D.F. asks from Raleigh, NC on May 20, 2011
Moms Who Sew, with Skill...
In my never-ending quest to find a way to make enough money to be able to stay home with my children, I am now thinking about sewing. The major problem with this idea is that I don't even know how to sew on a button. I have absolutely no sewing knowledge.
I guess I thought of this idea when I started researching cloth diapers for my baby girl. I noticed there are a lot of moms out there earning some money by making cloth diapers and accessories while their children take naps. The idea of doing something to generate income while my children sleep sounds super-appealing.
I also started thinking about sewing because I wear a ring sling all the time. I don't know who made it, but people are always asking me about it and seem to be interested in buying one. Since I don't even know who made mine, I can't help them with getting their own. However, if I could become skilled enough at sewing to make a quality ring sling, I might be able to make a little bit of money.
I looked on Craigslist and saw that there are many sewing machines for sale as low as 25$. My first thought was that, wow, I won't have to make much of a financial investment. But then I started to wonder why so many sewing machines were for sale. Do a lot of people try sewing, realize it's too hard, and then give up? Also, are there a lot of low-quality sewing machines out there? Are there some that I should avoid? Are there certain ones that everyone recommends?
I would also need someone to instruct me in sewing. I have a feeling that just looking at a book of directions would allow me to make too many mistakes. Should I look for a sewing class or an individual to teach me? I currently do not know anyone who sews.
What is the learning curve on sewing? Would I have to make 50 slings before I got "the touch" and was able to make a good one. Could I learn in less time? Would it take more time? Would the financial investment of buying material for practicing be expensive?
Is sewing an area where either you gain skill relatively quickly or you don't get it at all? Do some people never develop the skill after practice?
If you've read this and don't think I'm way out of my league for considering this, what are some other not-too-challenging things I could sew that people might like to buy?
Thank you for any information you can share!
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So What Happened?™
Thank you so much for taking the time to inform me about what is involved with sewing. Clearly, people who make money sewing started doing it as a hobby. Then they realized they had a special talent and decided to market it. You all have made it clear that there would be a significant up-front investment and possible many years before I could make much money.
I think what I am taking from your responses is that it would be good for me to start learning about sewing just to have the skill. If, after I've learned to appreciate it as a hobby, I realize I am quickly developing a skill for it, then I could consider trying to sell something.
The only item I wanted to make and sell was a ring sling. I did meet someone at a wedding shower who saw my sling. She sews and said this sling looked super-easy to make. Because it is adjustable, there is no custom job to it. Everyone wears the same size and adjusts it to their baby.
Thank you again for taking the time to educate me!
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G.T. answers from Modesto on May 20, 2011
If you really have the 'desire' to sew head to a fabric store, there will be someone there that will be able to tell you about lessons. I took a sewing class while in highschool, it was mandatory back in the day, along with a cooking class.... it was called HOMEMAKING... and before the feminist era. Sewing is not hard once you learn the basics, like how to read the pattern and what material you need for certain items and which way the fabric is supposed to be placed while sewing. If a 13 yr old can learn it, anyone can. Desire to learn it is the main thing. My G. sewed all the time as did my granny... they made all sorts of dresses, and jackets for me and my sister, along with barbie clothes to match. Where there's a will, there's a way. You sound very interested and that's the main ingredient to doing well.
Talk to the girls in the fabric department at the department store or go to a regular fabric store in your area. I think the reason you see sewing machines for sale is because newer, computerized models have come out that are just better than the older ones, but even the oder ones are easy to use once you learn the basics. It does take a little bit of practice, but it's not hard, only tedious and a tad time consuming. But the better you get the faster you get. That is my input.
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R.Y. answers from New York on May 20, 2011
If you have never sewed before then it will take you a lot of time and practice to get good enough to sell your stuff. I learned to hand sew as a child and use the machine starting around 12. I've have my own machine for over 10 years but I still don't always get great looking results. I've made some things I love and many that didn't turn out. If you had one or two patterns and did them over and over you would probably get good at making that pattern turn out well. I also found sewing isn't great with crawling babies or toddlers. There are sharp pins and other non baby safe items, my son tried to pull the sewing machine down on his head when he was about 10 months. After that I put it away for a while. But if you think it would be fun to try as a hobby see if you can find a local class. In my town the high school adult education program has a few.
