M.F. asks from Atlanta, GA on August 14, 2007
My Baby Won't Take a Bottle
My 7 week old baby refuses to take a bottle. I have been nursing exclusively since she was born and I have never given her a pacifier. We have been trying to bottle feed her expressed milk to get her used to the idea since I will be starting school and work again soon. She will start to suck but then pushes the nipple out with her tongue and then lashes it around so that I can't even put the nipple back in her mouth. She also spits out anything she tries to drink. I have tried different bottles with different type nipples: wide, small, ones that mimic the breast (pretty much everything), but nothing is working. I have even tried giving her formula instead. No one can get her to take it. I didn't have this problem with my first daughter, so I really don't know what else to do. If anyone has any advice, it would be greatly appreciated! I start classes on Thursday, so I need the help fast!
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Sorry for such a late response, but I wanted to thank all the mothers out there for their wonderful responses!
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M.G. answers from Myrtle Beach on September 22, 2007
Are you in the room when she tries the bottle? Even a 7 week old is sensitive to this and will want you. Their sense of smell is incredible so you do not want to be in smelling range, earshot....GONE. You will have the worst luck getting her to take it because she knows she can get it straight from the tap with you. If someone else feeds her, don't go rescue her. She will eat when she is hungry. Also, you could try having whoever is bottle feeding her to squeeze some out into her mouth so she taste it and then try. Also, my daughter's father realized when he made it HER IDEA to drink, she did a lot better than being forced. Just let her play with it without putting it in her mouth and eventually she will get it and start sucking. Good luck.
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C.H. answers from Augusta on August 14, 2007
Ima bit curious why you breast fed exclusively up until now? Was the job and or school a last minute thing? Its very difficult to expect a baby to get use to the comfort and closeness of a breast and mommy and then easily transition to a plasti nipple. You may need to call your doctor and ask her if she could refer you to a consultant that can show u easy ways to transition the baby.You may need to hold off on work and or school if your baby doesnt cooperate. At that young of an age a baby will no realize the breast isnt an option b/cs mommies not home and get so hundry it will take a bottle..they also have no comcept of time so the baby would go easily 8 or so hours just crying for mommy to feed her.I personally didnt breast feed so I cant help you but i think you should call your doctor and ask her what the proper steps are to take so that your baby wont suffer through this transition.
M.R. answers from Charleston on August 15, 2007
I have 7 weeks old twins and we use the Avent bottles with the number 1 nipple. I got them to take the pacifier first (this was less messy). Then we got them to take the bottle. The first few times it was messy, but they are doing better with them now. Hope she takes the bottle soon.
M.
B. answers from Augusta on August 14, 2007
try having someone else give her the bottle. also try the wide bottles with the big nipples. they kinnda look like a breast. we used the Ventaire bottles.
A.J. answers from Savannah on August 14, 2007
Did you try "Second Nature" bottles? I used these with my baby while at the hospital and nursing at the same time. They truly work just like the breast. As far as I know, you can only get them at the Mommy and Me Boutique at Candler Hospital. And if you stop in there, the lactation consultants are WONDERFUL. See if they can offer any help. Lastly, I would talk to your pediatrician about it.
Hope this helps - good luck!
S.H. answers from Spartanburg on August 15, 2007
I breast fed my last child, and exclusively did for 10 months...but I was not working at the time...But I have been helping my daughter and my grandbaby with nursing, and my grandbaby is almost 6 weeks old..and takes both to the bottle and breast..We SLOWLY had been introducing the bottle since birth in order for her to respond.
BUT, I wll suggest this..and it is something to THINK about....the baby MAY NOT be taking the bottle well IF the milk INSIDE isn't warm enough, I found this to be true with my granddaughter...She would ''fight'' the substitute feedings, and then I made sure they were warmer without it being too hot...and she took it quickly..I beleieve that mother's milk 'must' be warmer..Its a thot, and another way we tried...was to substitute water, sometimes..because sometmes she seems to be thristy, and will take water warm or cool..thats now..that wasn't when we first started trying..Now my daughter has her ready to continue to breast fed when home..and substitute feeding back and forth with breast milk and powdered formula...Good Luck.I understand how hard IT IS>>>but if all else fails..DO call the doctor and ask for their advice..Love in Christ...S.
I hope I haven't confused you!..LOL...I ope this gives you another thing to look at...
M.G. answers from Myrtle Beach on September 22, 2007
Are you in the room when she tries the bottle? Even a 7 week old is sensitive to this and will want you. Their sense of smell is incredible so you do not want to be in smelling range, earshot....GONE. You will have the worst luck getting her to take it because she knows she can get it straight from the tap with you. If someone else feeds her, don't go rescue her. She will eat when she is hungry. Also, you could try having whoever is bottle feeding her to squeeze some out into her mouth so she taste it and then try. Also, my daughter's father realized when he made it HER IDEA to drink, she did a lot better than being forced. Just let her play with it without putting it in her mouth and eventually she will get it and start sucking. Good luck.
I.W. answers from Savannah on August 15, 2007
Definitely have somebody else give her the bottle. She's refusing the bottle from you because she knows you provide milk straight from the tap, and can't figure out why you're not giving it to her that way.
Would her caregiver be willing to finger feed or cup feed her as an alternative top the bottle? More than likely she'll end up taking the bottle from the caregiver :)
Good luck!
W.S. answers from Spartanburg on August 15, 2007
Have the Dr check her mouth for thrush, it is very painful and you have to suck harder on a rubber nipple than a real one. She may just be in pain.
You are in my prayers,
W.
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