am guessing this has been checked, but...my son had a similar (though not as severe) issue where he would eat plenty, but lose weight and he had a Carnitine (a protein that helps your body process the fats you take in) deficiency. Other than that, medically I am not much help, but it seems to me that you are looking for ways to help (and feeling helpless not knowing what to do.) I spent a couple of days at a Children's Hospital with my daughter this summer, (and I thank God it wasn't more like so many families have to deal with!) but I was wondering if you had thought of putting together a care package for the parents (books, games, playing cards, gift cards to local restaurants, lotions, maybe a toy or blankie for the little guy, anything to make them feel more "normal.") The hospital we stayed at was great, but I can imagine it can be a very lonely and difficult place even without the added stress and fear of your baby being sick. I am sure the parents (and your friend) would appreciate knowing you care and that they are not alone. Just a thought!

Hi S R -- I have no experience with a problem like this, but if I were the parents I would definitely get a second opinion. I'd go on line and see what children's facilities are most highly rated and get him to the nearest one. (My personal rule of thumb is "When in doubt, go to the Mayo Clinic, although I don't know if infant issues are among their specialties. They are excellent about getting you in promptly.)

L.

Have they ruled out celiac disease? I'm sorry for you. You're in my prayers.
C.

Hello,

I'm sorry to hear about this. I don't have a guess at a diagnosis, but I can give you the name of a Naturopathy Doctor who works with "complicated diagnosis" at Children's Hospital. Her name is Dr. Amy Johnson-Grass, and her private practice is Health Foundations, which is just a stone's throw from Children's. I have seen her in the past, and I know that she has partnered with Children's many times. I would get her involved. People at Children's should know who she is, but don't be shy about contacting her directly.

Here is an article talking about Dr. Johnson-Grass's work with Children's Hospital:
http://www.bastyr.edu/academic/profiles/people/ajohnson-g...

And here is the link to her clinic:
http://www.dramyjohnsongrass.com/healthfoundations.htm

Have they tested for diabetes?

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