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G.B. answers from Oklahoma City on May 21, 2011
My sister is a master seamstress and has a shop on etsy. She spends just about every waking moment sewing. She has a room full of fabric that she uses regularly. She has ribbon, jeans, denim skirts, purses, etc...all that have to be purchased too.
To sew for the public you would have to be a perfect seamstress. And they don't make much profit. If I can go to Walmart and buy a pair of pants for $15.00 why would I pay someone to make a pair for $25-$35? It's the same with just about any other garment.
As for crafts, there is the possibility that you could find a place that no one has thought of yet. But, you have no sewing skills. So you are talking about going to classes, investing in a machine, having to start from scratch with notions and supplies, and them having to schedule time to actually try and learn/implement everything you are taking in.
I really don't want to discourage you...I think if you have a true desire to learn to sew and create items that you should. But you must really want to learn and do it, so much that if you went in the red each month to do it you would still sew and create things.
Sewing does not save money. It takes time, it takes utilities, it takes investing in machines, both a regular one and a serger if you are sewing garments.
I learned to sew very well and sew nearly perfect seams. My mother in law sewed heirloom garments, they are very lightweight and have much delicate work like tiny seams going up and down various areas, then lots of sewn in lace. I sewed better than her. A good teacher will have you doing things that will teach you basic skills and will make it very easy for you. We took notebook paper and "sewed" the lines on it, without thread. It taught us to sew straight and to hold the "fabric" straight.
Again, sewing is an expensive hobby. It doesn't make much money as far as making and selling garments. They can just be bought for so little compared to hand crafted. Fabric has more than doubled in price since Walmart closed down the fabric departments all over. The same fabric at Hobby Lobby that was $1.88 at Walmart is now $6.99 at Hobby Lobby.
Go to Hobby Lobby when the patterns are $0.99 on sale. Look for the ad on hobbylobby.com or in the store. They usually have McCalls one week then Simplicity a week or two before or after on sale each quarter for that low price. That is when you need to find a few patterns to try out.
Take time to be able to sit down and look at the books from front to back. All the way from ladies clothes, through kids clothes, on to crafts and accessories, then on to costumes. You might find the patterns inspiring and be able to sit down with them and the teacher and make something right off the bat.
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N.W. answers from Eugene on May 20, 2011
Give it a try. I taught myself how to sew when my girls were little. There was a show on PBS called "Sewing with N." and I watched it and practiced like crazy. I loved sewing, spent lots of time making everything from dresses to quilts and one of those ring slings, too. After a couple of years, I was pretty adept and was designing and cutting my own patterns. So, yes, it is possible to go from beginner to proficient if you put your mind to it.
As far as making money from sewing, I think that takes more than sewing skill. You have to be fast, have a good sense of what would sell, and a way to market your product. Good quality fabric is expensive, too so you'll have to factor that into the cost of your product. But if you like to work with your hands and enjoy making things, it might be worth learning how to sew.
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L.L. answers from Rochester on May 20, 2011
I've been sewing most of my life, and am basically self taught...but I am good at following ridiculous directions and have practiced A LOT to really get good at it.
Like others have mentioned, your best bet for learning would be to go to a fabric store or craft supply store and sign up for a class. They can also recommend a machine for you. A cheap machine is not going to last you forever, but with the proper care you can use a reasonably priced machine for a long time.
I think cloth diapers and slings are probably two of the easiest things you could pick to sew, so you're really not off base with that...also, they sell. It's really when you get into fitted clothing that you have to have a lot more skill...and it'll come, with time.
If you are a relatively intelligent woman...and you sound very intelligent...you can learn pretty quickly. It will not take you 50 tries to make a good sling...maybe 3 or 4, to work out the kinks. But that's after you learn the basics of sewing and how to use your machine. For some people, just learning to wind a bobbin and thread the machine takes a bit! :)
Now, I'll just be honest...if I thought I could make money sewing and selling, I'd be doing it. So far, I haven't found anything that as a stay-at-home mother, I can really prosper at. Sewing is not a quick thing...especially for me, since I don't have a dedicated space. Every time I want to sew, I have to bring the machine up from the basement, take out my project, set up, work, and then take it all apart and store again. I mostly sew projects here and there for my children...a cushion for the rocking chair, a costume for Halloween, a dress, a teddy bear because she wants one with a special material, etc...
