A.O. asks from Louisville, CO on January 08, 2008
My 3 1/2 Yr Old Daughter Is Sick All the Time - Fevers
My daughter is 3 1/2 and she has always had problems with sicknesses. She has been in daycare, now in preschool, since she was two months old. She has had two sets of tubes in both ears due to severe ear infections and fevers. She still has tubes in her ears right now and the doctors are thinking that is going to last her until her ears are formed so she wont get anymore ear infections. She hasnt had an ear infection since she got the tubes in which is great, but she still gets really bad fevers and that is my question, I would like to get advice from other mothers out there who have had similar problems with their kids and might know what is going on. My daughter gets fevers very easily and very quickly. A minor cold and she has a 102.5-103.5 degree fever and we have to give her ibuprofen every 6 hours and even on ibuprofen her fever only drops to around 100 degrees. She gets these fevers more during the winter time and they are getting worse. It used to be that she would get the fevers for 2-3 days, and now it is more like 5-7 days of a fever. She has had two sezuires from fevers and we have gone to a neurologist and she is not epileptic (I was as a child). The doctors have done immune deficiency tests and everything is normal. The doctors really arent being helpful and dont really have any interest in finding out what is going on or if there is anything more going on then we can see. I have had to push them to see a neurologist and for the immune testing. My daughter is now having allergies to antibiotics, penicillin, and I think that it is because she has been given it so often. My husband and I have tried everything we can think of. We give her 500 mg of vitamin C a day and a multi-vitamin. I give her Immunity yogurt to try and keep her from getting sick and nothing seems to be helping. I am at a lost. She is so tiny and these fevers just take it out of her. She told me the other day that she "cant take it anymore" and that breaks my heart. Anyone that can help with any advice with be greatily appreciated!
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Thanks to everyone that has given me such great advice. Though it is sad this happens to so many children, it is a comfort to know that I am not alone out there. I am most definitely going to go the homeopathic route and see if that helps. I have ordered immune booster supplements and we are also going to see an immune and allergy specialist to get some tests run. It may be, like many of your suggested, that it is something that she will grow out of but for our piece of mind we are going to make sure there isnt anything that we are missing. My thoughts are with your children as well. THANK YOU SOOO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP!
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D.B. answers from Denver on January 09, 2008
What about trying to see and homeopathic doctor? They would be intersted in diagnosing the cause of the problem not just fixing the problem......
good luck, it sounds very hard!
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J.J. answers from Phoenix on January 08, 2008
S.K. answers from Phoenix on January 09, 2008
You know this might sound funny if you're not familiar, but try taking her to a chiropractor. I see a chiropractor for my overall health, as a natural way to keep my body working the way it's supposed to. There are several children under care with him, it's a family practice, and my child when born will definitely be a patient of his. Chiropractic care has been known to prevent tubes in ears/ear infections, removal of tonsils, and not to mention just keeping the immune system in contact with the rest of the body so that it may do what it is meant to do. If there is some interference between your body and brain, a chiropractor can help. Worth a try, I've seen first hand how it's helped so many people with what medical doctors think are normal sicknesses. Normal is feeling good, not being sick. Hope this helps. A good chiropractor is Dr. Dondee Nettles at Health Within Chiropractic. He's on the corner of Litchfield and Van Buren in Goodyear. He usually runs monthly consultation specials too!
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J.C. answers from Phoenix on January 08, 2008
I definitely would check out her tonsils! My nephew was ALWAYS sick and had fevers and once they took out his tonsils he has been so much healthier. Just have it looked into, it can't hurt!
