K.F. asks from Albuquerque, NM on November 13, 2007
Miscarriage Symptoms
Hi! My name is K.. I was wondering how to know if you have miscarried for sure? I have done my research online about miscarriage symptoms & know that they are similar to menstration. I had a period October 22nd & then again November 7th. It's not uncommon for me to miss cycles but VERY out of the ordinary for me to have periods 3 weeks apart. So, How do you know if you have miscarried? If I didn't have any idea I could have been pregnant & the only indication is that I had back to back periods 3 weeks apart. A little history, if it helps. When I was pregnant with my first I didn't know I was pregnant, we found out when I was 10 weeks along. The year before I got pregnant I had 4 periods all year. Is it possible I miscarrieg? How would I know for sure?
Thank you for any help you can give.
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M.B. answers from Albuquerque on November 14, 2007
Hi K.!
It can be difficult to tell if you have had a miscarrage especially if you were not that far along. Usually if you miscarry you will have very heavy bleeding and some very big clots will come out. You usually have very bad cramps also, feels like you have to push something out. Hope this helps a little.
A.M. answers from Phoenix on November 16, 2007
I have not miscarried before, but i was with my sister-in-law at the time of hers. Her symptonms were, extreme cramping, a lot of pressure, and them she passed a clot and then all her symptoms went away. I hope this helps in some way and I wish you luck. Definatley check with your doctor as well..
J.L. answers from Austin on November 14, 2007
I agree with these posts. I thought I was having a miscarriage with my third child around 10 weeks. I had the cramps and the bleeding and the hospital put me on bed rest for a weekend until I got into the doctor's office to have it confirmed. It turned out to not be a miscarriage, but a non cancerous tumor of some sort that went away on its own during pregnancy and was no big deal. To be sure I would want to see the doctor.
D.C. answers from Phoenix on November 16, 2007
Call the doctor ASAP
K.D. answers from Denver on November 15, 2007
I'm sorry to hear of your difficulties. Miscarriages are more the norm for me. In fact, I'm hoping right now not to be on the path to #5. Without a blood test (for HCG levels), a confirmed pregnancy test, or an ultrasound, there is now way to know for sure. If you have concerns, talk to your doctor. My family doctor gave my a referral to an infertility specialist that gave me lots of good answers. All the while my normal OB/GYN said everything was normal. It wasn't! We have had great success with normal pregnancies and fewer miscarriages as a result of having seen the specialist. If your ob doesn't do anything, I would check out someone more specialized. I know a great doctor in the Lakewood/Wheatridge area if you need a recommendation. I haven't seen him personally yet. I "accidently" got pregnant, so now I have to go to my regular OB before I can see him. It's a fun problem. :) I hope you get some answers. I know not knowing is frustrating.
J.D. answers from Las Vegas on November 15, 2007
The best thing to do is to go to the doctor. In a case where you're not sure, I think it's best to find out because if you were, you may need a D&C, or you may not have miscarried at all but still may be pregnant.
Go to the doctor. :)
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