Men & Illness

Him: Babe, I don't feel good. My head hurts.
Me: We have tylenol, advil, or excedrin pms. Take one.
Him: Ok (he says piteously with his eyes half shut)

10 minutes go by

Him: Man this headache won't go away.
Me: Whad didja take for it:
Him: Nothing yet (as he looks quickly to the side)
Me: That'll do it
Him: I think I'm gonna go lay down
Me: Are you gonna take the meds. You might need the excedrin.
Him: Ok, I'm going upstairs will you bring it to me?
Me: So when you were 10 feet from it you didn't want it, but now that you are going to another level of our home, you want me to BRING it to you.
Him: Yeah, if that's cool
Me: So, are you gonna need a drink with that
Him: You're the best babe.

O........M.........G.

The people that will do the least to keep themselves well are also the ones that are the biggest babies when they are sick.

God bless you, Lucky, and God help him. I absolutely agree that YOU should just save yourself the hoo-ha and make the appointment and drive him there if need be.

Hope everyone in your whole house feels better soon

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Ugh. Men and illness. Also know as oil & water.

He's old enough to know that he needs an antibiotic for a sinus infection. Make an appt FOR him, especially of he's home & lying around.

And in the meantime, by popular demand, watch The Man Cold:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VbmbMSrsZVQ

(poor bunny)

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With my ex I had to trick him into going. Usually i made the appt figured out some way to get him in the car without telling him where we were going and took him there myself.

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Since I've had kids I get sick maybe once a year where he would have to take over things. However I do get headaches often. My husband plays it to the top of the hill when he gets sick. I tell him to go to the doc and then he waits till he can barely move or breath to go, and there is a walk in clinic not far from here either. Uuugghhhh. He hates going to the doc. He had an abscess under his arm shortly after we started dating and took him about a week to get it checked out. Turned out to be a spider bite and the area was infected badly, where they had to "stuff" the hole w/ gauze. It was nasty. Then he had a spot on his leg for like a month that ended up being ring worm , when I told him to get checked out when we first noticed it! Men - can't live w/ 'em, can't live w/out 'em. haha. :P But gotta love 'em.

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if he won't go to the Dr,
Get him some Aleve D.
If he doesn't take it it's on him.
You've done all you can and I don't blame you for being fed up with it.

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I HEAR ya sister!

Mine has learned the HARD way about taking care of himself. He developed type 2 diabetes, had gastric by-pass surgery and has FINALLY gotten the BIG PICTURE that his health is NO JOKE. You do what you can but its up to HIM.

Don't you just want to choke them when they act so stupid?

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We have been married 25 years and I can count on one hand the number of times he has been sick! I on the other hand, have had several major illnesses. He has been terrific. When he is sick, I want to help him and do for him to repay all the kindness he has shown me!

You know its love when they bath you and help you go to the bathroom after your major back surgery!

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My husband's ear was stopped up and causing him pain for more than a year when we first got together. The man couldn't even hear out of that ear!!! He FINALLY went to the doctor and got it "blown out" or whatever. "Oh, I feel so much better . . . and I can hear again!" DUH!!!!! He's gotten better about going to the doctor when he is sick, but he's a bit of a baby when he's not feeling well.

Can you make your husband an appointment and tell him to go?

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Men dont like to think there could be something wrong with them. They think they are tough and can take it or get over it on their own, which is funny since, when they do get sick they are the biggest babies about it. Last spring we both went thru the same series of bugs, and I went to the Dr. I had bronchitis and pneumonia and had developed asthma. He had the same symptoms and refused to go. One morning, as he coughed and wheezed his way out the door for work, I told him, either call and make an appointment or dont come home! Guess he took me seriously because he called later to say he had been to the Dr and had inhalers and meds and wondered if it was ok to come home...lol... silly man.

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Lisa C. --- That is so my husband!!! I have to deal with that everytime the hubby gets sick. He is a baby!.
"Honey, I don't feel good, I'm gonna stay home from work." ok, but you need to make an appt to get in to see the dr. so you can be back at work as soon as possible. "I'll be fine tomorrow." tomorrow rolls around and still sick and has to stay home again.... I usually call and make the appt for him and tell him to be there and what time. His complaint is that it costs money to go to the dr and get prescriptions. My rebuttal--- not as much as you being sick off work... Besides, I go to great lengths to not get sick!
Not sure why guys are like this....

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AHH one of life's little mysteries. . .
It is such a man thing. My husband played rugby on a broken (Hairline fracture of the fibula) for three weeks before he finally got an Xray oh, and then a CAST!

Can you slip anything into his drink/food to knock him out and get him the rest he needs? Beyond that, I would try comming at it from a financial standpoint - hey, ifyou go to the doctor and get meds it is like $30 copay and at most $150 for meds (at most) vs. being hospitalized. Please, for the sake of our pocketbook - go to the doc.
Good luck!

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My husband is the one that won't complain unless it's REALLY BAD. And by that time, he's already made the appt.

I AM the one that lets things go forever and whine about how I feel... So, the only thing I can say is you won't make him do anything. I'd just simply say that if he doesn't want to see the Dr, then stop whining.

I'm very like your husband. I start with the sinus infections or strep throat, bronchitis, bronchial pneumonia..... That seems to linger all winter long.

I already had pinkeye, sinus infection, and tonsilitis this fall. I was ill most of September. Of course I got the pinkeye treated immediately, but the sinus infection was the one that lasted all month [even after the 1st antibiotic]. I waited 15 days after my 1st antibiotic was completed before I went back in and found out I had that sinus infection still PLUS tonsilitis. They put me on 875mg of Augmentin twice a day for 10 days. Oops.

I have to laugh, why do we have to ask our grown up men to go to the doctor?And my experience is that in addition to letting these things linger they whine and whine. Oh my gosh. They have colds and we had children. Go figure.