S.Z. asks from Gresham, OR on February 12, 2008
My Daughter Will ONLY Drink Formula
My dear daughter is only 9 months old, but she will NOT drink anything but formula. As soon as she tastes it, she makes a gross face and throws it on the floor. She won't even really give it a chance. Then sometimes if she sees it's not "white" she KNOWS it's not her formula and won't drink it. I've tried almost every juice under the planet and I cannot manage.
Also, even giving her formula in a sippy to try to get her switch. She won't suck it out, all she wants to do is chew on the spout. I would like her to get at least alittle something so when I go to switch her to whole milk it wont be much of a problem, because I doubt she'll be able to drink much of it. Since she is allergic to milk like her mother and father... I'm having bad luck!
ONE MORE THING!!!!!!! I CANT GET HER TO CHEW!!!!! With the stars and the baby toast she bites it and will swoosh it around in her mouth then swallow it, she hasn't choked yet.
Any advice on any of these 3?!
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C.H. answers from Portland on February 15, 2008
Hve you tried mixing teeny bits of other stuff with her formula? maybe you can gradually fool her.
Also, who is doing the giving? My weird son would not take anything from me but breast milk. With anyone else, formula, juice or water were fine. But if I tried to give himn a bottle he absolutley refused.
C.S. answers from Seattle on February 13, 2008
Let it be - she's only 9 months old. Several 9-month olds I know aren't very interested in solids yet. Formula is a giving her all she needs right now.
C.M. answers from Medford on February 13, 2008
My son was allergic to milk until he was three. We did soy formula from 9 months on. He was only half time formula and half time breast from 9-15 months. At 15 months he just carried on with soy formula until he was 2 years old. When he bit the nipple off of his bottle that was the last bottle and he switched to sippies. He has NEVER had whole milk, maybe only about a cup of 2% and rarely drinks any milk unless I am drinking some. He has skim milk on his cereal. He is healthy, happy and doesn't really want milk. I don't think it's a good thing to introduce juice too early (it's a hard habit to break). We introduced juice after formula was done and he LOVES juice still (he's 3 and a 1/2). Don't stress about her wanting milk versus formula. The formula has the nutrients she needs and when she is ready she will let you know!
Also, about the food issue... don't stress that. My son wasn't truly interested in food until he was completely weaned from breast feeding at 15 months. He ate very little food at all, the breast and bottle were plenty for him. Every child is different, don't rush her from being a baby!
Best of luck!
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L.M. answers from Seattle on February 13, 2008
If she is only 9 months old then she doesn't need anything except formula. You still have atleast 3 months of giving her formula and they make it for kids to 24 months now if she still won't wean.
Juice is really bad for kids, and adults for that matter. It's full of sugar and has zero nutrition benefits. It will just rot her teeth.
Try putting just water in a sippy cup and letting her play with it. Make sure it's a cup that's easy to drink out of. Sometimes they can be really hard to get anything out of. It's okay for her to chew on it. She will gat familiar with it and soon love it.
Soy milk and goats milk are great alternates to cow's milk when she turns a year old if she is lactose intolerant. It comes flavored too!, and has great health benefits.
Good Luck!
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J.P. answers from Seattle on February 13, 2008
why on earth would you be planning on giving her milk if she's allergic to it? As a parent of two dairy allergic girls, that simply doesn't make any sense to me. Rice milk is a good option, you can get vitamin fortified, but you have to increase the fat in her diet, since it doesn't contain what she'll need. Soy milk can be good in small amounts, too much and you have to worry about the estrogenic qualities of it.. nut milks can be good, but are often something your doctor will say not to give if there's a history of allergies in the family.
at 9 months old, food is more of an experiment than an actual need. Let her play with the textures, get used to it. If she's not chewing, stick with purees and soft, tiny pieces of food that she can't choke on. If she puts too many in her mouth, only give her 1-2 pieces at a time.
