She'll get it! Don't worry! My daughter still suprises us every day! She was very quick to roll over, and be mobile in her own way (not crawling but just managing to get around) so we thought we were in for a early learner. Come to find out we were behind on everything from then on... We had really bad reflux and eating habits in the beginning so I can't help but know that set her back some but, she's been behind on everything a good 8 months. She's about to be 2 and a half and we're still barely picking up on talking.
It was a matter of allowing her to work in her own timeframe! That was the hardest part for us as parents to accept! She eventually picked it up, and when she did she was a pro instantly! Its like she was just sitting back learning it all and then one day decided to do it!
I know one good way is to hold two hands, and then get something like a marker (tightly closed!!!) to put between the two of you. Let her hold the marker and you hold the other end. Then slowly work the marker out. That way they don't get attached to YOU!
Let me know if you'd like to chat more, it was tough on me to realize my daughter was behind on so many things, but she's made it through and does just fine with others so it will be alright! :o) ~T.~