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D.K. answers from Denver on January 08, 2008
First, I am so sorry. Having a sick baby at any age sucks and it is so hard on mommies too! My daughter was not in daycare however spent a lot of time between 1 1/2 and 3 sick! At 2 1/2 she had swollen glands constantly and was constantly sick, she had dark circles under her eyes alot and seemed run down all the time. Getting her tonsils out was like a life saver for us! I had no idea she even had enlarged adnoids too that were inhibiting her sleep at night and when she got those out with her tonsils her sleep was so much better, she was more rested and seemed like a different child. Not that is the way to go for everyone but it helped my daughter tremendously. If her Dr has tested her for everything and thinks there is no severe underlying reasoning then maybe get a second opinion as you know your child best. If the second opinion comes back the same then it may just be a childhood thing and as she gets older her immune system will improve so much. I can say 500mg of Vitamin C is a waste on a small child, even a grown up. She will get what she needs and pee out the rest. Maybe lessen the dosage and break it up through the day. If she is eating healthy then she doesn't need an additional vitamin supplement either. Some kids are just more prone to illness. I can say my second, who probably was exposed to a lot of what his sister had and is larger in size has really been a lot healthier in his toddler days. Making sure she is eating right, getting a great nights rest and plenty of hand washing is really the only preventative that is proven. Hang in there!
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W.M. answers from Denver on January 09, 2008
I would suggest that you seriously need to consult a naturopathic healer. There are so many things which can be done for your daughter other than the surgeries and antibiotics. Please, for her sake, do some research in your area and find a reputable healer.
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L.R. answers from Phoenix on January 08, 2008
Hi A.! I do home daycare and I watch a little guy who was also constantly sick, he is a little over 2 years old. He always had a green runny nose, cough, sinus & ear infections and fevers. His mom kept asking the doctors to put tubes in his ears and they kept pushing her off. When he would nap he would snore very loudly and be very restless. Right before his 2nd birthday they finally decided to put tubes in his ears and take out his tonsils. Once they got in, they discovered that hanging off of his tonsils were these HUGE puss pockets that were severly infected. They were hanging way down in the back of his throat, so they never saw them when they would examine him, but they caused him to have a constant cough and restless sleep. The antibiotics they gave him for the ear infections would relieve the ear infections, but the infected tonsils would never fully go away and that is why as soon as he would get off the antibiotics he would get sick again. After they removed all of this it was like he was a different child. He hardly ever gets sick now and I never have to wipe his nose anymore! Keep pushing the doctors, because fever is a sign of the body fighting some kind of infection. Go with your mommy instinct until they figure it out. I wish you all the best and hope you figure it out soon!
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M.S. answers from Reno on January 08, 2008
That is so hard, I know what you are going through my son gets sick easily as well. Even the littlest cold and he ends up on oxygen and breathing treatments in the ER. I would suggest perhaps finding a new preschool and making sure she washes her hands all the time. I know that helsp a lot for us, I will not let me son eat anything without doing so and he is 3 1/2 as well. His hands get very dry and then I have to put on a lot of aquaphor on them but it is so much better.
There is also a homeopathic doctor in town you can try going to, perhaps he can give you some insight as to what may be causing her body to react that way. At least her body is trying to fight it off which is good news. The doctors name is Dr. Gerber ###-###-####.
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M.E. answers from Denver on January 09, 2008
Hi A.,
It is so scary when your child is sick and the doctors don't seem to have any help for you. The thing that makes the most difference in a child's immune system is her diet. She needs to get a wide variety of fruits and vegatables, at least 7-9 servings a day. I know this is hard to do. Vitamin pills don't work very well. There is a product that is whole food and does work to raise the antioxidant levels in the blood. This will improve the immune system. It is called Juice Plus+. It is 17 dehydrated fruits, vegetables and grains in a chewable, gummie, or capsule form. I would recommend the chewables or gummies for your daughter, and that you stop the artificial vitamin supplementation. She will get all the vitamins, minerals, and much more from Juice Plus+. The research behind this product is unbiased and done by major universities all over the world. You can order it on my web site www.madjuicer.com. You can also check out the clinical research and the doctors opinions on the same web site. Many doctors are recommending Juice Plus to their patients in order to help them build up their immune systems. Many of my customers are giving Juice Plus+ to their children and seeing much less illness as a result. You can contact me at ____@____.com if you have questions.
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