Sippy cups also aren't really a skill that all kids have at this age, they're also primarily experimental. Juice isn't really good for children anyway - too much sugar and not enough fiber. It's typically too strong for babies anyway... if you're going to try it, water it down, at *least* 50/50. Really, your best bet is to simply put water in a cup, have it available all the time, and let her figure it out over time.
basically, she's not developmentally ready, she doesn't need anything but formula (even food!) and she's *only* 9 months. Give her time, and allow her to be a baby for awhile.
about me: I'm the mother of 3 children - ages 2, 5 and 6.. and I was a nanny, preschool teacher, day care provider and babysitter for 15 years prior to having my children.
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S.M. answers from Portland on February 13, 2008
As the mother of 6 grown sons, my best advice is: Don't worry about it. By the time she is in colllege, this issue will be no more than a funny note in her baby journal (you do keep one, right?) If she is healthy and thriving, don't worry. And if she's allergic to milk, by all means, DON'T switch her to it. One of my sons is VERY lactose intolerant -- he's 20 now, and no longer touches dairy products. And he's healthy and thriving. And by the way, I breastfed most of my children for 18 mos to 2 yrs, and one for almost 3 years. Quit worrying about formula at nine months. She's normal. Every child has their idiosyncracies; their own unique likes and dislikes. Sounds like she's fine. But it sounds like Mom's a little formula-retentive.
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L.O. answers from Seattle on February 13, 2008
Hello,
I remember our daughter had the stomach flu around 9 months old and I didn't want to start back on formula until her stomach was ready. I tried some diluted apple juice (we never do juice) and she didn't like it all. I am assuming she just wasn't familiar with something so sweet. We started giving a sippy cup with handles at age 6 months with water. She was very excited to have the choice of ice water or water, just like mommy and daddy. Even if she just practiced holding the cup for a while, that was okay.
Really, her only choices for beverages (she is almost 3) are water, ice water, or milk. She has tried juice a couple more times and won't drink it which we are quite happy about, actually! She doesn't have much of a sweet tooth at all, which is really nice.
I have friends that say the regret ever starting juice. So, if your daughter doesn't like it, I say thank goodness! :)
B.H. answers from Seattle on February 12, 2008
She may not be ready for food. Some babys dont take solids until a year and soley rely on formula. So follow her cues she will let you know when shes ready for more.They also have a step two forumla for kids over a year.
R.M. answers from Spokane on February 13, 2008
My kids are both allergic to milk also, they, ages 4 and 2, drink Lactaid milk, it's all they can handle, it is a little sweeter than regular milk so it was an easier transition. Also, if you dillute the juice with a little water it won't be so strong and she may like it a little more. It took me a while to get my kids to take cups as well, but one day they did, they know when they are ready.
A.Z. answers from Portland on February 13, 2008
Hi S.,
Relax is my first suggestion. Your daughter doesn't need juice or milk at all! Formula and water are your first concerns. If you want to introduce foods, introduce mashed foods since she isn't ready to chew. Many peds will recommend that the child be able to sit up by themselves and have at least one tooth as a sign of physically being ready for food. If she has met these requirements, then just try offering it to her. Let her play with it. She will put it in her mouth and spit it out as she explores the taste, smell and texture of food. Eventually she will decide she wants to eat, but there is no rush. Also don't forget seasonings. Their taste buds aren't fully developed yet, so adding lots of spices and seasonings may entice her to eat as well! My daughter only liked exotic foods with tons of flavor when she first started eating. She still loves spicy and seasoned food at 17 months, but she also will eat oatmeal with absolutely nothing on it. So preferences will develop in time.
M.S. answers from Portland on February 13, 2008
There is no problem with her refusing everything but formula. My daughter refused juice until she was 5 years old. Wait to give her any other kind of milk until 11 months or so, then slowly dilute her formula with the milk (vanilla soy milk works great) until she gets used to the taste. If she still refuses to take it, they have toddler formula as well.. you can try again in a month or so. She needs the formula until 12 months though... not juice (be glad she doesn't insist on juice... those moms have it hard).
As for the sippy cup, try The First Years sippy cup for older kids every time she is in the highchair. It is NOT spill-proof, so she will get the formula dripping in her mouth without sucking. Eventually, she will instinctively suck on it. Don't push it though because if she thinks you are trying to force her to she will resist.
As for chewing, give her time and allow her to swallow pieces whole if she wants to. She will chew in her own time.
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