And no, buying material won't be expensive, to practice. You can go to (just examples) a local senior center and ask if they have some you can buy. Mine has a ton of unused, donated material and you can pretty much take a stack for a dollar or two. Clearance racks at stores offer material for a dollar a yard. Or, find some old sheets to practice with.
I'll warn you now...it's fairly easy to sew. More of the difficultly (for me, anyways) was learning to work with the material. Once you get into it, you'll see what I mean.
I am all for you learning to sew, though...it's very useful, and will come in handy even if it doesn't work out to make a living. Good luck!
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R.D. answers from San Antonio on May 20, 2011
Took home ec in school, sewn projects off and on for years, taught both my girls to sew. My stuff always looked like it was homemade but was good enough for me! But to sell it-would not do that.
In our small town, my girls sewed during 4H classes and they were judged in contests. It was very difficult.
Not to say it won't be easy for you-just like painting, some people can, some can't!!
The machines they have now practically do it all for you-you can set the computer and let it go but they are much more expensive. Just look at some of the quilts-made with new machines and not hand sewn.
But you can sew stuffed animals or other crafts where the focus is not on the garment itself. Many people are into monogramming which is also by a machine but can be costly.
If you truly are interested, find your local home extension agent. They will know people-maybe you can meet some elderly lady who would love to pass on her skills. Our 4H is handled by the county extension agent so google it or look in the phone book. Another think you could do is watch public access television-they have many sewing programs to watch.
I don't know how to crochet but along the same lines of at home work. Lots of girls are wearing crocheted head bands.
W.C. answers from Lexington on May 20, 2011
I would suggest you contact your local sewing guild. Ours recently gave a n introductory lesson to my MOPs group and from that we've formed a free beginner's class. The recommendation has been on a machine that you go to every dealer (NOT a fabric store) and try them all without being upsold to find a machine that fits your body, is sufficient for a beginner, and is something you like. From there I would look on Ebay or Craigslist once you know what you want. However, if you get a cheapy $100 walmart machine don't expect it to get you anywhere as it wont keep tension, will break needles, snag your material, and frustrate you so utterly that you will never want to utter the word "sew" again. Plus they can't be repaired, whereas if you purchase a good used one from a dealer you can get repair and maintenance when you need it. As with most things, expect to get what you pay for. I'd expect a decent beginner model to start about $600, unless you find a great deal on Ebay. I would totally recommend a Janome with a pedal governor.
One of the instructors we met has about 10 machines but her favorite has been a 40 year machine that is STILL going....and small enough to pack in an overnight bag.
Having experience with mega-frustrating machines as a teenager, find something decent and buy it used or find a friend with a decent one and borrow it. Also, have a special room set aside that you can close off so your kids can't get into needles, thread, pins, etc and get hurt or totally mess up your project. Or at least a cabinet you can put everything away in and lock up for the night. Finally, I'd recommend spending the time and money to take private lessons from a qualified individual as recommended by peer sites and dealers. Or, find a friend or two to help burden the cost. Heck, I found 15 without even hardly trying!
Good luck if you decide to go for it! :D
C.W. answers from Allentown on May 20, 2011
I sew for my own family (mostly diapers and lounge pants). I used to flirt with the idea of selling my wares. It is NOT something I'd recommend to a novice.
For one thing, the competition is fierce, and the successes are the women with the most talent and, usually, the most time.
For another, mommas are tough customers. A spot of sloppy stitching or a crooked seam will have them demanding their money back and possibly you out the time and materials.
And the last - even with 4 years experience, it still takes me almost two hours to make a diaper from start to finish... if I don't have kids interrupting me. The cost of materials plus a fair hourly wage would result in a very expensive diaper that looks *just* on the wrong side of professional.
Now, a serger and a snap press would make it much faster and neater... and cost a heck of a lot more! I'd have to spend a lot of hours ignoring my children to recoup that cost.
Seriously, leave it to the pros.
Trade your outgrown diapers in and you'll probably make more money (or credit) that way!
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