S.K. asks from Mishawaka, IN on July 07, 2008
Manic Panic Hair Color in Dark Hair?
My son is 11 and wants to have green and black streaks in his hair. (he's a little skater-guy) ;-) I've always said I would be an open-minded mom, and be supportive of self-expression as long as my kids are good little citizens, get good grades, and are not into any kind of trouble. He can't have crazy hair in elementary school (he's going into 6th grade) so we are just looking for a semi-permanent hair dye for the summer. We've been looking into manic panic hair dye, but the more I'm reading it seems like the hair should be bleached before coloring if you want it to show up well. I DO NOT want to bleach his hair... he's just too young to mess with it that much, we don't want anything permanent. My question is, if we don't bleach his hair, will the streaks show up, or will it just be a waste of money?
Thanks in advance! :o)
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K.P. answers from Toledo on July 08, 2008
You are the mom and need to take charge!
If it were my son, I probably (with great debate) would let him put the green & black streaks in his hair, no bleaching or total color changes. Even if it doesn't show up, but only until school starts! Then back to normal hair color without colors! I would not like it, but I would have at least allowed him to do what he wanted, but with control!
It's important to pick you battles, but if you give in to his every want at this age, he'll want more as he gets older.
Good luck!!
K.
A.L. answers from Columbus on July 08, 2008
My son wanted green hair for a while (It was a phase.) He is a dark brunet and we had to bleach his hair blond and then the green dye would hold. It was the only way. The green dye lasted for about 8-10 weeks. If you want just a summer dye job I don't think this would work.
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M.H. answers from Lafayette on July 09, 2008
My neice has dark brown hair and every time I see her she has a different color streaked through it! Sometimes it looks pretty cool and sometimes it looks kind of funny. Last week it was bright purple and it looked pretty good!! There are temporary dies that should wash out in 8 shampoos. Let him experiment. It's only hair and he can shave it all off it if really looks bad!!
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M.M. answers from Fort Wayne on July 08, 2008
Hi S.,
I am a hairstylist and think self expression is awesome and I give you kudos for considering it! It depends on how dark his hair is on whether or not it will show up. It is a fact that if he is looking for a bright color, you do have to bleach it to blonde first. In the hair world, we have levels of haircolor. 1-10, 1 being black and 10 being lightest blonde. I'd say if he's anywhere between a 1 and a 5 (light brown) it's not going to be worth your money. But hey, it may be worth a try for his sake. Manic Panic isn't really that much $. Good luck!
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D.Y. answers from Cincinnati on July 08, 2008
Hi S.;
Tell your son about an old man who sat staring at a young man who had dyed his hair many colors - red - yellow - purple - green stripes in his hair.
The young man asked the old man - if he had a problem - the old man replied ----
No problem - as a younger man I slept with a parrott and I was wondering if you may be my son.
Maybe this will make him think about what people will think of his hair of many colors.
Sincerely:
D. Y.
D.T. answers from Muncie on July 07, 2008
Go nuts, but go professional. Ask a hairdresser and you can always buzz cut his hair when school rolls around. In fact tell him that, if he wants permanent, then he has to have it all off by school.
P.R. answers from Indianapolis on July 08, 2008
I would use Ice Gel. It is true that blue doesn't show up real well, but their greens, reds, etc. do show up in dark hair and if his hair isn't black a black gel will do the trick. The nice thing is it washes out so if you and he are going someplace like church, a family reunion, etc., he won't have the color in his hair. When you get into the semi-permanent colors to put in a lighter color you have to use a higher volume of peroxide for it to take and semi-permanent does not mean it is not permanent and will wash out, it won't. As a cosmetologist I see where this happens a lot! The words semi-permanent are mistaken by consumers. If you put dye or tint in your hair it is dyed or tinted.
A.A. answers from Evansville on July 08, 2008
The best stuff to get is Beyond the Zone hair color, it washes out and is not harmful to the hair. you can get it at Sally's beauty Supply if they still have it. I used it on my son and it washed right out and you did not have to bleach it at all.
A.A. answers from Columbus on July 08, 2008
Hello!
My 13 year old son is also the little skateboarder and insisted his father (a hairdresser) bleach his hair...we have an ultra conservative family so they were more bothered than us. We did so the week before school was out so he could show his friends, but with the promise he would cut it out for a family wedding next week. It really looked pretty good and he was much easier to find in a crowd. My mother would not speak to us for a couple weeks but we all lived through it and happy to say he held his end up last night and happily cut it for the wedding. You have a great time to do it because - maybe he can get agree to get his cut out BEFORE school starts - it would be grown out by then anyway or need to be redone --it is so much better than other things than can get into and it did not encourage him to do body piercings or tatoos - he was happy with his "do". Best Wishes! - A.
K.P. answers from Toledo on July 08, 2008
You are the mom and need to take charge!
If it were my son, I probably (with great debate) would let him put the green & black streaks in his hair, no bleaching or total color changes. Even if it doesn't show up, but only until school starts! Then back to normal hair color without colors! I would not like it, but I would have at least allowed him to do what he wanted, but with control!
It's important to pick you battles, but if you give in to his every want at this age, he'll want more as he gets older.
Good luck!!
K.
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